Tired of Dating? 6 Things You Can Do
Maybe you feel like dating’s no longer worth it. Or like Tinder is starting to become a huge black hole. If you’re tired of dating, I wish you were here so I could shake you. Repeat after me: Dating is supposed to be fun! But nowadays, it’s so easy to feel like it’s not. Today’s […]
How Dating a Narcissist Changes You
Madonna claims to have tapped into the supernatural world to remove radiation from a lake in Ukraine. Playboy model Jenny McCarthy was flummoxed when, after presenting irrefutable evidence that MMR vaccines caused autism to the NIH, they still refused to acknowledge her findings and withdraw the vaccines from the market. Along with being celebrities, blonde at […]
Toxic Relationships with Women & Avoiding Them Altogether
You know you’re in an unhealthy situation when the theme song of your relationship is Britney Spear’s Toxic. If the sub-par falsetto isn’t enough of a sign, the backhanded compliments, gaslighting, and rude behavior should be. Whatever the case may be, these are all signs of a toxic relationship. Toxic Relationships Figuring out if your […]
How To Stop Pleasing People But Still Be Nice (In Dating)
Even before she finishes the request you feel your lips beginning to take form in the shape of a yes. People-pleasing has become such a part of your identity that it’s now a knee-jerk reaction to requests. You have a habit of appeasing people when in work, social, and romantic settings – but enough is […]
What is Gaslighting in Dating & How to Recover From It
Gaslighting is a form of manipulation. It can show itself in many ways but usually manifests itself in the form of lying and making the victim question their own reality. It can be a form of manipulative revisionist history, it can be scapegoating, it can be seeding doubt, but however it takes form, it ultimately […]
Feeling Romantically Lonely and Want to Change? Here’s How…
In 2019 Pew Research found that 4 out of every 10 adults ages 25-54 were single. That translates to pretty much 38% of adults being single. These numbers have been creeping up over time. It’s fair to say that more Americans are single than ever before. But this isn’t out of choice. Studies show at […]
Dating with Asperger’s: 11 Tips for Men
Dating with Asperger’s? You’re not alone. We help men with Aspergers find love everyday in our coaching program, Dating Decoded. That’s why, in this article, I’m going to give you 11 tips that will supercharge your dating experience. And remember: just because you have Asperger’s doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a fun and fulfilling romantic […]
9 Ways Childhood Trauma Manifests in Dating
The seed of our personality is planted in our youth. It germinates, sprouts, and grows at rapid pace. By the time we’re adults, there’s little that can be done to change who we are. The experiences we have as children have an outsized influence on who we become and how we behave as romantic partners. […]
What is Mosting in Dating & How to Steer Clear of It?
If love-bombing and ghosting had a baby it’d be mosting. As if inundating someone with love-dovey messages prematurely or never responding to texts after a date wasn’t bad enough. Mosting combines the worst aspects of these two dating trends. Mosting is when you come on super strong only to subsequently ghost a new flame. As […]
What is Benching in Dating & How to Get Off Her Bench & Into the Game
There are so many new dating terms that Wordle could create a dating-specific offshoot and I’d still need more than six guesses for all five tiles to light up green. The mixture of pandemic dating, the ubiquity of technology, and just humans being humans mean that there’s always some new dating habit that needs figuring […]