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Not Having Sex? Why Is No One Having Sex Anymore And How You Can Avoid The Trend

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In 2018, just 23% of adult Americans had sex. Yet this stat can be misguiding. Of course older people tend to have less sex and still make up a substantial…

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Grande-ing is a New Dating Trend to Be Thankful For

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After a year of cringe-worthy dating trends, we can enter 2019 with a new one that you’ll actually want to get on board with. Originally coined by dating website Plenty…

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The New Colton Underwood ‘Bachelor’ Promo is a Glorious Trainwreck

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Have you ever had a stress dream? I had one last night. In the dream, I was hosting Thanksgiving for upcoming The Bachelor lead, Colton Underwood, and his gaggle of contestants. Colton…

Dating Apps

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How to Start a Conversation on Tinder for Guys

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Wondering how to start a conversation on Tinder? While it used to be the “hookup app” that nobody really took seriously, Tinder is now a huge part of how we…

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10 Subtle Signs You’re Addicted to Dating Apps

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The world of dating apps sucks you in slowly. First, you put your profile up with high hopes. You check for notifications constantly. Then, you find your dream woman (or…

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Is Hinge Free?

Emyli Lovz | Dating Applications | No Comments

Hinge was released in 2012 and has been stealing hearts ever since. The app that’s “designed to be deleted” has over 3 million users in the US and has made…

Online Dating

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50 Online Dating First Message Examples For Guys That Work

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A first impression is everything. But when that first impression is reduced to a single line it becomes magnified. If meeting someone in person, you have time to redeem yourself…

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Is Elite Singles Free? What You Should Know Before Signing Up

Emyli Lovz | Online Dating | No Comments

We’ve all been raised with the maxim, “If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is” tucked snugly into the back of our minds. Should we get a…

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45 of the Best POF Headlines for Guys That Make a Statement

Emyli Lovz | Online Dating | No Comments

As far as dating websites are concerned, Plenty Of Fish reigns supreme. Boasting over 80 million members, POF claims to add another 55,000 more everyday. POF has been around since…


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What To Do When A Girl Just Wants To Be Friends

Emyli Lovz | Strategy | No Comments

You were shooting for the end zone but wound up in the friend zone. Now you’re in a position of wondering what to do when a girl just wants to…

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I Need a Girlfriend Right Now…. What Should I Do?

Emyli Lovz | Strategy | No Comments

Let’s be honest: Casual dating definitely has its perks. But at one point or another, you might find yourself thinking that you need a girlfriend. But wanting a girlfriend and…

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What Do Women Look for in a Man When Dating Him?

Emyli Lovz | Strategy | No Comments

If you asked 100 women, “What do women look for in a man when dating him?” you’d probably get a bunch of different answers. But if you looked deeper, you’d…

First Date Tips

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She Didn’t Text Me Back After The First Date, Now What?

Emyli Lovz | First Date | No Comments

Randall Munroe is a NASA-roboticist that likes to apply his nerdy brain to answering life’s more absurd question. While taking a break from engineering robotic arms that would be installed…

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How to Have a Successful First Date By Controlling These 8 Variables

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So, you finally got her to agree to go out with you, and now it’s game time. No doubt, you may have some nerves (unless you’ve been MegaDating, in which…

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What To Do On A First Date With A Woman To Assure Your Success

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To begin, give yourself a congratulatory pat on the back. Having a woman respond in the affirmative when you ask her out instead of opting for a night of Netflix…


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I Broke Up With My Girlfriend And I Miss Her

Emyli Lovz | Confidence | No Comments

It seems paradoxical doesn’t it? You break up with her, but now you’re considering an exorcism just to get her out of your mind. Surely this wasn’t the intended outcome,…

What To Do When You've Been Rejected By a Woman

What to Do When You’ve Been Rejected by a Woman

Emyli Lovz | Confidence | No Comments

Getting your hopes up about someone, only to be rejected, is the absolute worst. It’s enough to make you want to crawl into bed, never to be seen again (or…

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Why You Should Use MegaDating When Getting Over a Divorce

Emyli Lovz | Confidence | No Comments

Getting over a divorce can seem like an intimidating feat. No one anticipates a divorce when they get married. To go from building a life with someone to dividing everything…


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Are We Dating? 8 Tips for Having the “What Are We” Talk

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Just a couple decades ago it seemed as though there was a limited number of ways that a romantic relationship could be defined. Either two people were dating, they weren’t,…

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How to Tell a Girl You Like Her Without Coming Off Desperate

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All the greatest writers abide by the same maxim, “show, don’t tell.” To tell is to explicitly tell the reader how a character feels. To show however is to describe…

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How to Get Out of Your Head On a Date

Emyli Lovz | Conversation | No Comments

There aren’t many situations that cause as much self-analysis as a first or second date. If you’re someone who is desperate to get out of your head on a date,…


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The Pros & Cons Of Ending A Long Term Relationship

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There is no duration of time that defines a long-term relationship. Rather, you know it when you see it. Such a term has unfolded when couples live together, co-parent felines,…

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I’m Dating A Married Woman By Accident. What Should I Do?

Emyli Lovz | Relationships | No Comments

This story rarely ends well. Despite what you know, you persevere. Why throw away a relationship that has been nothing but perfect, apart from this minor hiccup? Before you make…

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How to Find the RIGHT Relationship in 2019

Emyli Lovz | Relationships | No Comments

The holidays, including Valentine’s Day, have come to an end. If you’re closing out the “holiday single season” feeling unlucky in love, don’t fret. Instead, put romance at the top…


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What Happens When There’s No Physical Contact On The Second Date

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Touch. It’s the first sense a baby acquires. Even before they can scream they’re already palpating the womb in search of information. Touch is the magic that waitresses conjure to…

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11 Ways to Show Affection to a Woman You’re Dating

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How many times have you thought everything was going fine with a woman you just started dating, only to find out later that she feels like you “just don’t care?”…

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Female Body Language: 11 Types You Need To Be Aware Of

Emyli Lovz | Attraction | No Comments

Body language is the quickest form of communication and largely influences how we are perceived by others. Nothing is more truthful than what our body language conveys. Hence the saying…


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Is Dating Coaching Part of Your Company’s Wellness Program?

Emyli Lovz | Health | No Comments

In 1943 an intellectual bomb in the form of Maslow’s seminal paper, “A Theory of Human Motivation” exploded on the psychology community. Within the paper, Maslow unpacks a hierarchy of…

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How to Reach Your Dating Goals If You Have Reactive Attachment Disorder in Adults (RAD)

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Do you feel like you are always blowing it with women? And you don’t know why you can’t seem to date anyone for more than a few weeks? If so,…

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13 Tips on How to Deal with Anxiety When Dating a Woman You Really Like

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Remember when you were a kid and you had a crush on the popular girl? And you didn’t think that she would ever give you the time of day? I’m…

SF Bay Area

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How to Date in San Francisco When Everyone Tells You It’s Too Hard

Emyli Lovz | SF Bay Area | No Comments

Believe me, I hear it all the time: “It’s too hard to date in San Francisco” or “Why is it so hard to date in San Francisco?”  But as a…

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10 Reasons Why You Don’t Need a San Francisco Matchmaker

Emyli Lovz | SF Bay Area | No Comments

Dating can be tricky no matter where you live. But if you live in a major metropolitan city like San Francisco, finding romance can be especially difficult. San Francisco is…

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Top Alternatives to Online Dating in the San Francisco Bay Area

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Are you tired of swiping? Bored of sending the same “How are you?” and “What are you up to?” messages to strangers over and over again? Ashamed by setting up…

3 Ways a Dating Coach for Men Can Help You

Are you new to dating and not sure where to start? Maybe you’re a dating veteran, but just can’t find Ms. Right? Whatever the situation, you’ve landed on my website because you want to attract more women, learn how to avoid the friendzone, or reach goals like getting a girlfriend or finding a wife.

Hiring a qualified dating coach for men can cut down on the amount of time it would normally take you to reach these goals. However, not all dating coaches are created equal. Make sure you choose a coach who is qualified – like me, they’ve done the real life work, and can use their past experiences to create rock-solid strategies for their clients. As promised, here are 3 ways a qualified dating coach can help you:

  1. A qualified dating coach for men acts as your personal dating consultant. They will fully listen as you explain your current challenges and roadblocks. They will create realistic, individualized strategies for you to follow. They’ll also analyze all of your previous dating patterns and trends, which may uncover subliminal reasons why you may be failing.
  2. A qualified dating coach holds you accountable for reaching your goals. They will not let your potential limiting beliefs or bad habits get in the way. They give you an outside, objectionable opinion that you may not always agree with. Last, but not least, they limit any change-pain by creating logical, step by step action plans.
  3. A qualified dating coach will speed up your success rate. You might be asking me what this means? Well, for example, let’s say that you want to learn how to play poker (with an end goal of having a side income). And let’s say you decide to learn this new game all by yourself. Chances are you’ll lose a lot of money with this trial and error strategy. The same goes for dating – it’s a skill, and it must be learned. Having a dating coach at your disposal to ask how, why, when, and what is a surefire way for you to increase your odds of getting date #2, date #3, and eventually to your goals.

2 Online Dating Tips for Men That Will Get You Responses

Are you wondering why only 1 of 50 women respond to your online dating messages? Did you land here looking for online dating tips to increase this low 2% response rate? If so, you found the right site. Every day, I help single men navigate the treacherous waters of online dating. I’m here to support you whether you’re looking for my personal help as your dating coach, or if you just want to browse my online dating articles.

First things first- online dating is super competitive. As a dating coach for men, I’ve seen it all. You need to be smart and tactful to stand out from the thousands of single men in your city who are all competing for the same high quality women. Most attractive women receive up to 50 to 100 messages per day. Do you think they have time to read all these messages? Of course not! So here are a couple of my favorite online dating tips to help you get started:

1. In your first 10 words to her, you need to convey commonality and relate through shared interests. I know what you are thinking: “Emyli, does this mean I need to read through her entire profile?” Nope – be smart with your time. Most dating sites have an “interests” section – just scroll there to do some quick recon work. She’s more likely to click on your message if she sees in the message preview area that you have something in common with her.

For example, do you both love the musician Drake? If so, ask her what her favorite Drake song is. Then back it up with your favorite is and why, so she knows you aren’t full of it. And guys, don’t lie or force something that isn’t there. It will only lead to a failure.

2. One of my favorite online dating tips is teaching my mega-messaging strategy! Mega-messaging is the process of messaging many women at the same time, with the goal soon thereafter, MegaDating. Understand that online dating is a numbers game. The more women you effectively message means the more responses you get. Period. So how can I help you save time and energy when messaging hundreds of women? Download my mega-messaging template here.

2 First Date Tips for Men that Work

Do you have a first date coming up? Looking for some tips? Not sure whether to take her to dinner, for a coffee, on a hike, or something else? If you talk with 10 dating coaches, chances are you’ll get different answers. However, after my 100 date experiment in 2011, the answer was very clear to me. Here are a couple of my favorite first date tips that will lead you to what needs to be your goal – securing date #2.

1. First dates should under 1 hour with no more than $10 to $15 spent out of your pocket. That’s right guys – don’t even think of inviting her to dinner. Not only is a first date dinner an unnecessary spend of money, but you aren’t making her work for much. Going to dinner with you should be a prize that she can win after two previous interactions with you.

So what can you do for under 1 hour that’s no more than $15? Lots of things. Invite her to coffee, but just don’t sit in the coffee shop – go out for a walk and explore your city. You could take her for a single drink at a nice lounge near where she lives. Maybe you can find something from her online dating profile that she enjoys doing that is under $15.

2. Another one of my first date tips for guys is to let her know during the beginning of date #1 that you have something planned in about one hour. Doing this will relieve any timing related pressure on the both of you. Plus, it makes you look social and fun- that you have a base of friends or something important you have to do.

NOTE: It’s really important that you actually have something planned with friends after this 1 hour date. Why? Well, if you are enjoying your time with her, you could invite her to join your next activity. Women love spur of the moment opportunities. Plus she probably planned an initial couple of hours of her time for your date anyway. The great news is, her coming along with you ultimately means a guaranteed second date.