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In Defense of Colton’s Virginity: The Bachelorette Episode 7 Recap

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Episode 7 of this season’s The Bachelorette on ABC came with several highlights, the most talked about moment being given to former NFL player Colton Underwood’s big confession — he’s…

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‘Freckling’ is a New Dating Trend & It’s Not as Cute as it Sounds

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When I first saw that “freckling” was the name of a new dating trend, I was initially excited. As a redhead who burns easily in the sun (sidebar: I’m moving to…

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The Crown Dating App Turns Dating into a Literal Game

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I think it’s safe to say that we all hate games when it comes to dating. Ghosting has been at the forefront of despised dating trends when it comes to…

Online Dating Tips

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45 Best Tinder Opening Lines for Guys That Work

Emyli Lovz | Online Dating | No Comments

Looking for some of the best Tinder opening lines for guys? If so, you’ve come to the right place! During my 100-date experiment, I assessed tons of online dating profiles…

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Top 5 Online Dating Photo Tips for Men Who Want More Matches

Emyli Lovz | Online Dating | No Comments

Have you been having trouble matching with women on your online dating apps? Do you swipe and swipe and swipe to seemingly no avail? It may be time to reassess…

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What is Bumble and How Do I Use It?

Emyli Lovz | Online Dating | No Comments

If you’re wondering “what is Bumble?” and want to know how to use Bumble, you’ve come to the right place. Tinder once held the coveted top spot when it came…


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How Mindful Dating Can Help You Find Your Most Ideal Girlfriend

Emyli Lovz | Strategy | No Comments

If you’re struggling in the dating world, it could be that it’s all in your head. Mindlessness is something that many people struggle with when it comes to dating and…

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6 Tips for Dating in Your Early 20s for Guys

Emyli Lovz | Strategy | No Comments

Dating in your early 20s for guys can be rough. College is over and women are no longer relegated to meeting men mainly in their classes or from fraternities. When…

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How to Make Her Miss You & Fall For You By MegaDating

Emyli Lovz | Strategy | No Comments

Are you tired of being the chaser when it comes to dating? Have you spent hours, days or even years trying to crack the code on how to make her…

First Date Tips

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Why Turning Down First Date Sex Helps You Stand Out From Other Men

Emyli Lovz | First Date | No Comments

You’re on a first date with a woman and it’s going spectacularly. You both seem to have a lot in common, the conversation is flowing easily and the chemistry between…

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Should I End a Bad Date Early if the Vibe is Off From the Start?

Emyli Lovz | First Date | No Comments

You’re on a date and it’s not going well. The moment the two of you sat down, something felt off and now you are faced with one of the most…

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What Am I Doing Wrong on the First Date?

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Hi guys, Emyli here — your dating coach for men. Different versions of the question, “What am I doing wrong on the first date?” is something I often encounter when…


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15 Reasons Why Taking an Improv Comedy Class Will Improve Your Dating Skills

Emyli Lovz | Confidence | No Comments

You don’t have to be an actor or a comedian to take an improv comedy class. Improv comedy classes are fun and come with a ton of benefits that will…

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Why Did She Reject Me?

Emyli Lovz | Confidence | No Comments

“Why did she reject me?” It’s a question I get asked a lot by my clients. Rejection is something that, no matter how often it happens, seems to leave an…

Does Height Matter to Women While Dating?

Does Height Matter to Women While Dating?

Emyli Lovz | Confidence | No Comments

Does height matter to women while dating? This is a question I’m often asked by male clients. Many of the men I speak to are concerned that being short puts…


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Why Doesn’t She Respond to My Texts?

Emyli Lovz | Conversation | No Comments

“Why doesn’t she respond to my texts?” Do you find yourself asking this question ad nauseam? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Lots of guys find themselves in a rut when…

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7 Simple Rules for Texting a Woman You Like

Emyli Lovz | Conversation | No Comments

Hey guys! Today, I’d like to share my 7 simple rules for texting a woman you like. But before I get into it, I’d like us all to take a…

How to Keep a Conversation Going with a Girl Over Text

How to Keep a Conversation Going with a Girl Over Text

Emyli Lovz | Conversation | No Comments

Hey there, it’s Emyli–America’s #1 Dating Coach and founder of Today, I’m excited to talk about how to keep a conversation going with a girl over text. It’s a…


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How to Make Her Miss You & Stay Interested When She’s Leaving Town for Several Weeks

Emyli Lovz | Relationships | No Comments

You’re in the beginning stages of dating an awesome girl and things couldn’t be going better. The problem? She’s going out of town for several weeks and you’re wondering if…

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50 Cute Things to Say to Your Girlfriend

Emyli Lovz | Relationships | No Comments

You’ve probably heard that — when it comes to a relationship — letting a girlfriend know how you feel about her goes far beyond lip service. You want to show a woman how you…

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7 Important Tips When Moving In With Your Girlfriend

Emyli Lovz | Relationships | No Comments

So you’ve graduated from my EmLovz coaching program landed a wonderful girlfriend and now things are getting serious enough that you’re thinking about moving in together. Great, right? Although this is…


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Dating Trend Roundup: Tinder Hookups, Selfie Love, and “Gatsbying”

Tracy Dye | Attraction, Trending | No Comments

Hey guys, Tracy here, coming to you this week from the beautiful (rainy) Poconos Mountains in Pennsylvania. I’m currently wondering if my Air BnB is haunted or the product of…

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Am I Good Looking Enough to Get a Girlfriend

Emyli Lovz | Attraction | No Comments

When you’re struggling in the dating world, it can be a big shot to your self-esteem. And when your confidence is in the pits, it can be easy to fall…

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How to Attract Women By Keeping Your Calendar Full

Emyli Lovz | Attraction | No Comments

If you want to know how to attract women, one of the best strategies you can use is megadating. Megadating is a dating process that involves dating several people at…


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6 Tips for Dating When You Have ADHD

Emyli Lovz | Health | No Comments

Dating can be a difficult road for anyone to navigate. When you’re dating with ADHD, the journey becomes even more complicated. Forgetfulness, becoming easily distracted and other symptoms that are…

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Completing a Tough Mudder & Some Dating Lessons I Learned Along the Climb

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There have been a lot of articles written about obstacle races and “tough mudder” events. Most of those articles tend to gravitate towards a discussion about facing down personal challenges,…

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Avoiding Dating Violence and Defeat by Harnessing It For Positive Change

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Dating is supposed to be fun: you go out, you meet new and interesting people, and you make fulfilling new connections. If you ask your friends about dating, they tell…

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Second Date Rules for Men & The Church of 8 Wheels

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If you can perform basic feats of logic, you know that if you succeed on your first date then you will need to put together a second one. If you…

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The Top 5 Strategies To Finding A Long Term Relationship in the San Francisco Bay Area

Emyli Lovz | SF Bay Area | No Comments

Are you looking for love, marriage, or a long term relationship here in the San Francisco Bay Area? Let me re-frame that…..are you STILL looking for love, marriage, or a long…

Who Pays on a First Date in the Bay Area Men or Women

Who Pays on a First Date in the Bay Area, Men or Women?

Emyli Lovz | SF Bay Area | No Comments

During my 100 date experiment back in 2011, I quickly discovered that the first date bill could be pretty awkward. Some guys had no problem picking it up, while others…

3 Ways a Dating Coach for Men Can Help You

Are you new to dating and not sure where to start? Maybe you're a dating veteran, but just can't find Ms. Right? Whatever the situation, you've landed on my website because you want to attract more women, learn how to avoid the friendzone, or reach goals like getting a girlfriend or finding a wife. And you're not alone - thousands of men land on my website each month looking for the most recent, cutting edge dating tips for men.

A qualified dating coach for men can cut down on the amount of time it would normally take you to reach these goals. However, not all dating coaches are created equal. Make sure you choose a coach who is qualified - like me, they've done the real life work, and can use their past experiences to create rock-solid strategies for their clients. As promised, here are 3 ways a qualified dating coach can help you:

  1. A qualified dating coach acts as your personal dating consultant. They will fully listen as you explain your current challenges and roadblocks. They will create realistic, individualized strategies for you to follow. They'll also analyze all of your previous dating patterns and trends, which may uncover subliminal reasons why you may be failing.
  2. A qualified dating coach holds you accountable for reaching your goals. They will not let your potential limiting beliefs or bad habits get in the way. They give you an outside, objectionable opinion that you may not always agree with. Last, but not least, they limit any change-pain by creating logical, step by step action plans.
  3. A qualified dating coach will speed up your success rate. You might be asking me what this means? Well, for example, let's say that you want to learn how to play poker (with an end goal of having a side income). And let's say you decide to learn this new game all by yourself. Chances are you'll lose a lot of money with this trial and error strategy. The same goes for dating - it's a skill, and it must be learned. Having a dating coach for men at your disposal to ask how, why, when, and what is a surefire way for you to increase your odds of getting date #2, date #3, and eventually to your goals.

2 Online Dating Tips for Men That Will Get You Responses

Are you wondering why only 1 of 50 women respond to your online dating messages? Did you land here looking for online dating tips for men to increase this low 2% response rate? If so, you found the right site. Every day, I help single men navigate the treacherous waters of online dating. I'm here to support you whether you're looking for my personal help as your dating coach, or if you just want to browse my online dating articles.

First things first- online dating is super competitive. As a dating coach, I've seen it all. You need to be smart and tactful to stand out from the thousands of single men in your city, who are all competing for the same high quality women. Most attractive women receive up to 50 to 100 messages per day. Do you think they have time to read all these messages? Of course not! So here are a couple of my favorite online dating tips to help you get started:

1. In your first 10 words to her, you need to convey commonality and relate through shared interests. I know what you are thinking: "Emyli, does this mean I need to read through her entire profile?" Nope - be smart with your time. Most dating sites have an "interests" section - just scroll there to do some quick recon work. She's more likely to click on your message if she sees in the message preview area that you have something in common with her.

For example, do you both love the musician Drake? If so, ask her what her favorite Drake song is. Then back it up with your favorite is and why, so she knows you aren't full of it. And guys, don't lie or force something that isn't there. It will only lead to a failure.

2. One of my favorite online dating tips for men is teaching my mega-messaging strategy! Mega-messaging is the process of messaging many women at the same time, with the goal soon thereafter, Megadating. Understand that online dating is a numbers game. The more women you effectively message means the more responses you get. Period. So how can I help you save time and energy when messaging hundreds of women? Download my mega-messaging template here.

2 First Date Tips for Men that Work

Do you have a first date coming up? Looking for some first date tips? Not sure whether to take her to dinner, for a coffee, on a hike, or something else? If you talk with 10 dating coaches, chances are you'll get different answers. However, after my 100 date experiment in 2011, the answer was very clear to me. Here are a couple of my favorite first date tips that will lead you to what needs to be your goal - securing date #2.

1. First dates should under 1 hour with no more than $10 to $15 spent out of your pocket. That's right guys - don't even think of inviting her to dinner. Not only is a first date dinner an unnecessary spend of money, but you aren't making her work for much. Going to dinner with you should be a prize that she can win after two previous interactions with you.

So what can you do for under 1 hour that's no more than $15? Lots of things. Invite her to coffee, but just don't sit in the coffee shop - go out for a walk and explore your city. You could take her for a single drink at a nice lounge near where she lives. Maybe you can find something from her online dating profile that she enjoys doing that is under $15.

2. Another one of my first date tips for men is to let her know during the beginning of date #1 that you have something planned in about one hour. Doing this will relieve any timing related pressure on the both of you. Plus, it makes you look social and fun- that you have a base of friends or something important you have to do.

NOTE: It's really important that you actually have something planned with friends after this 1 hour date. Why? Well, if you are enjoying your time with her, you could invite her to join your next activity. Women love spur of the moment opportunities. Plus she probably planned an initial couple of hours of her time for your date anyway. The great news is, her coming along with you ultimately means a guaranteed second date.

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