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Grande-ing is a New Dating Trend to Be Thankful For

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After a year of cringe-worthy dating trends, we can enter 2019 with a new one that you’ll actually want to get on board with. Originally coined by dating website Plenty…

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The New Colton Underwood ‘Bachelor’ Promo is a Glorious Trainwreck

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Have you ever had a stress dream? I had one last night. In the dream, I was hosting Thanksgiving for upcoming The Bachelor lead, Colton Underwood, and his gaggle of contestants. Colton…


Sneating: A New Dating Trend That Craves Chivalrous Men (Plus Dinner)

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Have you heard of sneating? No, I didn’t spell “sneaking” wrong (I edit these things, guys!) — sneating is a new(ish) dating trend that feeds on chivalrous men. The trend first made…

Online Dating

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Bumble vs Tinder: Which is Better for You?

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Vanilla versus chocolate. Star Wars versus Star Trek. Dark meat versus white meat. Bumble vs Tinder. When it comes to the great online dating app debate, are you more of a Bumble…

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Best Jewish Dating Sites and Apps for Men Who Want Marriage

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Are you looking for Jewish dating sites and apps that can effectively connect you with compatible partners? While apps like Bumble and Tinder dominate the mainstream world of online dating,…

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The Tonight Dating App Review (A Matchmaking Dating App)

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When it comes to online dating, do you find yourself spending more time messaging than going out on actual dates? Are you sick of mindlessly swiping to no avail? Enter…


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How to Change Your Nice Guy Image Without Being a Jerk

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Are you looking to change your nice guy image without being a jerk? You’ve come to the right place. I talk to a lot of guys who feel hampered by…

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How to Not Freeze Up When Talking to a Woman on a Date

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Throughout my tenure as a dating coach, there is one query that tends to come up over and over again — how to not freeze up on a date. Whether you’re…

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How to Get Back Into Dating After a Long Relationship

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Are you wondering how to get back into dating after a long relationship? Reentering the dating world can feel extremely intimidating after a long relationship. After becoming extremely comfortable with…

First Date Tips

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What to Talk About on a First Date

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Are you wondering what to talk about on a first date? First dates are nerve-wracking. You want to make a good impression and connect. However, there is a lot of…

How to Overcome Anxiety on a First Date with a Girl

How to Overcome Anxiety on a First Date

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Wondering how to overcome anxiety on a first date? You’ve come to the right place. Anxiety is often the nasty little culprit when dates go awry or when you find…

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Why Did She Act Interested During Our First Few Dates and Then Ghost Me?

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“Why did she act interested during our first few dates and then ghost me?” Oomph. That stings. Getting ghosted is arguably one of the most confusing and painful things permeating…


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Why You Should Use MegaDating When Getting Over a Divorce

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Getting over a divorce can seem like an intimidating feat. No one anticipates a divorce when they get married. To go from building a life with someone to dividing everything…

Never Give Up On Love

10 Reasons to Never Give Up On Love

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When I first embarked on my 100-date experiment, I wondered if love even existed. I didn’t know if it was possible for me. But by the end of my experiment,…

How to Overcome Nervousness On a Date

How to Overcome Nervousness On a Date

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Even the most confident of singles can fall victim to first (or even third) date jitters. If you’re wondering how to overcome nervousness on a date, you’ve come to the…


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How to Get Out of Your Head On a Date

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There aren’t many situations that cause as much self-analysis as a first or second date. If you’re someone who is desperate to get out of your head on a date,…

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Top 30 Questions to Ask a Girl You Like

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What are the top questions to ask a girl you like? When it comes to building a romantic connection with someone, the conversation is key. Moreover, you need to ask…

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How to Explain a Lack of Relationship History to a Woman

Emyli Lovz | Conversation | No Comments

If you’re asking this question yourself, it may come as a surprise that a lack of relationship history isn’t all that uncommon. In a world where social media saturates our…


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Are You In Love, Or Just Afraid To Be Alone?

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Is it really love, or are you just afraid to be alone? As a dating coach, I’ve worked extensively with single men as well as those who are in serious…

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Life After Divorce for Men: How to Cope & When to Start Dating

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The unthinkable happened: you are getting divorced (or already are). So, is there really life after divorce for men? Of course! Maybe you saw it coming, but many men don’t….

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Why Did She Push Me Away?

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“Why did she push my away?” It’s really difficult to feel a wall go up when you’re dating someone. After spending time and connecting, you’re suddenly blindsided by an icy…


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Do Women Like Bad Boys or Nice Guys? What Women Really Want

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As a Professional Matchmaker in Austin, my male clients frequently ask me if they are being too nice and that’s why they are not having success in finding love. Men…

Qualities of a Desirable Man

Top 10 Qualities of a Desirable Man

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Do you want to attract gorgeous, high-quality women? Are you ready to find the girl of your dreams? Are you fed up with being relegated to the friendzone? If so,…

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What Do You Do When You’re Intellectually Attracted But Not Physically Attracted?

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“What do you do when you’re intellectually attracted but not physically attracted?” Oomph. This wretched — albeit common — predicament in the dating world leaves many singles feeling like they’re…


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Should I Be Manscaping Before a Date?

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“Should I be manscaping before a date?” That’s quite a question. In other news, this may be the most TMI article I’ve written. But the question has been asked so,…

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Is Your Sedentary Lifestyle Putting You In a Dating Rut?

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Is your sedentary lifestyle putting you in a dating rut? A sedentary lifestyle and an unhealthy dating life may not seem mutually exclusive, but there are many ways that being…

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6 Tips for Dating When You Have ADHD

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Dating can be a difficult road for anyone to navigate. When you’re dating with ADHD, the journey becomes even more complicated. Forgetfulness, becoming easily distracted and other symptoms that are…

SF Bay Area

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10 Reasons Why You Don’t Need a San Francisco Matchmaker

Emyli Lovz | SF Bay Area | No Comments

Dating can be tricky no matter where you live. But if you live in a major metropolitan city like San Francisco, finding romance can be especially difficult. San Francisco is…

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Top Alternatives to Online Dating in the San Francisco Bay Area

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Are you tired of swiping? Bored of sending the same “How are you?” and “What are you up to?” messages to strangers over and over again? Ashamed by setting up…

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7 Things to Know if You’re Dating in San Francisco in Your 30s for Guys

Emyli Lovz | SF Bay Area | No Comments

If you’re dating in San Francisco in your 30s, you have a lot to celebrate. San Francisco is an amazing city, teaming with awesome things to do and interesting people…

3 Ways a Dating Coach for Men Can Help You

Are you new to dating and not sure where to start? Maybe you’re a dating veteran, but just can’t find Ms. Right? Whatever the situation, you’ve landed on my website because you want to attract more women, learn how to avoid the friendzone, or reach goals like getting a girlfriend or finding a wife. And you’re not alone – thousands of men land on my website each month looking for the most recent, cutting edge dating tips for men.

Hiring a qualified dating coach for men can cut down on the amount of time it would normally take you to reach these goals. However, not all dating coaches are created equal. Make sure you choose a coach who is qualified – like me, they’ve done the real life work, and can use their past experiences to create rock-solid strategies for their clients. As promised, here are 3 ways a qualified dating coach can help you:

  1. A qualified dating coach for men acts as your personal dating consultant. They will fully listen as you explain your current challenges and roadblocks. They will create realistic, individualized strategies for you to follow. They’ll also analyze all of your previous dating patterns and trends, which may uncover subliminal reasons why you may be failing.
  2. A qualified dating coach holds you accountable for reaching your goals. They will not let your potential limiting beliefs or bad habits get in the way. They give you an outside, objectionable opinion that you may not always agree with. Last, but not least, they limit any change-pain by creating logical, step by step action plans.
  3. A qualified dating coach will speed up your success rate. You might be asking me what this means? Well, for example, let’s say that you want to learn how to play poker (with an end goal of having a side income). And let’s say you decide to learn this new game all by yourself. Chances are you’ll lose a lot of money with this trial and error strategy. The same goes for dating – it’s a skill, and it must be learned. Having a dating coach at your disposal to ask how, why, when, and what is a surefire way for you to increase your odds of getting date #2, date #3, and eventually to your goals.

2 Online Dating Tips for Men That Will Get You Responses

Are you wondering why only 1 of 50 women respond to your online dating messages? Did you land here looking for online dating tips to increase this low 2% response rate? If so, you found the right site. Every day, I help single men navigate the treacherous waters of online dating. I’m here to support you whether you’re looking for my personal help as your dating coach, or if you just want to browse my online dating articles.

First things first- online dating is super competitive. As a dating coach, I’ve seen it all. You need to be smart and tactful to stand out from the thousands of single men in your city who are all competing for the same high quality women. Most attractive women receive up to 50 to 100 messages per day. Do you think they have time to read all these messages? Of course not! So here are a couple of my favorite online dating tips to help you get started:

1. In your first 10 words to her, you need to convey commonality and relate through shared interests. I know what you are thinking: “Emyli, does this mean I need to read through her entire profile?” Nope – be smart with your time. Most dating sites have an “interests” section – just scroll there to do some quick recon work. She’s more likely to click on your message if she sees in the message preview area that you have something in common with her.

For example, do you both love the musician Drake? If so, ask her what her favorite Drake song is. Then back it up with your favorite is and why, so she knows you aren’t full of it. And guys, don’t lie or force something that isn’t there. It will only lead to a failure.

2. One of my favorite online dating tips is teaching my mega-messaging strategy! Mega-messaging is the process of messaging many women at the same time, with the goal soon thereafter, Megadating. Understand that online dating is a numbers game. The more women you effectively message means the more responses you get. Period. So how can I help you save time and energy when messaging hundreds of women? Download my mega-messaging template here.

2 First Date Tips for Men that Work

Do you have a first date coming up? Looking for some tips? Not sure whether to take her to dinner, for a coffee, on a hike, or something else? If you talk with 10 dating coaches, chances are you’ll get different answers. However, after my 100 date experiment in 2011, the answer was very clear to me. Here are a couple of my favorite first date tips that will lead you to what needs to be your goal – securing date #2.

1. First dates should under 1 hour with no more than $10 to $15 spent out of your pocket. That’s right guys – don’t even think of inviting her to dinner. Not only is a first date dinner an unnecessary spend of money, but you aren’t making her work for much. Going to dinner with you should be a prize that she can win after two previous interactions with you.

So what can you do for under 1 hour that’s no more than $15? Lots of things. Invite her to coffee, but just don’t sit in the coffee shop – go out for a walk and explore your city. You could take her for a single drink at a nice lounge near where she lives. Maybe you can find something from her online dating profile that she enjoys doing that is under $15.

2. Another one of my first date tips for gys is to let her know during the beginning of date #1 that you have something planned in about one hour. Doing this will relieve any timing related pressure on the both of you. Plus, it makes you look social and fun- that you have a base of friends or something important you have to do.

NOTE: It’s really important that you actually have something planned with friends after this 1 hour date. Why? Well, if you are enjoying your time with her, you could invite her to join your next activity. Women love spur of the moment opportunities. Plus she probably planned an initial couple of hours of her time for your date anyway. The great news is, her coming along with you ultimately means a guaranteed second date.

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