When a Woman Talks About Her Past Relationships DO THIS
Do you hear those sirens? No, they’re not coming from a cop car or an ambulance. They’re coming from the friend-zone first responders—and if you can’t hear them, you might already be in deeper trouble than you realize. Because when a woman keeps bringing up her ex, you’re not just listening to stories—you’re hearing a […]
How To Respond To The “I Have A Boyfriend” Excuse
When a woman says, “I have a boyfriend,” it’s usually her polite way of letting you down easy. It’s one of the most common phrases men hear when approaching a woman — and one of the most confusing. Sometimes it’s true. She’s already committed to someone and doesn’t want to cross boundaries. Other times, it’s […]
Are We Dating? 8 Tips for Having the “What Are We” Talk
Just a couple of decades ago, it seemed as though there was a limited number of ways that a romantic relationship could be defined. Either two people were dating, they weren’t, or they were a couple. But since then, romantic relationships have evolved. In the process of this romantic liberation, things got a bit messy. […]
How to Get Out of Your Head On a Date
There aren’t many situations that cause as much self-analysis as a first or second date. If you’re someone who is desperate to get out of your head on a date, you’re not alone. The pressure that comes with a date (especially one where you’re with someone you really, really like) can elicit overwhelming anxiety in […]
What to Talk About on a Date If You Already Know the Person
What to talk about on a date if you already know the person can feel surprisingly tricky—even if you go way back. When there’s already some level of familiarity, many of the usual first date questions don’t quite fit the vibe, which can make things feel a little awkward. But no matter how well you […]
She Said She Needs Space and Time to Think, What Now?
Maybe you’ve been dating someone and out of the blue, she said she needs space. Or, worse — after months or years of being together, your girlfriend said she needs space to time and think. Is there anything more crazy-making than this situation? I totally feel your pain. Having someone you care about say they’d […]
How to Tell Someone You’re Not Interested In Dating Them Anymore (Nicely)
There are two ways this thing can play out. The first involves ripping off the bandaid and telling her you don’t want to see her anymore. The conversation may or may not involve much tact, and yes you may have rattled off an unsolicited litany of things you don’t like about her but either way, […]
How to Tell Her You’re Not Ready to Commit Yet
If Americans are good at one thing, it’s our ability to NOT commit to a romantic relationship. Over the years romantic relationships have changed. Back in our parents’ day after a date or two, it was just assumed that you and your date were “going steady.” But that just isn’t the case anymore. Nowadays, we’re […]
13 Best Date Conversation Topics That Lead to Sex
Much has been said about the younger generations. It’s said they’re lazy, entitled, horrible dancers, deranged retail investors, etc. Whether these claims hold water is up for debate. But what isn’t up for debate is the claim that they’re sexless. In 2018, 28% of men between the ages of 18-30 had no sex. We can […]
How to Make Her Laugh
Women aren’t Rubix cubes. We’re not indecipherable beings that come from Venus. We’re of the same blood and relatively similar genetic makeup as you. Making us laugh shouldn’t be hard, but sometimes it feels like it is. Chances are you can make her laugh without some massive gameplan. That being said, if you haven’t dated […]