We use tennis coaches to perfect our backhand, fitness coaches to help us get chiseled, and career coaches to work our way up that corporate ladder.

Yet for some reason, when it comes to love, we tend to rely on our friends’ advice and flail around until Cupid finally manages to stick us with an arrow.

A dating coach is the answer to your romantic struggles.

They give you the skills you need to fire your own love arrow and put Cupid out of a job (well, at least the good ones can).

But even though the right dating coach can quickly equip you with the skills you need to get the girl, to many, they’re still a foreign concept.

Let’s demystify what a dating coach is and how they operate by answering some of the most commonly asked questions we receive here at emlovz.

What Is A Dating Coach For Men?

A dating coach is your romantic cheat code.

They specialize in giving you the romantic skills you need to find your perfect partner (at least that’s what we do).

A high-quality dating coach will have a bonafide philosophy and systematic approach to helping their students go from Michael Cera to Michael B. Jordan.

Specifically, a dating coach for men is just that. A dating coach that specializes in coaching men.

We both know that men and women face very different challenges when dating. A coach who has developed a program tailor-made for men can’t use that same program to help women. It just won’t translate.

If you’re a man, looking for a coach, it’s best to team up with a dating coach who specifically works with men. A dating coach for men will intimately understand the challenges men face and how to overcome them.

Is It Worth Paying For A Dating Coach?

That all depends on three factors.

1) How important is finding love to you?

2) How much are you willing to pay to find it?

3) Is your coach the real deal?

These are questions only you can answer.

What I will tell you is that before dishing out thousands for a dating coach you should do your due diligence and make sure they have dozens and dozens of positive reviews. The only dating coach worth teaming up with are good ones. Make damn sure you know who you’re teaming up with.

How Much Is A Dating Coach On Average?

The price of a dating coach will vary greatly.

How much you pay often depends on their style of coaching and experience level.

Newer coaches with less experience prefer one-on-one Zoom calls and charge per session. Some charge every time they go out in the field with you. More experienced coaches who understand that transformation takes at least 90 days, will charge you for a comprehensive program. These are the coaches who know what they’re doing and help their students find love, not just a late-night bed warmer.

For this reason it’s difficult to pin down an average. Coaches will charge as little as $45 per session or $15k to enroll you in their program.

While it’s difficult to pin down an average, the abundance of coaches also means there is a coach out there that fits your budget. But you also get out what you put in, so going for the cheapest solution won’t always yield the best results. That said, it’s important for you to get clear on your dating goals and to find a coach aligned with those outcomes.

What Is The Most Successful Dating Site For Men?

This is a tough one.

While students often ask us which site or dating application to use we say that you should never limit yourself to one app.

There are a lot of fish out there. Downloading and using one app is akin to casting just one net.

We recommend our students download Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge (at the very least).

But which is the most successful? That all depends on your aims and how you use certain apps.

Tinder is the most popular and is often used by younger singles.

Bumble is what you use when you graduate from Tinder. It’s geared towards slightly older users.

Hinge is the dating app designed to be deleted. 

If I were forced to recommend one app to use right now to help you meet your next girlfriend, I’d say Hinge. Countless students of ours have only had good experiences with Hinge. The app is the least superficial of the three and mostly has users who are serious about finding long-term partners.

But how successful you are all depends on you… and your dating coach.

What Is The Average Age On Hinge?

Hinge doesn’t make known the average age of its users.

We’ve had students from 19 to 76 years old find love using Hinge so don’t let your age hold you back from trying it.

Is 29 Too Old For Tinder?

Nope. In fact according to Statistica, 19% of users are between the ages of 30 and 44. That means there are more users within this age group than in the 18-29 age bracket.

How Do I Find The Right Dating Coach?

Shopping for a dating coach is just like shopping for a new car.

There are plenty of factors you want to take into account before settling on a new coach.

You want to take into account your goals, the dating coach’s mission and company values, the coach’s focus area (are they helping men get laid or find lasting love), the cost, teaching style, what you’ll learn, their availability, and third-party reviews. 

More than anything I’d recommend learning how the coach will turn you into the dating maven you want to become. Understand exactly how they operate AND what you’ll learn. If a coach can’t articulate what you’ll learn or how you’ll learn then they can’t be trusted.

To ascertain their ability, look to reviews. If they don’t have reviews that read like this one, it’s best to look for another coach.

What Is The Difference Between A Dating Coach And A Matchmaker?

Dating coaches and matchmakers are often confused.

While they both aim to help you find love, one teaches you how to fish while the other does the fishing for you. 

Coaches will work with you to tune your dating skills before sending you out to conquer the world. Matchmakers will do the work for you. They’ll learn what you’re looking for before browsing their database in an attempt to set you up with a compatible partner.

In most cases matchmakers will find you a date but won’t teach you how to be successful during that date. They’ll put a fish in your hands, but what you do when you’ve caught it is up to you.

To keep the metaphor going, dating coaches give you the fishing pole, teach you how to reel in a fish, and what to do with it once it’s in your possession.

 What Does A Dating Coach Teach You?

In short, how to court women. 

But there are infinite ways to court a woman (especially nowadays).

There are dating coaches who are more like pick-up artists that will go to bars with you to help you meet women. Then there are coaches who are more like therapists who will teach you how to conquer fear and create the right mindset to talk to women.

To give you a concrete idea of what a dating coach will teach you let’s dive into our dating program, Dating Decoded.

In our program, everything we teach revolves around our proprietary philosophy of MegaDating. MegaDating is the practice of dating various women at once in order to quickly find your ideal partner.

Dating prolifically is the fastest way to find your ideal partner.

We help men do this by teaching them how to meet women IRL and online. 

Via our self-paced online curriculum, weekly coaching sessions, mock dates, and by tapping our extensive coaching network we quickly teach men how to find, court, and grow a relationship.

After you’ve learned how to find a woman to date you’ll need to know the ins and outs of dating IRL. We’ve got your covered by teaching you everything from how to break the touch barrier to how to plan amazing dates and the ABCs of first date conversation.

Here’s a sneak peek of just some of the modules in our online curriculum.

I should also add that we do more than teach at emlovz.

We’ve developed a community of men who support each other on and offline. Our students can be found around the country. Often times our students will meet up in person, build friendships, and help one another achieve their dating goals.

How Often Do You Meet With A Coach?

That all depends on the coach.

At emlovz we have coaching sessions that take place twice a week.

During these calls we teach, reveal new findings, and really dive into the dating lives of our students so we can offer more nuanced and personalized advice.

When Should You See A Relationship Coach?

Be honest with me.

When is the last time you had a date?

When is the last time you were really excited about a woman you were dating?

If you struggle to answer these two simple questions, then yes, it’s time to see a dating coach.

At emlovz our students go on an average of 20 dates during the first 90 days of our program. 

If you want to turn your dating life around quickly, let’s team up and get you MegaDating.

What Dating Sites Do Wealthy Men Use?

Our wealthy students use the same application you use.

They’re on Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge.

However, they don’t use the free version of these apps. Every dating application and dating website comes with subscriptions. When you subscribe to an app you pay for access to features designed to give you an advantage against other men.

Wealthy men also flock to apps like The League and Raya. Both of these apps are invite-only.

The League is comprised of successful individuals (most of whom have higher ed degrees and make at least $100,000). It’s been called elitist Tinder and is designed to connect highly successful individuals.

Raya is known as the celebrity dating app, but this isn’t the whole story. It’s designed for people who work in the entertainment industry, many of whom happen to be wealthy and influential.

If you’re looking to exclusively date wealthy women, download and apply to The League and Raya.

What Are The Best Dating Years For A Man?

The best dating years for a man are the ones that you make the most of.

Many men come to us feeling as though they’ve missed the boat – that’s not true.

It’s true that the dating pool may not be as deep as it was in your early 20s, but that doesn’t mean you won’t be able to find an amazing partner.

We help men in their 20s to men in their 70s. Many of our students are divorced, have families, and are 40+.

Whatever their age, we show them how to make the most of their dating lives.

So to answer the question, the best dating years for a man are the ones that you take full advantage of. When you MegaDate you’ll be dating new women every week. When you’re meeting amazing women every week, I guarantee that the here and now will feel like the best dating years for a man.

How To Find Love In 2024?

2024 doesn’t have to be like 2023.

You can decide to take charge of your love life. You’ve already taken the first step by reading this article.

Now it’s time to take your dating life seriously.

Here are five small steps you can take to start improving your dating life right now:

• Optimize your dating profiles
• Take new photos for your dating applications
• Attend a speed dating event
• Get a new haircut and buy yourself a few new shirts
• Book an intro call with emlovz

Who Is The Best Dating Coach For Me?

Dating Decoded

Interested in learning how we here at emlovz can help you?

We teach our students the shortcut to finding their ideal match by MegaDating. MegaDating is our dating philosophy and it shapes everything we teach here at emlovz. Simply put MegaDating is dating prolifically with the specific goal of going on 20 dates in 90 days. This will give you ample women to compare and contrast so you can refine not only your dating skills but who your ideal partner is.

To teach you how to quickly find highly compatible women in just weeks and become the most eligible bachelor in town you’ll have a team of romantic experts, each skilled in their own unique area to support you.

Our Team

• Emyli (me), co-founder, curriculum developer, head coach, and I host two coaching sessions every week
• Thomas, co-founder, and coach. He’ll lead the biweekly Man Cave event where men come together to talk dating, bond with one another, and support other single men
• Cat, Brooke, and Audrey are mock date specialists. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
• Hailey is your new stylist. She’s worked with celebs from every industry and is now about to raid your closet
• Tilly is our holistic sex & intimacy coach. She’ll help you get the most out of your sex life so you and your partner are happier between the sheets
• Aundrea is an award-winning fitness coach. Are you ready to eat right and build muscle?
• Mia is our social media expert. Revamp your Facebook and Instagram profiles with her help and start meeting women online

Our Community

And look, we realize that the single life can be difficult. If accepted into our coaching program, Dating Decoded, you’d be joining a community of supportive men and coaches who are there to listen, support, and encourage you as you navigate the single life.

Our program offers every student a lifetime membership (as if you’ll need it) so the support won’t stop until you’ve found your ideal partner.

If you’re ready to find your forever partner, book a Zoom session with our team today. Together we’ll talk about your dating history, your goals and show you how our program, Dating Decoded, can help you find your ideal partner.

Learn how our students have already improved their dating lives.