Dating Coaching Program for Men

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I’m Emyli.

What to Expect..

Best-in-class dating coaching program for men who want to master every facet of dating in order to find a girlfriend, wife, or long-term relationship.

I'll teach you how to fill up your dating funnel so you can go on 1-2+ dates each week (with women you're really excited about), which will help you find your forever person, fast.

What that means for you, is you’ll always have a full calendar of possible candidates. So no longer are you going to be searching in self help books, apps, or blogs to piece together a dating strategy.

MegaDating is our proprietary dating philosophy that we’ve used with thousands of men since 2012 to help them find the one. This strategy helps you to diffuse your energy, increase your confidence, and avoid getting ghosted, friend-zoned, or worse… settling for the wrong woman.

Don't see a time that works for you? Fill this out and we'll get back to you asap.

What to Expect..

Best-in-class dating coaching program for men who want to master every facet of dating in order to find a girlfriend, wife, or long-term relationship.

I'll teach you how to fill up your dating funnel so you can go on 1-2+ dates each week (with women you're really excited about), which will help you find your forever person, fast.

What that means for you, is you’ll always have a full calendar of possible candidates. So no longer are you going to be searching in self help books, apps, or blogs to piece together a dating strategy.

MegaDating is our proprietary dating philosophy that we’ve used with thousands of men since 2012 to help them find the one. This strategy helps you to diffuse your energy, increase your confidence, and avoid getting ghosted, friend-zoned, or worse… settling for the wrong woman.

How I Can Help You

I’m here to teach, motivate, and strategize with you.

Through our free content, or my paid 1-on-1 coaching program - we’re here to help you reach your dating and interpersonal goals.

Whether you’re new to dating, looking for love, a marriage, or a simple companion - I’m here to help you reach the highest levels of your potential, even if you don’t believe you can!

With Love,

Is This You?

Are you struggling to get women to respond to your messages on dating apps? Having trouble getting dates offline? Does it feel like it’s impossible to get any dates at all? Are you finding yourself repeatedly in the friend zone with women you’re interested in dating?

Do you find yourself wondering if you could do better than the women you’ve been going on dates with? Are you confused about how to even attract the type of women you’re REALLY interested in? Perhaps you’re tired of the dating scene and ready to find your wife or life-partner once and for all? Maybe you’re starting to think you can’t attract beautiful women because of your background.

Well, I’m here to tell you that you deserve the perfect partner and you can find and attract the woman of your dreams–and we can help you do it.

How The Services Work

In order to find you the woman of your dreams, I’m going to give you lifetime membership to my 2x weekly coaching calls, extensive online curriculum, and private student-only community where you'll receive coaching and support all week long.

Plus, you'll have access to private mock dates, style sessions with our celebrity stylist, sex & intimacy sessions with our holistic sex & intimacy coach, custom meal planning & workout routine sessions with our health & fitness coach, personal dating coaching sessions with yours truly, our bi-weekly Man Cave event led by co-founder Thomas, monthly conversation training events, and access to an accountability buddy & brotherhood of high achieving single men.

Recent Student Reviews

Meet Darshil & His New Girlfriend Emily

Meet Jonathan (Part 2, May 2023): "Now Married!"

Meet Jonathan (Part 1, Jan 2022 ): "Transformed my life."

Meet Derrick (Part 2, June 2023): "Meet My New GF Jamie!"

Meet Derrick (Part 1, Feb 2023): "More Than Enough Dates."

Meet Naeem: "Been on 31 dates in 3-4 months."

Meet David: “From Divorced & Defeated To In Control.”

Meet Alex: "You're tough on me but I need it."

Meet Christian: "I'm in a relationship in only 3 months."

Meet John: "Met the woman of my dreams in 3 months."

Meet Shamus: "Her system works in every location."

Meet Aryan: "In a committed relationship after countless dates."

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FAQ

Ever since my 100-date experiment 11 years ago, I (Emyli) have been using a data-driven approach to teach men how to find and court their ideal partner. I also hold a post-bacc in Psychology from UC Berkeley, giving me jedi-mind powers that I use to help men understand what women want.

Thomas offers a male perspective as he puts to use what he learned as a single man in SF for 6ish years. Oh and if you’re wondering who ended my 100 date experiment – meet my fiance, Thomas. Today, he helps students find their Emyli.

Brooke is your new mock date expert. She gives men the chance to finally ask a woman what they honestly thought of them after a date. Brooke holds a BA in Psychology and is a practicing occupational therapist who knows a thing or two about communicating effectively.

Audrey is the girl next door turned wingwoman in your search for your forever partner. Learned in the ways of modern dating she helps men understand how to communicate with women in this ever-changing dating scene.

Hailey is your new style guru. As a Parson’s grad and celebrity stylist Hailey knows how to help men make the best possible first impression. Let her raid your closet as she shows you how to look incredible for that hot date.

Mia knows better than anyone the importance of looking good online. Once she takes one look at your social media she’ll have you not slide but strut into DMs like it’s no one’s business.

We’ve assembled a team of the best dating coaches around. We’ve helped thousands of men find super-compatible partners and guess what, you’re next!

A dating coach for men is a dating expert that will help you achieve your romantic goals.

But as you’ve seen, emlovz isn’t just a single dating coach, but a community of coaches that will help you identify who you’re attracted to, attract compatible women online and IRL, MegaDate, go on amazing dates, and most importantly, find a lifetime partner.

I’ve been a dating coach for guys ever since I completed my 100-date experiment in 2012. Since then I’ve been strategizing with men like you every week on how they can attract their ideal partner.

No, we do not coach women. But by coaching men, we’re ultimately helping women. 

emlovz isn’t just one person, it’s an entire team of dating consultants and experts working relentlessly towards one goal: finding you a healthy, happy, and loving relationship, that lasts

Our dating coaches offer perspectives from both male and female points of view. Our coaches are also millennials as well as Gen-Zers. We know how to help you speak with women regardless of their age, background, or love language. We’re both online dating coaches that will teach you the way of the swipe, but also teach you the offline (IRL) dating skills you need to know.

Our program, Dating Decoded includes:

Live Weekly Coaching Calls Twice A Week
Access to Mock Dates & Private Sessions
Robust Online Curriculum
Online Community

But perhaps most importantly, we won’t abandon you after a set period of time like other coaches. Enrolling in Dating Decoded means you’ll have access to our program (and coaching) for life

We’ve spent over 10 years refining our program to help you go from a dating novice to a confident man so popular with women he’ll have to turn dates away.

We’ve worked with men from 18 to 80 years old. You can master dating at any age, as long as you’re willing to put in the hard work and have the right coaches to guide you. Our program is designed to help men of any and all ages, so long as they’re interested in finding a long-term partner.

Members of Dating Decoded get unlimited profile reviews. We do this because we view dating is an experiment, thus you’ll have to optimize as you go. Tweaking a profile every few weeks will help you appeal to the type of women you most want to attract.

We’re not about single sessions – we’re in it for the long haul with you. That means creating a meaningful and lasting transformation, not just dishing out some quick tips so you can get a couple more Tinder matches.

You tell me. Do you have an ounce of hope and 30 minutes a day to put the work in?

Then yes, dating coaching will work for you.

Our most successful students are open to trying new things and are coachable.

That may mean stepping out of your comfort zone. It means really listening and absorbing our advice and applying it over and over again.

Our techniques have worked for thousands of men, why wouldn’t they work for you too?

It all starts with a 20-min onboarding call with myself or Thomas.

During this call we’re going to get to know each other better and show you how to get the most from our program, Dating Decoded.

That means showing you how to access the weekly strategy sessions, gain access to our online community, and show you how to use our online learning platform.

If you want a more granular understanding of what you’ll learn in our program, watch our Masterclass.

We use a multi-pronged approach to turn our students into expert daters. Here’s how:

Community

No one wants to go through the dating process alone. So don’t. We have a community full of men just like you. To make being single and this process fun, we set students up with an accountability buddy so you can embark on this journey with someone who knows exactly what you’re going through. We’ll also introduce you to students in your area so you can meet up in person and build an IRL community. Our community is great for sharing wins and losses, bonding, and getting real-time feedback on any dating question you might have.

Online Curriculum

We’ve learned a lot since we became men’s dating coaches 10+ years ago. To effectively teach everything we’ve learned, we created an online video learning platform that covers just about every romantic topic under the sun. From how to crush a first date to how to have better sex, if it’s something you’ll face while dating we have a lesson about it. This curriculum is self-paced and constantly being updated and added to. You won’t find a more robust curriculum, just see what our students are saying

Mock Dates

Wouldn’t it be amazing if after a date you could ask a woman what she thought and actually receive honest feedback? That’s where our mock dates come in. After a mock date (either online or IRL) you’ll receive feedback on what worked and what needs improvement.

2x Weekly Coaching Sessions

We know how dynamic and nuanced dating is. That’s why twice a week we’ll sit down so you can ask any questions you have about your dating experience. Together we’ll dive deep and help you figure out the best way to go about scoring your dream gal.

Events

We normally have at least 1 event per month (in-person or via Zoom). 

Dating Decoded VIP is for students that want a little extra support. When you sign up for our VIP version of our program you’ll receive everything we’ve already touched and more.

Specifically, you’ll receive six 50-minute 1-on-1 sessions that can be used for the following:

Mock dates with Brooke
1-on-1 coaching with Emyli or Thomas
Profile review
Style session with Hailey
SM optimization with Mia

Use these six sessions in whatever way you think would most benefit you.

That means if you want to go on six mock dates with our dating expert Brooke, go ahead and do so (just don’t fall in love!).

That’s great news.

Being afraid of failure means you’re human, great news considering most women are exclusively into humans.

Being single and actively looking for a partner is a scary process. But what’s even worse than that fear is waiting on the sidelines. Praying to cupid that he’ll spare you an arrow won’t work.

Realize that on the other side of fear is magic.

Fear should be used as a trail marker, it’s an indication that you’re on the right course.

We teach you how to use this fear and have a community of students and coaches you can lean on when times are tough.

Not trying is just another form of failure.

If the ultimate goal is to find a romantic partner the only way you’re going to do so is by being willing to fail.

Think of it like this. The more you fail the closer you come to not failing. The closer you come to scoring a match, getting a first date, and finding a girlfriend.

You may have failed in the past, but that’s going to change. We’ve helped thousands of men get what they’re looking for – we can help you too.

While Thomas and I are from the SF Bay Area, we have a large national audience and student-base. 

What matters most is that you find a coach whose work resonates with you.

Do you think this coach can help you achieve what you’re looking for?

That’s the only question that matters.

We will support you for life. That’s a guarantee 100% of other dating coaches don’t make. 

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