Ever since my 100-date experiment 11 years ago, I (Emyli) have been using a data-driven approach to teach men how to find and court their ideal partner. I also hold a post-bacc in Psychology from UC Berkeley, giving me jedi-mind powers that I use to help men understand what women want.

Thomas offers a male perspective as he puts to use what he learned as a single man in SF for 6ish years. Oh and if you’re wondering who ended my 100 date experiment – meet my fiance, Thomas. Today, he helps students find their Emyli.

Brooke is your new mock date expert. She gives men the chance to finally ask a woman what they honestly thought of them after a date. Brooke holds a BA in Psychology and is a practicing occupational therapist who knows a thing or two about communicating effectively.

Audrey is the girl next door turned wingwoman in your search for your forever partner. Learned in the ways of modern dating she helps men understand how to communicate with women in this ever-changing dating scene.

Hailey is your new style guru. As a Parson’s grad and celebrity stylist Hailey knows how to help men make the best possible first impression. Let her raid your closet as she shows you how to look incredible for that hot date.

Mia knows better than anyone the importance of looking good online. Once she takes one look at your social media she’ll have you not slide but strut into DMs like it’s no one’s business.

We’ve assembled a team of the best dating coaches around. We’ve helped thousands of men find super-compatible partners and guess what, you’re next!

A dating coach for men is a dating expert that will help you achieve your romantic goals.

But as you’ve seen, emlovz isn’t just a single dating coach, but a community of coaches that will help you identify who you’re attracted to, attract compatible women online and IRL, MegaDate, go on amazing dates, and most importantly, find a lifetime partner.

I’ve been a dating coach for guys ever since I completed my 100-date experiment in 2012. Since then I’ve been strategizing with men like you every week on how they can attract their ideal partner.

No, we do not coach women. But by coaching men, we’re ultimately helping women. 

emlovz isn’t just one person, it’s an entire team of dating consultants and experts working relentlessly towards one goal: finding you a healthy, happy, and loving relationship, that lasts. 

Our dating coaches offer perspectives from both male and female points of view. Our coaches are also millennials as well as Gen-Zers. We know how to help you speak with women regardless of their age, background, or love language. We’re both online dating coaches that will teach you the way of the swipe, but also teach you the offline (IRL) dating skills you need to know.

Our program, Dating Decoded includes:

Live Weekly Coaching Calls Twice A Week
Access to Mock Dates & Private Sessions
Robust Online Curriculum
Online Community

But perhaps most importantly, we won’t abandon you after a set period of time like other coaches. Enrolling in Dating Decoded means you’ll have access to our program (and coaching) for life. 

We’ve spent over 10 years refining our program to help you go from a dating novice to a confident man so popular with women he’ll have to turn dates away.

We’ve worked with men from 18 to 80 years old. You can master dating at any age, as long as you’re willing to put in the hard work and have the right coaches to guide you. Our program is designed to help men of any and all ages, so long as they’re interested in finding a long-term partner.

Members of Dating Decoded get unlimited profile reviews. We do this because we view dating is an experiment, thus you’ll have to optimize as you go. Tweaking a profile every few weeks will help you appeal to the type of women you most want to attract.

We’re not about single sessions – we’re in it for the long haul with you. That means creating a meaningful and lasting transformation, not just dishing out some quick tips so you can get a couple more Tinder matches.

You tell me. Do you have an ounce of hope and 30 minutes a day to put the work in?

Then yes, dating coaching will work for you.

Our most successful students are open to trying new things and are coachable.

That may mean stepping out of your comfort zone. It means really listening and absorbing our advice and applying it over and over again.

Our techniques have worked for thousands of men, why wouldn’t they work for you too?

It all starts with a 20-min onboarding call with myself or Thomas.

During this call we’re going to get to know each other better and show you how to get the most from our program, Dating Decoded.

That means showing you how to access the weekly strategy sessions, gain access to our online community, and show you how to use our online learning platform.

If you want a more granular understanding of what you’ll learn in our program, watch our Masterclass.

We use a multi-pronged approach to turn our students into expert daters. Here’s how:

Community

No one wants to go through the dating process alone. So don’t. We have a community full of men just like you. To make being single and this process fun, we set students up with an accountability buddy so you can embark on this journey with someone who knows exactly what you’re going through. We’ll also introduce you to students in your area so you can meet up in person and build an IRL community. Our community is great for sharing wins and losses, bonding, and getting real-time feedback on any dating question you might have.

Online Curriculum

We’ve learned a lot since we became men’s dating coaches 10+ years ago. To effectively teach everything we’ve learned, we created an online video learning platform that covers just about every romantic topic under the sun. From how to crush a first date to how to have better sex, if it’s something you’ll face while dating we have a lesson about it. This curriculum is self-paced and constantly being updated and added to. You won’t find a more robust curriculum, just see what our students are saying. 

Mock Dates

Wouldn’t it be amazing if after a date you could ask a woman what she thought and actually receive honest feedback? That’s where our mock dates come in. After a mock date (either online or IRL) you’ll receive feedback on what worked and what needs improvement.

2x Weekly Coaching Sessions

We know how dynamic and nuanced dating is. That’s why twice a week we’ll sit down so you can ask any questions you have about your dating experience. Together we’ll dive deep and help you figure out the best way to go about scoring your dream gal.

Events

We normally have at least 1 event per month (in-person or via Zoom). 

Dating Decoded VIP is for students that want a little extra support. When you sign up for our VIP version of our program you’ll receive everything we’ve already touched and more.

Specifically, you’ll receive six 50-minute 1-on-1 sessions that can be used for the following:

Mock dates with Brooke
1-on-1 coaching with Emyli or Thomas
Profile review
Style session with Hailey
SM optimization with Mia

Use these six sessions in whatever way you think would most benefit you.

That means if you want to go on six mock dates with our dating expert Brooke, go ahead and do so (just don’t fall in love!).

That’s great news.

Being afraid of failure means you’re human, great news considering most women are exclusively into humans.

Being single and actively looking for a partner is a scary process. But what’s even worse than that fear is waiting on the sidelines. Praying to cupid that he’ll spare you an arrow won’t work.

Realize that on the other side of fear is magic.

Fear should be used as a trail marker, it’s an indication that you’re on the right course.

We teach you how to use this fear and have a community of students and coaches you can lean on when times are tough.

Not trying is just another form of failure.

If the ultimate goal is to find a romantic partner the only way you’re going to do so is by being willing to fail.

Think of it like this. The more you fail the closer you come to not failing. The closer you come to scoring a match, getting a first date, and finding a girlfriend.

You may have failed in the past, but that’s going to change. We’ve helped thousands of men get what they’re looking for – we can help you too.

While Thomas and I are from the SF Bay Area, we have a large national audience and student-base. 

What matters most is that you find a coach whose work resonates with you.

Do you think this coach can help you achieve what you’re looking for?

That’s the only question that matters.

We will support you for life. That’s a guarantee 100% of other dating coaches don’t make. 

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