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tips for a first date after meeting online

I went on no less than 52 first dates during my 100-date experiment … so I’d say I know more than the average person when it comes to tips for a first date after meeting online!

During the experiment, I used OkCupid (which was super popular back then) to source the majority of my first dates. Needless to say, I had some interesting experiences, which leads me to make this list of first date tips. … Keep Reading

should i take her to coffee

Just like politics, there are lots of heavily debated topics when it comes to dating. If you walked out on the street right now and asked 20 people the question, “Should I take her to coffee on the first date?” you’d probably get an equal amount of yesses and nos. We’re a nation divided, folks.

But the funny thing is, we all want the same thing. Most people would probably agree they want a first Keep Reading

should i kiss her on the first date

“Should I kiss her on the first date?” It’s a questions I get from my clients week after week. 

The rules of attraction are fluid. Simple answers to questions of attraction will yield spotty results. So many daters run into brick walls because they try to apply the same dating advice to every scenario. Let’s start by making a few glaringly obvious observations.

Every woman is different. This thought will blow the mind of a Keep Reading

first date questions to ask a woman

Are you looking for the best first date questions to ask a woman on an upcoming date? Smart guy. The first three dates are crucial when it comes to moving forward with a potential mate. First impressions are so important in fact that you’re going to want to make sure you come prepared. You’ll need to have a solid list of first date questions to ask that don’t make her feel like she’s in an … Keep Reading

What to text her after the first date

While I understand you’ve arrived on this article because you want to know what to text her after the first date, the majority of what I’m about to tell you is why you actually shouldn’t. Texting between dates is dicey.

Too much communication, especially thoughtless, superficial messages (like the below examples) have the unintended consequence of sabotaging sexual attraction.

Example of a bad text after the first dateBad text to send a woman because it's basic AFWeak text message example to send a womanIf you’re repeatedly seeing text message conversations with women fizzle out, then you might be killing … Keep Reading

she didn't text me back after the first date

Randall Munroe is a NASA-roboticist that likes to apply his nerdy brain to answering life’s more absurd question. While taking a break from engineering robotic arms that would be installed on the newest space shuttle, Munroe turned his focus towards Earth. He wanted to calculate the odds of finding a soul mate. By using rules laid down by dozens of sappy romantic novels paired with whimsy and a dash of hard science, Munroe concluded that … Keep Reading