Dating Coaching Program for Women
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What to Expect..
Hi,
I’m Emyli.
After twelve years of exclusively coaching men, we are delighted to introduce our brand new dating and love coaching program catered specifically to women in search of an exceptional long term partner, husband or life companion.
My team and I are here to guide you towards fixing your man-picker once and for all so you can find a healthy, happy, and loving relationship that lasts.
With our lifetime membership, you’ll be joining a community of growth-minded women who are all re-writing their love stories, regaining their confidence, and not settling for less. I'll introduce you to our MegaDating strategy, the same approach that helped me find my dream husband.
What to Expect..
After twelve years of exclusively coaching men, we are delighted to introduce our brand new dating and love coaching program catered specifically to women in search of an exceptional long term partner, husband or life companion.
My team and I are here to guide you towards fixing your man-picker once and for all so you can find a healthy, happy, and loving relationship that lasts.
With our lifetime membership, you’ll be joining a community of growth-minded women who are all re-writing their love stories, regaining their confidence, and not settling for less. I'll introduce you to our MegaDating strategy, the same approach that helped me find my dream husband.
How I Can Help You
I’m here to teach, motivate, and strategize with you.
Through our free content, or my paid 1-on-1 coaching program - we’re here to help you reach your dating and interpersonal goals.
Whether you’re new to dating, looking for love, a marriage, or a simple companion - I’m here to help you reach the highest levels of your potential, even if you don’t believe you can!
With Love,
Is This You?
Are you struggling to attract high quality, relationship-minded men? Are you worried that, once again, you’re going to select an incompatible man for your next relationship?
Is being single for an extended period of time making you feel inadequate? Do you feel like love is impossible for you? Can’t seem to attract emotionally available men?
Do you find yourself wondering if you can do better than the men you’ve been going on dates with? Is a past relationship holding you back from reaching your full potential in love?
We at emlovz believe that you deserve the perfect partner and you can find and attract the man of your dreams – and we can help you do it.
Is This You?
Are you struggling to attract high quality, relationship-minded men? Are you worried that, once again, you’re going to select an incompatible man for your next relationship?
Is being single for an extended period of time making you feel inadequate? Do you feel like love is impossible for you? Can’t seem to attract emotionally available men?
Do you find yourself wondering if you can do better than the men you’ve been going on dates with? Is a past relationship holding you back from reaching your full potential in love?
We at emlovz believe that you deserve the perfect partner and you can find and attract the man of your dreams – and we can help you do it.
How it Works
Get Lifetime Access to:
Weekly Coaching Calls
Meet with Emyli every week in live coaching calls to strategize on any step of your dating journey.
Weekly Coaching Calls
Meet with Emyli every week in live coaching calls to strategize on any step of your dating journey.
Private Student Community
Private Student Community
Online Curriculum & Workbook
Extensive online curriculum that walks you step-by-step through everything you need to know to find the perfect partner for you.
Private Coaching w/ My Expert Team
- I went on 101 dates with 52 different men while in school at UC Berkeley
- I documented everything that succeeded and failed on the dates
- Teachings are derived from the experiment and 10+ years of coaching singles
- MegaDating is my proprietary coaching philosophy that I've used for over a decade to help singles find healthy, happy, and loving relationships that last.
Meet Head Coach Emyli
- I went on 101 dates with 52 different men while in school at UC Berkeley
- I documented everything that succeeded and failed on the dates
- Teachings are derived from the experiment and 10+ years of coaching singles
- MegaDating is my proprietary coaching philosophy that I've used for over a decade to help singles find healthy, happy, and loving relationships that last.
Recent Client Reviews
Recent Client Reviews
“For the first time in a year, I had an amazing date and it was my first set up! For starters, I had a personal coaching session with Em before the date. She opened my eyes and gave me some pointers that made dating actually enjoyable! I hated dating and saw it as a necessary torture – but she helped me realize how to better approach the date and it paid off!
The actual date itself was incredible because we had so much in common. He was engaging and we share core beliefs. Unlike painful Match dates, the conversation flowed and he was incredible to talk to. I am not doing this dating thing along anymore! Em’s team are experts in their field and I am thankful to have them in my life.”
Autumn (now married)
emlovz is a great coaching service. Dating in my early 60s is a huge challenge. My age group thinks that they know it all when it comes to relationships.
Already, the information I have been given through emlovz from their recommended reading to their on-line coaching sessions has improved my perception on how to find men that are more in tune with my dating goals.
Through emlovz I am learning more about myself and getting clearer in regards to the attachment styles, Secure Anxious Avoidant, that my dates exhibit when I meet them. I never knew the philosophy of attachment styles and their significance.
I am now much more aware of which men are more harmonious for me. I have many more books from emlovz’s recommended book list to read and many more zoom calls of coaching to look forward to. They are making dating far less mysterious. I wish I had worked with them sooner. I so very much appreciate their experience.”
Kate
“Let’s face it, dating is hard! Especially in San Francisco! Thankfully, I had Em to help. Her knowledge and advice is practical and doable. It can be a challenge at times, but of it wasn’t for her perspective, I wouldn’t feel as confident as I do now.”
Highly highly recommend!
Sarah
“Emyli provides very sound advice through her women’s series videos. She definitely does her fair share of research to support her theories of dating as well as provide insight into how men and women interact in the dating “game.” It was very insightful to explore my patterns of dating and the types of men I date through the worksheets and lectures provided. She is also very genuine and takes an overall interest in helping you meet your dating goals. Overall, I highly recommend her services as well as coaching advice.”
Brooke
FAQ
A dating coach for women is a mate selection & courtship expert that will help you achieve your romantic goals.
But as you’ve seen, emlovz isn’t just a single dating coach, but a community of coaches that will help you identify your ideal partner, attract compatible men on dating apps & in the real world, MegaDate, show up as your best self on your dates, and most importantly, find a lifetime partner.
Ever since my 100-date experiment 12 years ago, I (Emyli) have been using a data-driven approach to teach men and women how to find and court their ideal partner. I also hold a post-baccalaureate degree in Psychology from UC Berkeley, granting me the expertise to assist singles in understanding what the opposite sex genuinely desires.
Thomas provides a valuable male perspective that aids women in understanding the viewpoints of men. After coaching men for 12 years and undergoing his own dating experiment, he knows when your dating partner isn’t boyfriend material. Thomas is now my husband and the father of my son.
Paul is your new mock date expert. He gives our female students the chance to finally ask a man what they honestly thought of them after a date. Paul was a success story in our men’s coaching program after finding his ideal partner & now enjoys giving back to our communities.
Renee serves as our anxiety coach and licensed therapist, boasting an MS in Neuroscience and mental health counseling. Her objective is to equip you with powerful coping mechanisms, cultivate resilience, and nurture a constructive mindset, empowering you to approach dating scenarios with confidence and grace.
Audrey leads our onboarding team and serves as our profile review expert, committed to aiding you in your pursuit of a lifelong partner. With a profound grasp of modern dating dynamics, Audrey skillfully navigates our students through the intricate communication challenges of this continuously evolving dating terrain.
Darshil is our confidence coach and local NYC dating expert. Having once been a student himself, Darshil’s adept grasp and implementation of emlovz principles, alongside his active involvement in the community, impressed the emlovz team. As of 2024, he proudly assumes the role of an emlovz coach. For our women’s coaching program Darshil also offers mock dates.
Hailey is your new style guru. As a Parson’s design grad and celebrity stylist, Hailey knows how to help women make the best possible first impression. Let her raid your closet as she shows you how to look incredible for that hot date.
Tilly is our sex & intimacy coach. If lack of confidence, low libido, or guilt and shame around your sexuality are the cause of your bedroom woes, (the hot, wild intimacy you never have any more, or the transition into parenthood that sucked your libido dry), you need Tilly. She’s the world’s leading expert in helping women experience epic pleasure in the bedroom and beyond.
Mia knows better than anyone the importance of looking good online. Once she takes one look at your social media she’ll have you not slide but strut into DMs like it’s no one’s business.
We’ve assembled a team of the best dating coaches in America. We’ve helped thousands of singles find super-compatible partners and guess what, you’re next!
In 2023, we introduced Dating Decoded for Women following 12 years of coaching men and gaining profound insights into their motivations for seeking love. Throughout this time, women who persisted in seeking our guidance received our coaching, leading us to recognize that we possess a unique perspective to offer women after devoting significant attention to men for so long.
emlovz isn’t just one person, it’s an entire team of dating consultants and experts working relentlessly towards one goal: finding you an unbelievable partner.
Our dating coaches offer perspectives from both male and female points of view. Our coaches are also millennials as well as Gen-X and Gen-Zers. We know how to help you speak with the opposite sex regardless of their age, background, or love language. We’re both online dating coaches that will teach you the way of the swipe, but also teach you the in-real-life dating skills you need to know.
Our program, Dating Decoded for Women includes:
- Live Weekly Coaching Calls
- Mock Dates
- Robust Online Curriculum
- The emlovz workbook
- Private Coaching Sessions with anyone on our team
- Accountability Buddies & Full Social Network
But perhaps most importantly, we won’t abandon you after a set period of time like other coaches. Enrolling in Dating Decoded means you’ll have access to our program (and coaching) for life.
Upon joining Dating Decoded, you’ll seamlessly connect with a vibrant social network comprising of women all looking to re-write their love stories.
In addition, you’ll have the opportunity to join an accountability pod in most major metros, where our students gather for real-life meetups and support. While we cannot offer guarantees, if we identify a potential match for you within our men’s program, we’ll facilitate an introduction for you.
We’ve worked with women in their early 20’s all the way up to their late 60’s. You can master dating at any age, as long as you’re willing to put in the hard work and have the right coaches to guide you. Our program is designed to help women of any and all ages, so long as they’re interested in finding a long-term partner.
We provide unlimited profile reviews, with at least one review per month, recognizing that dating is an ongoing experiment. Optimizing your profile regularly is essential, allowing you to attract the type of men you desire most. By making adjustments every few weeks, you can continually refine your profile to maximize its appeal.
We’re committed to long-term progress, not just one-off sessions. Our goal is to facilitate meaningful and enduring transformations, rather than offering quick fixes for a few extra dating app matches.
You tell me.
Do you have an ounce of hope and 30 minutes a day to put the work in?
Then yes, dating coaching will work for you.
Our most successful students are open to trying new things and are coachable.
That may mean stepping out of your comfort zone. It means really listening and absorbing our advice and applying it over and over again.
Our techniques have worked for thousands of single people, why wouldn’t they work for you too?
It all starts with a 20-min onboarding call Emyli, Audrey or another member of our team.
During this call we’re going to get to know each other better and show you how to get the most from our program.
That means showing you how to access the weekly strategy sessions, gain access to our online community, and show you how to use our online learning platform.
We use a multi-pronged approach to turn our female students into expert daters.
Here’s how.
Community
Nobody wants to navigate the dating journey alone. That’s why we’ve cultivated a community of women just like you. To alleviate the challenges of being single, we pair students with an accountability buddy who understands your experiences firsthand. Our community offers a supportive environment for celebrating successes, sharing setbacks, forming connections, and receiving real-time feedback on any dating-related inquiries you may have.
Online Curriculum
Over the past 12 years, we’ve gained extensive insights into how men operate. To share everything we’ve learned and empower women, we’ve developed an online learning platform covering virtually every romantic topic imaginable. Whether it’s mastering the art of securing a second date or enhancing intimacy, our curriculum addresses all aspects of dating. This self-paced program is continuously updated and expanded to ensure it remains comprehensive and relevant.
Mock Dates
Wouldn’t it be amazing if after a date you could ask a man what he thought and actually receive honest feedback? That’s where our mock dates experts Darshil and Paul come in. After a mock date (either online or IRL) you’ll receive feedback on what worked and what needs improvement.
Weekly Strategy Sessions
We know how dynamic and nuanced dating is. That’s why every week you’ll have the opportunity to get coaching & feedback directly from me (live, uninterrupted).
Private Strategy Sessions
VIP members will receive 6 private 50 minute coaching sessions to be used with any emlovz coach.
- Mock dates with Paul or Darshil
- 1-on-1 coaching with Emyli or Thomas
- Profile reviews with Audrey, Darshil, or Emyli (me)
- Style session with Hailey
- Social media optimization with Mia
- Confidence session or NYC strategy session with Darshil
- Anxiety session with Renee
- Sex & intimacy session with Tilly
Use these six sessions in whatever way you think would most benefit you. That means if you want to go on six mock dates with our dating expert Paul, go ahead and do so (just don’t fall in love!).
That’s great news.
Being afraid of failure means you’re human, great news considering most men are exclusively into humans.
Being single and actively looking for a partner is a scary process. But what’s even worse than that fear is waiting on the sidelines. Praying to cupid that he’ll spare you an arrow won’t work.
Realize that on the other side of fear is magic.
Fear should be used as a trail marker, it’s an indication that you’re on the right course.
We teach you how to use this fear and have a community of students and coaches you can lean on when times are tough.
Not trying is just another form of failure.
If the ultimate goal is to find a romantic partner the only way you’re going to do so is by being willing to fail.
Think of it like this. The more you fail the closer you come to not failing. The closer you come to scoring a match, getting a first date, and finding a long term relationship.
You may have failed in the past, but that’s going to change. We’ve helped thousands of singles get what they’re looking for – we can help you too.
While Thomas and I are from the San Francisco Bay Area, our coaches are from all over the USA.
What matters most is that you find a coach and program philosophy that resonates with you. Our philosophy is MegaDating – which has been proven to find love for the past 12 years.
Do you think this coach and program can help you achieve what you’re looking for?
That’s the only question that matters.
If this is the case, start by watching our program overview video first. For most women, watching this video is all it takes to determine if our program is the right fit for them.
You can also take a look at our brochure.
Click this magic blue link to schedule your intro call with a member of our team.
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