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Want to learn how to love yourself and be more confident?

Want to learn how to love yourself and be confident? You’ve come to the right place. Let me tell you about the first time I learned how to do it. I’ve never told this story, not on paper anyway. The night that everything changed for me back in 2012.

You see, up until this point, I had been very guarded on my dates, and super judgmental about the men I was meeting. I hadn’t yet … Keep Reading

giving up on women

Do you ever feel like giving up on women because dating feels weird? I can relate. While I may not be dating women romantically, I do know all about self-doubt and social anxiety. That creeping fear that there might be something wrong with you. I feel it too–whenever I’m trying to expand my social circle or meet new people.

I recently went on a Bumble “BFF” and felt so icky afterward. Even writing about Keep Reading

why is she ignoring me all of a sudden

Ghosting, simmering, icing, no matter how you label it she’s ignoring you.

The signs weren’t there to be read. Without an inkling to forecast what was about to happen, your lady abruptly cut you off. No texts, calls, DMs, or even Twitter likes. Your relationship has been severed both IRL and digitally. Naturally, you’re asking yourself, “why is she ignoring me all of a sudden?” I don’t know the nuances of your relationship, … Keep Reading

does weight matter to women when dating

Does weight matter to women when dating? Yes.

Now that the bomb has been dropped it’s time to explain.

As many an overweight man will know, men are more superficial than women. It’s men that more often than not will swipe left without reading a woman’s Tinder profile, not women. But despite a man’s weighted preference for beauty, women too judge potential suitors depending on their weight. But lucky for you, being overweight isn’t always … Keep Reading

I broke up with my girlfriend and I miss her

“I broke up with my girlfriend and I miss her!”

It seems paradoxical doesn’t it? You break up with her, but now you’re considering an exorcism just to get her out of your mind. Surely this wasn’t the intended outcome, but here you are.

There’s nothing wrong with your internal systems. It makes sense that you miss your girlfriend that was woven so gradually into your life but has now been abruptly cut out. Even … Keep Reading

What To Do When You've Been Rejected By a Woman

Wondering what to do when you’ve been rejected by a woman?

Getting your hopes up about someone, only to be rejected, is the absolute worst. It’s enough to make you want to crawl into bed, never to be seen again (or worse, drown your sorrows at your neighborhood bar). But simply trying to numb out doesn’t work for long. So, then what?

If you’re like most people, you may not know exactly what to do Keep Reading

getting over a divorce

Getting over a divorce can seem like an intimidating feat. No one anticipates a divorce when they get married. To go from building a life with someone to dividing everything you share (and, in many cases, going through custody trials) requires time to grieve. It is a mentally and emotionally taxing ordeal. Even if the decision to end your marriage in an amicable one, few things are as stressful as a divorce.

But as … Keep Reading

Never Give Up On Love

When I first embarked on my 100-date experiment, I wondered if love even existed. I didn’t know if it was possible for me. But by the end of my experiment, I discovered that you should never give up on love.

Searching for love can be a painful and frustrating process. It’s understandable that many people are tempted to throw in the towel and give up. However, we often sabotage our own romantic journey without … Keep Reading