5 First Date Conversation Tips for Guys That Work

Looking for a few first date conversation tips? If so, you’re in the right place. In 2012-2013 I went on 101 dates with 52 different men. At moments it was beautiful being able to quickly form a bond with a complete stranger, while at other times I was bored out of my mind listening to […]
5 First Date Tips During Coronavirus

Remember how things used to be in dating? You’d see someone cute online, or maybe in person. The two of you would have a great conversation. Sparks would fly… or at least, you’d be curious. Then, you’d anxiously get ready for The Big Date. But now? You’re sitting in the same sweats you’ve been wearing […]
First Date Gifts Are Never a Good Idea…Here’s Why

I know that for some guys, first date gifts are a thing. But I never recommend it. If a client were to ask my advice on “something special” he can bring to a woman on their first date, I’d ask him, “Why don’t you think you’re special enough?” That’s not an insult. It’s a genuine […]
She Lost Interest After the First Date. What Should I Do?

Trying to figure out why she lost interest after the first date can take you down a huge rabbit hole. No doubt, you had all your ducks in a row — everything from an epic date location, to a good set of first date questions and a fresh haircut. But something went wrong. After all, […]
Is It a Red Flag If She Talked About Her Ex on a First Date?

Men can be quick to question a woman’s behavior in the early stages of courtship — especially if she talked about her ex on a first date. I get it. Mentioning the ex can be one of those awkward moments that makes your ears perk up and your stomach turn at the same time. Why […]
First Date Drinks or Dinner?

“Which do you think is better: first date drinks or dinner?” I sometimes get this question from new clients who sign up for my 30-minute intro call, and I always tell them the same thing — taking her to dinner on a first date is a horrible, horrible idea. There are so many reasons for […]
Why Is She Ignoring Me After the First Date?

“Why is she ignoring me after the first date?” The answers to this question vary based on a variety of factors. Regardless of the reason, receiving radio silence after a first date is brutal, particularly when you felt there was chemistry with the person. But rather than wallow, take this experience as an opportunity to […]
How Long Should I Message Her Before a First Date?

A first date should be like unwrapping a present. Think of that new Tinder match as a gift, perfectly wrapped in scarlet and gold paper. It’s shiny, comes with a bow, and wants to be opened. As soon as you message your new match, the unwrapping process begins. But you don’t want to completely unwrap […]
She Didn’t Text Me Back After The First Date, Now What?

Randall Munroe is a NASA-roboticist that likes to apply his nerdy brain to answering life’s more absurd question. While taking a break from engineering robotic arms that would be installed on the newest space shuttle, Munroe turned his focus towards Earth. He wanted to calculate the odds of finding a soul mate. By using rules […]
What To Do On A First Date With A Woman To Assure Your Success

To begin, give yourself a congratulatory pat on the back. Having a woman respond in the affirmative when you ask her out instead of opting for a night of Netflix binging is in fact a worthy achievement. She’s choosing to spend time with you instead of getting intimate with her recliner and having her mind […]