In 2019 Pew Research found that 4 out of every 10 adults ages 25-54 were single.

That translates to pretty much 38% of adults being single. 

These numbers have been creeping up over time.

It’s fair to say that more Americans are single than ever before.

But this isn’t out of choice.

Studies show at least half of single adults are actively looking for relationships.

No one wants to die alone, but to many, this meme of being forever alone is turning into an actual possibility.

But here’s the good news – you’re trying.

I mean, you’re here right?

Clearly you’re ready to have a relationship, but more importantly, are willing to put the effort into finding someone you enjoy and building something special.

But how?

Feeling Lonely and Want to Change? MegaDate

There are countless way to go about meeting someone new.

You can go to a speed dating event, ask a friend for advice, download dating apps, or hang out at a cafe everyday until that hot barista finally notices how dope you are and asks you out.

We recommend MegaDating.

It’s the fastest way to get over your lonely blues and find a romantic partner.

Both women and men can apply this strategy.

MegaDating is a proactive dating approach that shows singles how to find and court their perfect partner in record time.

More specifically it will show you how to go on 20 dates in 90 days while improving your dating skills, boosting your confidence, and refining what exactly it is you’re looking for.

MegaDating is the best way to get yourself out there, to expose yourself to a range of people, and to find a date for this Friday.

How You’ll Meet People

We ran into this massive hurdle after graduating from college.

We no longer organically met people the way we did when we were at school.

Sure we entered the workforce, but meeting people at work isn’t the same as making friends with classmates, hall mates, on sports teams, or at parties.

Making friends and meeting potential romantic flames got way more complicated the second we walked off campus.

Now it takes a bit more effort to meet people – as you well know.

Here’s how to do it.

With MegaDating we want you to go on a carousel of dates. That means multiple dates every week. If you haven’t been on a date in months or years you may be wondering how you’ll find all these wonderful people to date.

To do so, you’ll mine your social networks. 

That means meeting people at the gym, social groups, Meetups, via dating apps, through friends, at work, etc.

But primarily we’ll use dating app to help you find your partner.

A Stanford study found that 40% of all new couples stared online. 

A 2021 updated version of that study found that nearly 55% of new heterosexual couples met online. 

Online dating has become so popular because you can do it from anywhere.

Whether you’re home alone, at work, while in transit, or even at a party (though we don’t advise this).

Dating apps are like 24/7 singles clubs. 

All you need to do is learn which dating apps to use and how to use them to connect with your ideal partner.

There are thousands of singles on these apps, but that means trying to win their attention is difficult. Not only that but that also means these apps are full of duds. You also need to learn how to qualify singles online so you’re not wasting your time.

We teach both things in our program, Dating Decoded.

Meeting People IRL

We don’t want you to become over-reliant on dating apps.

The last thing we want is for you to be at a party full of singles, and there you are in the corner, swiping away on Bumble.

To find your ideal partner we’ll first have you muse on who your ideal partner is.

What type of person are they, what are their values, and their hobbies.

After answering some basic questions, we’ll have an idea of who they are and, most importantly, where they spend their free time. Next, you’ll have to put yourself on a collision course with this person. Join that hiking group, gold club, or pickleball team, or start attending trivia nights.

Once here, we’ll give you the skills you need to comfortably approach, strike up a conversation, and quickly bond with the person who has caught your eye.

Once you have their number, it’s time to set up a first date.

First Dates

So that you’re not wasting all your time on people you won’t ever see again, we’ve developed some MegaDating first date rules to optimize first dates.

For one, first dates should last no longer than an hour. 

There’s this idea that first dates should last hours, be magical, and costly.

But if you’re dating around, you don’t want to spend hours on hours on first dates with what amounts to complete strangers. Instead, keep them short and sweet, don’t spend more than $20, make sure they don’t take place Friday or Saturday night, and that you get in and out.

Treat first dates like long intros rather than odysseys.

If you two like each other set something up at the end of the end.

A Community That Supports You

We know how lonely it can be to go it alone.

To be that one single person while all your friends are partnered up.

That’s why we created a community for our students.

In this exclusive community you can bond with fellow students and coaches, strategize, and make friends and accountability buddies. Our students come from all across the country. While most of their interaction takes place online many students also meet up in person to forge friendships and meet new people IRL.

We keep our male and female communities separate but have started matchmaking between the two.

Loneliness is the New Pandemic, and It’s 100% Normal

You may feel like you’re the only person who can’t find a partner, but we know that’s not true.

4 in 10 Americans 25 and older are single. Americans are waiting longer than ever to marry or forgoing marriage altogether.

When it comes to feeling lonely in general 1 in 4 Americans report feeling “very or fairly lonely.” 

Feelings of loneliness are highest among young Americans, with 27% of Americans between the ages of 19 and 29 feeling very or fairly lonely.

Men actually tend to struggle more than women, with more men reporting fewer close relationships than women.

But hey, this isn’t a loneliness battle of the sexes.

The point is that Americans are lonely as hell. So let’s change that.

Take Action With Dating Decoded

If you keep doing what you’ve been doing, nothing will change.

You’ll continue to stay in Friday nights as your friends go about their lives.

Don’t get left behind.

Don’t settle for a solitary life.

MegaDating is the proactive approach you need to jumpstart your dating life.

Dating Decoded

MegaDating is dating with intention and dating prolifically with the specific goal of going on 20 dates in 90 days and finding your ideal partner at the end of this period. 

This will give you ample potential partners to compare and contrast so you can refine not only your dating skills but also who your ideal partner is.

To teach you how to quickly find a highly compatible partner in just weeks and become the most eligible single in town you’ll team up with romantic experts, each skilled in their own unique area to support you.

Our Team

• Emyli (me), co-founder, curriculum developer, head coach, and I host coaching sessions every week
• Thomas, co-founder, and coach. He’ll lead the biweekly Man Cave event where men come together to talk dating, bond with one another, and support other single men
• Brooke, and Audrey are mock date specialists for men. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
• Darshil is our mock date coach for women. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
• Renee is our anxiety dating coach. As a licensed therapist she knows the steps needed to turn you into a cool, calm, and collected dater
• Hailey is your new stylist. She’s worked with celebs from every industry and is now about to raid your closet
• Tilly is our holistic sex & intimacy coach. She’ll help you get the most out of your sex life so you and your partner are happier between the sheets
• Mia is our social media expert. Revamp your Facebook and Instagram profiles with her help and start meeting singles online

If you’re ready to find your forever partner, book a Zoom session with our team today. Together we’ll talk about your dating history, your goals and show you how our program, Dating Decoded, can help you find your ideal partner.