San Francisco’s neighbor to the north Marin County while just a bridge away feels like a whole new world.

Replete with greenery at every turn, Marin is home to amazing national parks, some of the most pristine beaches in the state, and of course more than a couple of wineries for those too lazy to drive all the way to Sonoma.

You might be puzzled as to why we’re writing an article about dating in Marin County.

Well, the thing is dating in San Francisco can be fairly lopsided. Some estimate there are 104 men for every 100 women. It’s this one-sided stat that has made SF the top city for marriage-worthy men. Not only are there ample options but everyone is a high earner and has various degrees.

That’s great and all if you’re a woman, but what if you’re a man?

If you’re a man living in SF or Man Jose you may well struggle to find a single woman that isn’t already being courted by 20 other men.

So what are you to do?

Well, you could always look north to Marin.

Marin has a gender ratio of 100 women to every 95 men.

It should be said however that the ratio of women to men looks fairly similar to SF if you’re 35 or younger. It’s this demographic that is still dominated by men. However, once you hit 35 that all changes. Dating in Marin might just be your answer to finding a partner.

Marin County Dating Coach

But who will help you navigate these foreign lands?

Marin County is of course vastly different than SF if only a bridge away.

A Marin County dating coach can equip you with the skills you need to court a lovely single female in Marin.

The only question is, which coach should you team up with?

emlovz

emlovz is uniquely positioned to help you find your everlasting amor.

Sure we’ve been exclusively helping men find love for over 10 years and yes we’ve developed a comprehensive curriculum to help you go from Joe Shmoe to Brad Pitt, but more importantly, we’re local.

I’m a Cali girl that knows Marin up and down. I know the women, dating scene, and the best first dates spots (more on that later).

But saying we can turn you into a highly coveted bachelor is one thing, doing it is another.

So how do we do it?

MegaDating

First off let’s talk about our dating philosophy.

We’re of the mind that the more people you date the better your odds are of finding someone you’re super compatible with.

This means being proactive when it comes to finding dates.

It means getting out there and tapping various social channels to find compatible women to date. Dating just one or two women every few months isn’t enough a large enough sample size to ensure the woman you ultimately settle down with is the best possible option.

To find that woman you’re hyper-compatible with we teach and encourage MegaDating. MegaDating is the act of dating multiple women at the same time.

Dating various women comes with a bunch of sexy benefits:

• Boosts confidence
• Improves you’re flirting skills
• Makes you more comfortable around women
• Makes you less needy and clingy
• Prevents oneitis
• Helps you quickly find a compatible partner
• Refines what you’re looking for
• Is super freakin’ fun

MegaDating is a shortcut.

The more women you date the less time you spend single.

To be clear we’re not promoting having various girlfriends or a copious amount of sex. Once you no longer want to date a woman simply tell her so and move on. Dating various women simultaneously gives you the confidence to not cling on to a relationship you know doesn’t have the legs.

But how in the world are you expected to find all these women?

The Perfect Profile

Like it or not your next girlfriend is on dating apps.

The easiest way to find her (especially if you want to date in Marin but live in SF) is via dating apps.

Dating apps used to carry quite the stigma. They were thought to be used for hookups and those 65+. That’s just not the reality anymore.

Nowadays 39% of relationships start online.

That means if you want to find your next girlfriend you should probably get yourself online. The issue is that thousands of other men are already online. So many in fact that apps like Tinder has a ratio of 9 men to every woman. That only improves slightly when we log into the feminist version of Tinder, Bumble, which has a ratio of 7 men to every 3 women.

In order to stand out you’ve got to create an epic profile.

That’s where we come in. We’ll show you how to take amazing photos, choose the best, and write a bio that is guaranteed to match with compatible women.

We’ve already helped hundreds if not thousands of men beat out the competition, now it’s your turn.

MegaMessaging

Creating an amazing photo will help you amass matches, but that’s not even half the battle.

Matches might be good for your ego but a match doesn’t mean you scored a date.

To ultimately take a match out you have to strike up a conversation and convince her you’re the right person to spend her Friday night with.

But how in the world do you do that?

Lucky for you, the competition has no idea.

The average female user’s inbox looks like this…

For the most part, men simply message, “hey” or a variation.

Opening messages are the most important message you’ll send her.

Once she responds you’ll have more info to work with thus making the conversation easier.

But initially, you don’t have much to work with. That’s what makes these messages so difficult.

In our coaching program, Dating Decoded we’ll teach you how to send compelling opening messages. Not only this but we know how to convince her to go out with a stranger such as yourself.

To be fair it’s relatively easy.

It involves revolving the conversation around a topic you two have in common. Combine this with a joke or two, a TDL, and boom you two are on your way to a first date.

Okay, maybe it’s not that simple, but we’ll dive more in-depth in our program, Dating Decoded.

Dating Blueprint + Closing Sequence

Let’s imagine that you two are off on a first date.

You got your mack on, showed her you’re worth spending her Sunday afternoon with, and now only need to plan a killer first date.

But where do you go, what do you do, and how should you act?

The first three dates of any budding relationship are the most critical.

This is the make-or-break period of the relationship. To make sure all goes according to plan we created a three-date blueprint to set you on your way.

Here are the broad-stroke keys to the first three dates:

First dates should last around an hour with no more than $20 being spent. This is because you’re going out with a relative stranger. You might learn you’re not attracted to this person the moment their ass hits the cushion of that fancy French restaurant you invited her to. Don’t make the mistake of inviting a stranger to an expensive and super long first date. Keep things short and cheap.

When inviting her on a first date, invite her to do something you know she’s into and that is close to her place of work or home. Make the TDL too easy and awesome to reject.

Second dates should be 100% free and active. Free to ward off gold diggers and active because active dates make it super easy to get your flirt on. They also lend themselves to your objective of going on a cheap or free date.

If there’s a serious enough connection to warrant a third date, now it’s time to spend big. Show her how you feel by wining and dining her.

But how well do you know Marin County?

Here are the some of the best date spots when Dating in Marin.

Best Date Ideas In Marin County

Remember, first dates should be relatively inexpensive and brief. Here are a few date spots that satisfy that criteria.

Muir Woods

Of course you’ve heard of Muir Woods, but let’s be serious, you don’t hike there nearly as often as you’d like, and neither does she. It’s close to SF and has some of the finest redwood trees in the country. Sounds like a hike with the pups would be the perfect second date, don’t you?

Stinson Beach

A bottle of wine and sunset anyone? This is a classic second date idea that’s easy to implement. If your date is the more active type why not enjoy a little beach volleyball, hiking, fishing, or surfing?

Emporio Rulli 

Pastry and chill anyone?

Emporio Rulli is one of the most well-known sweet tooth shops in Marin. After snagging a pastry or panini to-go and head over to a lookout point at the Baltimore Canyon Preserve.

Flour Craft Bakery and Cafe

This is Marin’s go-to sport for all things bread, pastry, and gluten-free related. After you’ve filled up on the best bread in town take a stroll through some of the loveliest streets in the area.

Equator Coffee

Why not hit everyone’s favorite Bay Area coffee shop for a first date?

Schedule this date just after work or during. Doing so will make it so easy that she’ll have to say yes.

Now that you know where to take her on a date it’s time to find a woman to ask out.

Dating In Marin Next Steps

emlovz is here to help you accomplish all your romantic goals.

We do so by enrolling students in a program that includes:

• Countless hours of online curriculum
• Mock dates to practice before you go out IRL
• Online community to get coaching, hold you accountable, commiserate with, and strategize with
• Two weekly coaching sessions

There’s no doubt we’re the best Marin County dating coach, but if you don’t believe us, ask one of our students.

Wed love to learn more about you, your dating history, and dating goals. We’ll talk about our program, Dating Decoded, and how we can help you find your lifelong partner.

Let’s talk via a 1-on-1 Zoom and start your transformation right now.