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Should I setup the date near her house or mine

You’re not 17 anymore. Thus, you have absolutely no reason to ever engage in car sex. Perhaps sex in the back seat was always a fantasy of yours. A fantasy, that despite now having an apartment and bed of your own, you still wish to fulfill. Having car sex is about as enjoyable as having sex in a Japanese sleeping pod.

The point is that when things heat up on your next date (hopefully … Keep Reading

first date questions to ask a woman

Are you looking for the best first date questions to ask a woman on an upcoming date? Smart guy. The first three dates are crucial when it comes to moving forward with a potential mate. First impressions are so important in fact that you’re going to want to make sure you come prepared. You’ll need to have a solid list of first date questions to ask that don’t make her feel like she’s in an … Keep Reading

What to text her after the first date

While I understand you’ve arrived on this article because you want to know what to text her after the first date, the majority of what I’m about to tell you is why you actually shouldn’t. Texting between dates is dicey.

Too much communication, especially thoughtless, superficial messages (like the below examples) have the unintended consequence of sabotaging sexual attraction.

Example of a bad text after the first dateBad text to send a woman because it's basic AFWeak text message example to send a womanIf you’re repeatedly seeing text message conversations with women fizzle out, then you might be killing … Keep Reading

dating after 60 rules for men

So you’re dating after 60 you don’t say?

I can wax poetic about how love doesn’t discriminate and all that cliché bologna but you wouldn’t be here if you didn’t already think the truisms about love were, well, true. You’re not here to be convinced that you’re worthy of love despite your age, but rather how to find it.

The dating scene has changed since you were last single. Decades may have passed, and in Keep Reading

Want to learn how to love yourself and be more confident?

Want to learn how to love yourself and be confident? You’ve come to the right place. Let me tell you about the first time I learned how to do it. I’ve never told this story, not on paper anyway. The night that everything changed for me back in 2012.

You see, up until this point, I had been very guarded on my dates, and super judgmental about the men I was meeting. I hadn’t yet … Keep Reading

flowers on a first date

Have you ever wondered to yourself, “Should I bring flowers on a first date?” The answer to this question is a tricky one. After all, you don’t want to come across as needy, but you do want to stand out from the competition. I pose this question because a client and I recently went on a mock date, and he brought me a flower, which motivated me to explore the concept of gift-giving.


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dating tips for indian guys

Being that a lot of my clients are Indian, it only seems right that I present a few dating tips for Indian guys.

Immigrants don’t shed their skin and personalities when they step foot on American soil. Each immigrant brings their own unique culture and attitudes with them as they navigate American life. These uniquely foreign features can work for and against you. Immigrant or not, your habits and personality have been deeply impacted through … Keep Reading