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The Best Female Dating Coaches for Men (Top 8)

The Best Female Dating Coaches for Men (Top 8)

A wise man once said two is always better than one.

At emlovz, we believe 8 is better than 1.

There is no omniscient dating coach. No one female dating coach out there has Mel Gibson-like powers where they can hear every thought a woman has.




What you will find while searching for the best female dating coach are a lot of well-informed women that can help you meet single women.

The problem is that if you’re teaming up with just one woman. 

Being that she’s not all-powerful, there are bound to be deficiencies and gaps in her knowledge. But even if she did know everything there was to know about women, chances are she wouldn’t have the time to impart all her wisdom as she’s being pulled back and forth from student to student.

So maybe what you want isn’t the single best female dating coach, but rather the best team of female dating coaches.

In other words, you’re looking for emlovz.

Best Team Of Female Dating Coaches

Comprised of 8 female coaches and one male coach, emlovz has helped thousands of men go from no dates in 10 years to 10 dates in a month.

But the thanks can’t be placed on just one coach.

Now presenting the emlovz team, or better put, your new team of female dating coaches.

Emyli – Co-founder

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I guess I’m the head coach around here :).

I co-founded emlovz more than a decade ago (as if the photos plastered over our site didn’t give it away).



I decided to create a dating program exclusively for men after my 100-date experiment where I went on 100 dates in a year. While this started as a social experiment to understand how romantic relationships start, what makes them successful, and why women are attracted to some men and not others, this unintentionally became the philosophy that shaped everything emlovz teaches.

What I did is called MegaDating.

MegaDating is a proactive dating approach involving going out with various women at the same time. Sure finding the right woman involves a bit of luck, but we believe in making our own luck instead of waiting around for some rom-com-like event to sweep our male students off their feet.

MegaDating means a new woman every week. This exposure will not only refine your dating skills and give you a better understanding of who your ideal woman is, but it’s like taking a shortcut to find your ideal partner.

You’ll learn the ins and outs of MegaDating in our online curriculum and live coaching sessions — both of which are led and designed by myself.

My team and I have meticulously been developing the online curriculum for years. It’s a self-paced online platform where you’ll learn everything from who your ideal partner is to how to touch a woman on a first date, to how to ask a woman out, and how to have amazing first, second, and third date conversations. 

Twice a week I lead live coaching sessions where students can talk about their dating lives and get help with whatever is directly impacting them at the current moment. It could be a profile review, messaging review, deciphering a date, how to escalate a nascent relationship, or anything else.

For 360 degree support, we also pair these coaching sessions with unlimited coaching and support Monday-Friday in our private student only community.

If you want to learn a bit more about me and how our program Dating Decoded works, check out our program overview.

But of course, I’m just one member of the squad.

Cat – Love Coach

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Scoring a date is one thing, but really falling for a woman is another.

If you want to take things to the next level, hit up Cat.

Cat has over 7 years of coaching experience and prides herself not on her ability to change the lives of her students, but transform them.

She’s worked with more than 200 students and has over 3,000 hours of coaching to her name. Her mission is to “spread love and positivity worldwide as a love coach, reiki healer, and serial entrepreneur.”

You’ll find Cat doing mock dates and profile reviews in our program.

Audrey – Mock Date Expert & Dating Coach

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Don’t you wish you could ask a woman after a date how it went and receive a truthful response?

If you could ask her if she really liked your jokes, if that shirt made your pecs pop, and if she enjoyed your cologne?

At emlovz, Audrey specializes in telling you what she thinks. 

Audrey is a mock date specialist. At emlovz we not only equip you with the dating skills you need to court her. But just because you have a strategy doesn’t mean you’ve practiced what you’ve learned.

In a safe and low-stakes environment you’ll take Audrey on a mock date. At the end of the date she’ll let you know how it went by providing you a mock-date scorecard. She’ll go into detail regarding what worked and what needs improvement.



Hailey – Celebrity Stylist

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She’s dressed some of the biggest celebrities (Lady GaGa) and models in the game and now she’s going to help you get ready for your first date.

Hailey understands the importance of looking good. But perhaps even more importantly, she knows how to look good. 

Whether you’re dressing for a first date or for dating app photos Hailey has you covered. She’s styled for TV, film, ads, and fashion editorials, and how she’s going to style for you.

Talk to Hailey now about how to revamp your wardrobe so you can look your best on your next date.

Brooke – Mock Date Expert

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Like Audrey, Brooke is also a mock date specialist.

One mock date with Brooke and you’ll be ready to take on the world — or at least take out that hottie from Bumble.

Brooke is the perfect mock date coach with you because of her passion for helping students improve their dating game and thus their wellbeing.

What’s unique about Brooke is that she loves doing in-person mock dates to give single men priceless date feedback to improve their interpersonal, social, and relational skills.

Brooke’s background is in phonology as she is a practicing occupational therapist chiefly working with burn survivors.

She is super in tune with how words make people feel. She knows exactly the right and wrong thing to say to a woman while on a date. After the date is over she’ll provide detailed feedback in her mock-date scorecard and address areas that need improvement.



Mia – Social Media Coach

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About 40% of all relationships start online. 

Whether it be on a dating app or social media, more often than not, that initial attraction takes place online.

So it’s vital that you’re dating apps and social media profiles are performing well.

At emlovz we’re always revising the dating app profiles of our students.

But when it comes to social media, well, we leave that to Mia.

Mia is a pro at setting up Instagram profiles that get responses & dates.

She knows what women want to see online, how to structure a profile to win their attention, and how to capitalize on that attention by sliding into her DMs with a quality message.

The reality is that if you’re not meeting women online you’re missing out on many dating opportunities.

Many men feel as though they don’t have any good photos or don’t know how to use social media to meet women. That’s fine if you’re a bit confused, Mia is here to help.

Mia was just one of our coaches that played a crucial role in helping our student, Naeem score 31 dates since joining Dating Decoded.

Aundrea – Fitness Coach

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It’s no surprise that women love fit men. 

But you don’t need to be jacked or performing in Tough Mudders to receive a double take.

A little muscle here and there could go a long way in catching her eye.

But too few men know how to lose weight and build muscle. That’s where an expert like Aundrea can help you out.

Aundrea Todorovits is a seasoned bodybuilding champ who has taken 1st place in various competitions through the years. Her time as a competitor has taught her how to train for an elite aesthetic but also how to teach others to attain it as well.

It doesn’t matter if you’ve never eaten a vegetable before or have never completed a single push-up. Aundrea can help you not only build muscle, but confidence. She can help you become a version of yourself you thought only existed in your fantasy. Sure you’ll have bigger muscles and more confidence, but by eating right and working out you’ll also have more energy, a sharper mind, increased libido, and of course more dates!

After a single session with Aundrea, you’ll be provided with either a workout plan and a meal plan to help you achieve the physical look you’re going for. She also has some transformative material in our online curriculum.

Aundrea will make your pathway toward achieving the body you want crystal clear.

Tilly – Holistic Sex & Intimacy Coach

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Not only is Tilly one of the best female dating coaches around, but she’s one of our favorites.

I mean who wouldn’t want a coach that can help them have better sex?

Tilly Storm is recognized as one of the top 20 sex coaches in the world by the Coach Foundation and her podcast has reached over 240,000 listeners.



Unlike other sex coaches, Tilly doesn’t have a one-size-fits-all approach to improving your sex life — and why would she?

Sex is unique for every man and woman. What one man likes another might despise. That’s why she customizes every coaching session to maximize not only your sexual enjoyment but your partner’s as well.

If you have a low libido, feel guilt or shame in the bedroom, don’t know what you like, or how to communicate with your partner, Tilly is the perfect person for you. She’s an expert not just in good sex, but epic sex. 

No matter your age or preferences, Tilly can help you orgasm like never before.

As a certified sex and intimacy coach, Tilly uses transformational tools and techniques inspired by:

  • Taoist and Tantric arts
  • Somatic healing
  • Psychotherapy
  • Variety of coaching modalities to help men experience epic sex and pleasure and more intimacy with their partner

In addition to one-on-one coaching sessions, Tilly’s lessons can also be found in our online curriculum which students have lifetime access to (as if they’ll need it).

Thomas – Co-founder

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Along with myself, Thomas is emlovz’s co-founder.

He was one of the many men I dated during my 100-date experiment, and in fact, he was the one I ended up with. We have now have been together for over 11 years.

When you enroll in Dating Decoded you’ll interact with Thomas in two ways.

For one, you’ll see him popping up all over the online community. The online community is a place where our male students and female coaches come together to bond, support one another, and strategize.

Whenever a student has a doubt that can’t wait until one of our two live weekly coaching sessions, he’ll pop his questions or doubt into the community. Immediately coaches and students will come together to strategize or just offer support.

Thomas is always one of the first coaches to respond, offering advice from a male’s perspective. He is the lead man on the emotional support team because he understands how difficult it can be for a single guy.

Before meeting Em he went on his own 5 year dating journey of his own in SF. He gets how easy it is to feel alone or how one rejection and leave you spiraling.



That’s why he created the Man Cave. 

Twice a month Thomas leads a group of male students (no girls allowed!) in a discussion about what it’s like being a single male. Every student has an opportunity to talk about whatever is on their minds, whether it be a win or a loss.

At emlovz, Thomas plays a massive role in creating a supportive community. To help create this environment Thomas also helps students find and connect with accountability buddies. These are group members that will hold you accountable to your goals, check in with you, and be with you every step of your journey.

How To Spot A New or Fake Female Dating Coach

We’ve talked a lot about the best female dating coaches, but with all the coaches out there claiming to be the best, how do you spot a fake or low-quality coach?

Here are a few things to look for when searching for a dating coach.

Make Sure The Coach Is Involved

Some students go through an entire program without ever meeting their female dating coach (you’ll meet with me right after you sign up, in a private onboarding zoom call).

They expect live sessions and a hands-on experience but are duped once they dish out thousands of dollars. To ensure the coach you hire plays an active role in your dating life be sure to read reviews and watch testimonial videos like this one.

As you can see, Derrick and I clearly have a rapport. We clearly know each other and have interacted at length prior to this video.

Make Sure Video Reviews Are Genuine

Watch the videos the coach posts. If the student is far away from the camera and clearly reading from a prompt, it’s staged — on to the next coach!

Read Their Philosophy

Does the coach you’re looking into have a philosophy?



Or are they extremely vague in what they offer and appear to make things up as they go along.

Look for signs of a philosophy on their website (ours is MegaDating). If you like the coach but aren’t sure of their philosophy, ask them via a Zoom call to expand.

Check Third Party Reviews

Anyone can write up their own review and put it on their website or only choose glowing reviews.

Check your coach’s Google reviews.

Talk To A Coach Prior

If you want to see if emlovz really has the best female dating coaches in town (plus Thomas) chat with us.

Schedule a 1-on-1 Zoom call so we can learn more about each other. During the call we’ll learn more about your dating history and goals and see if our program, Dating Decoded can help you achieve your goals.

But you’ve heard enough from us… check out what our students have to say about the program. 

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