Sometimes it probably feels like Bend has more microbreweries than single women.

That’s because Bend has a population of just over 100,000, with the majority of those people being men. Bend, Oregon also has a median age of 39.5 making it a year and a half older than the median age of the country’s population.

That means that there are fewer single women than in comparable cities and that more of them will be married than in cities of comparable size.

But enough about the depressing stats, Bend on the whole is a great place to live. 

It’s surrounded by more verdant beauty than nearly any other city, is sunnier than any other city or town in the state, is an outdoor aficionado’s haven, has almost more breweries per capita than any other city in the US, and is super dog friendly.

The women here are smart, independent, have their own hobbies and lives to live, and are certainly worth getting to know.

While it’s been a little tough lately, that will all change when you team up with your Bend dating coach.

Bend Dating Coach

When it comes to enlisting the help of a Bend dating coach to help you score a date for this Friday there is really only one coach, or rather coaching agency, with the track record and know-how to make the difference.

emlovz has been helping students meet that perfect someone for over 10 years.

We have a long track record of effectively teaching men the skills they need to have results like this:

So how exactly do we do it?

MegaDating

In our dating program, Dating Decoded we teach men everything they need to know about dating, from how to flirt with a woman, to breaking the touch barrier, to sending out the best possible first message.

But everything we teach is influenced by our dating philosophy, MegaDating.

MegaDating is the practice of dating prolifically.

Gone are the days of only going on one date every six months. We’ll teach you how to go on various dates a week with different women.

We teach and encourage men to date around because doing so is a shortcut to finding not just your next partner, but the perfect partner.

The logic is simple really, the more women you date the better your odds of finding someone you’re super compatible with. Dating various women at once is a fast way to do just that. Going out with various women at once allows you to compare and contrast women and prevents you from settling.

Prior to MegaDating you may have fallen for a woman simply because she expressed interest. A scarcity mentality may have made you believe that you should date the first woman that shows you interest. But when you’re dating around you’ll realize that there are plenty of women out there that are into you. There is no need to settle when you have another date coming up around the corner.

But to date around you’ll need to tap your social channels.

Online Dating Pro

The easiest way to meet women nowadays is online.

Pull out your phone right now, download Bumble, and boom you have access to hundreds if not thousands of single women in Bend. Everyone on that app is single and looking to date (for the most part). Nowhere else in the world will you be able to find such a large amount of women that are single and ready to mingle.

The closest real-life equivalent is speed dating but unlike IRL speed dating, online dating is cheaper, attended by more women, always accessible, faster, and most importantly can take place in the comfort of your home. 

But just because everyone uses online dating apps to meet their new partner, doesn’t mean it’s easy to use.

In fact, dating apps like Tinder have a gender ratio of 9 men to every 1 woman. Bumble doesn’t fair much better with 7 men for every 3 women. This lopsided ratio means women can be even more picky than they normally are with respect to who they show interest.

What this means for you is that you have to create a profile far above average to receive the swipes you need to start chatting with these women.

Via our online curriculum, in-depth profile reviews, and live coaching sessions you’ll learn how to create a top-performing profile.

You will learn how to snap and choose the right photos, how to fill out a quality bio that attracts compatible women, and how to effectively write Bumble prompts.

We will also teach you how to leverage in-person dating channels to meet women. You’ll learn where your ideal partner is most likely to be found and how to meet more women IRL.

However, we do place a special emphasis on meeting women online as it’s the easiest and quickest way to do so.

MegaMessaging + TDL

Once you’ve begun to stack matches in your match queue it’s time to start the conversation.

Remember that a dating app is just that, a dating application. If you’re only using it to get matches, you’re not really dating anyone. To date a woman you met online you have to match, chat her up, then ask her out for a date IRL (or at least via Zoom).

As your new Bend dating coach, we’ll teach you how to send high-quality opening messages and quickly build attraction online before asking her out with a TDL.

Understand that just because you two matched, that doesn’t mean you’re meant to be. It doesn’t mean she wants to be your girlfriend, go on a date with you, or even speak with you.

To convince her of your worth you’ll need to become an expert online communicator.

Doing so is honestly simple enough, yet still so many men insist on sending messages like these:

We’ll teach you how to send opening messages that are guaranteed responses and help you convert those messages to more in real life dates.

Our tutorials will then show you how to steer a conversation in such a way that you two build rapport, learn more about her, and ask her out in a way that she’ll for sure say yes (hint: Use a TDL).

Dating Blueprint

The first three dates are the most crucial.

Being that you two are basically strangers at this point you’ll need to put into the work to get to know one another. To do so in a way that facilitates attraction while adhering to MegaDating principles you need to follow these rules.

First dates should be shorter than an hour with no more than $20 being spent. Chances are you’re going on first dates with strangers. These are women that you’ve never spent time with before. You maybe dislike her the moment she sits down. Why spend over $100 and four hours of your valued free time with a woman you don’t like? Keeping things short also boosts mystery and if the date went well will leave you both wanting more.

Second dates should be 100% free and active. Free dates ward off women that only go out with you for a free meal. Not to mention active dates are generally super fun, inventive, novel, and memorable. Everyone has gone on a dinner date, but has everyone gone kayaking? Think outside the box and make this a heart-pumping second date. Active dates also lend themselves to breaking the touch barrier. It’s not always easy to signal and build attraction via touch at a restaurant. However when you two are working out together, going for a joke, biking, or just walking down the street while on a street art tour, touching becomes a much more natural thing to do.

Third dates are when you should her how awesome she is. If you two are on a third date it means you see a future together. You wouldn’t ask a woman you’re uninterested in on three dates, would you? Bring her somewhere special and really show her how much she means to you. Make it a night you two will never forget.

More Than Just A Bend Dating Coach

When we team up you’ll receive more than the help of a single coach.

At emlovz, we’re a tribe of coaches and students working together to help you achieve your dating goals.

Here are all the coaches and the distinct roles they’ll play in your near future:

• Emyli, co-founder, curriculum developer, head coach and will be leading the twice-a-week coaching sessions
• Thomas, co-founder, and coach. He’ll lead the biweekly Man Cave event where men come together to talk dating, bond with one another, and support other single men
• Cat, Brooke, and Audrey are mock date specialists. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
• Hailey is your new stylist. She’s worked with celebs from every industry and is now about to raid your closet
• Tilly is our sex coach. She’ll help you get the most out of your sex life so you and your partner are happier between the sheets
• Aundrea is an award-winning fitness coach. Are you ready to eat right and get stronger?
• Mia is our SM specialist. Revamp your SM profiles with her help and start meeting women online

emlovz is so much more than a single coach.

We’re an ecosystem of coaches that will help optimize every aspect of your dating life so you can find and court the best possible partner for you.

We’d love to learn more about you and your goals when you book a 1-on-1 Zoom call. 

If you want to know how our students have benefited from our program, just check out what Naeem had to say.