Ask your average Wichita single and they’ll probably tell you that Wichita Kansas isn’t a romantic hotbed. 

Women will say most guys are duds, guys will say most women are too picky, and everyone will say that it’s a big small town where everyone knows each other.

While that might be what the average Doo-Dah resident thinks, others suggest it’s really not that bad.

Every year WalletHub ranks the best cities for singles.

In 2022, Wichita ranked 74th in the nation beating out cities like New Orleans, Philadelphia, San Antonio, and Dallas.

Three metrics were used to rank a city: dating opportunities, fun & recreation, and cost of living.

Of the 182 cities WalletHub examined, what made good ol’ Wichita Kansas stand out most was its ranking of 15th in the nation for cost of living.

Ya see, Wichita isn’t such a bad place to be single.

Best Wichita Dating Coach for Men

The thing is, even if Wichita is relatively cheap and has great dating opportunities (as defined by WalletHub as its share of single population, gender balance, and online dating opportunities) it’s still not always easy finding that special someone.

That’s why I’d like to introduce you to the best Wichita dating coach for men.

Because sometimes guys just need a little extra help finding their person.

That’s why I’d like to introduce you to Wichita’s best dating coach for men, emlovz.

emlovz

When it comes to the best dating coach in town, emlovz is the only real option.

That’s because emlovz knows exactly how to equip you with the skills you need to find and court a lovely Wichita woman.

It all starts with MegaDating.

MegaDating

Way back before you could swipe your way to a date emlovz co-founder Emyli Volz embarked on a 100-date experiment. She went on 100 dates in order to find out how attraction worked… and of course to find a partner.

It was this experiment that led to the creation of MegaDating and emlovz.

Simply put, MegaDating is dating multiple women at the same time.

At emlovz we believe in proactive dating.

Instead of kicking back and living your life hoping to bump into the right person, MegaDating teaches men to create their own luck.

In our program, we’ll teach you how to meet so many women, manage all these dates, and how to maximize romantic success.

Dating around sounds fun right?

But it also has a ton of benefits including:

• Quickly finding a compatible partner
• Helps avoid settling
• Refines who you’re interested in
• Boosts dating skills
• Makes you more confident

In our program, Dating Decoded we’ll teach you how to meet all these women.

A tool we’ll teach you to use to aid in your search is online dating.

But as you likely already know, online dating can be rough — we can help with that.

An Online Bachelor

Online dating isn’t some niche, stigmatized way to meet a romantic partner nowadays.

Instead of being unpopular and looked down upon it’s the most popular way to meet a partner in our modern dating scene.

But popular and easy are two different things.

Apps like Tinder and Bumble and terribly popular especially with male users that outnumber women 9-1 on Tinder and 7-3 on Bumble.

This warps the playing field making it difficult for men to find matches and easy for women to “date up.” It’s the scarcity of female online users that allows women to be hyper-selective and only swipe right on the most appealing profiles.

That means in order to stand out you have to invest in creating a bomb profile.

That’s why we’ve created a program that helps men create a top-performing profile that outperforms 90% of male profiles in their area.

We do this by helping men:

• Snap appealing photos
• Dressing to impress
• Choosing the right photos
• Photo roster lineup
• Write amazing bios and prompt responses

Your new and improved profile will help you start racking up the matches, but that’s only half the battle.

MegaMessaging

How do you message a woman after a match?

If you’re like most men your message will look something like this…

The majority of men exert minimal mental energy in coming up with an opening message.

They’ll message, hey or send an emoji and hope for the best.

This is never going to work for you.

To receive a message back and spark a conversation you have to send her a high-value message.

One way to do so is by reading her profile and crafting a message that addresses something she wrote in her profile.

Maybe she posted a few hiking photos and wrote that she loves the outdoors in her profile.

A quality opening message might be:

Is that Catamount Mountain? Is that your go-to place to hike?

I see you’re a fellow hiker, I just moved to the area and could use a few recommendations. 

These messages make clear that you’ve 1) read her profile and 2) share something in common (a love for hiking).

From here you want to keep the conversation revolving around a shared interest. Once you’ve exchanged and bonded over a few more messages it’s time to ask her for her number or on a date using a TDL.

Date Blueprint

Now that you’re matching with women left and right it’s time to smartly manage all those dates.

When you enroll in Dating Decoded we’ll show you the three-date blueprint that helps you quickly build attraction and weed out women that aren’t compatible.

Here’s what your first three dates should look like in a nutshell.

First Date: 1 hour long with a $20 limit

Second Date: Free and active

Third Date: Splash the cash and take her somewhere nice

The reason the first and second dates should be relatively cheap is because you don’t want to splash all your cash and spend all your time on a complete stranger.

You’re also dating various women at once. You don’t have an abundance of time and money to spend on every date. Wait to splash the cash until she makes it to the third date.

Some awesome Wichita first-date ideas include:

Kiss My Axe ace throwing

Go hiking or ride bikes in the Wichita area

Hit The Arcade and play classic arcade games while sipping on a craft brew

Hang with the animals when you go to the Sedgwick County Zoo

If she’s a transplant take her to the Kansas Aviation Museum

How You’ll Learn

We cover quite a bit in our program, so how exactly will you learn from the best Wichita dating coach for men.

We have four learning pathways.

Live Coaching Sessions

Twice a week we’ll come together to strategize via a Zoom call.

During these calls, our coaches will help guide you to get the most from your romantic life.

We’ll dive into each obstacle in detail and provide granular feedback on how to overcome any obstacle.

Once a month, co-founder Thomas Anthony also holds his Man Cave session. During this all-guys session, students have the chance to talk about their biggest obstacles, bond with other guys, and just talk about whatever is on their minds.

Online Curriculum

Our online curriculum has lessons on everything from how to have quality conversations on a first date to how to touch a woman to escalate sexual tension. Our curriculum is constantly being updated and amended.

We recently added lessons from our sex coach Tilly Storm that deal with the female anatomy, how to have great sex, and how to have amazing foreplay.

This is a self-paced learning platform that you’ll use for the majority of your learning.

Online Community

Our program is male-only.

As such our program and community (apart from coaches) are all male. This allows us to create a unique environment for men to come together to meet each other, bond, and strategize.

Once you enroll you’ll have access to this community. You’ll also be paired up with an accountability buddy who will check in with you every once and a while to make sure you’re on track to success.

While the online portion of our community is used to quickly resolve issues (such as confusing online conversations with women) our members quite often meet up in-real-life. We have students all over the country and as such, they often get together to make new friends and of course meet women.

Mock Dates

How do you practice what you’ve learned?

It’s not like you can go on a practice date right? When you team up with emlovz you’ll have the opportunity to go on mock dates with our specialists Brooke and Audrey.

Either online or in person, you’ll go on a brief date with one of our specialists. After which you’ll receive detailed feedback on what went well and what areas can be improved upon.

Dating Decoded VIP

We realize that some Wichita singles want more one-on-one time with our coaches.

That’s why we created Dating Decoded VIP for men that want that extra bit of support to get ahead.

With Dating Decoded VIP you can sign up for the following:

• One-on-one strategy sessions with our coaches
• Mock date session with Brooke or Aubrey or Cat
• SM optimization with our SM specialist, Mia
• Private profile reviews
• Personal style review with Hailey, our celeb stylist
• Meal planning & custom workout routine sessions with Aundrea, our fitness and health coach

Next Steps

Now that you know the best Wichita dating coach for men are you going to book a 1-on-1 Zoom call with us?

If you want to woo women both online and IRL and score a date for this Friday, give us a ring.

If you want to know if we’re the real deal why not ask our students?