Orange County is known for the surf, ritzy houses, and blonde women.

Not a bad trio if you’re a single guy in the area.

But the sky blue skies stop looking so Laguna Beach blue depending on your age.

Orange County has a gender ratio of 98 men for every 100 women. Sounds good at first, but that may change depending on your age group.

Let’s take a closer look.

As you can see things are particularly male-dominated if you’re looking for a woman 34 or younger. However that all changes the older you get. If you’re in Cali, Orange County is actually one of the more female-leaning places to live if you’re in the market for a lovely lady 35 or older.

But whether the ratio is in your favor or not doesn’t necessarily make dating in Orange County easier.

People just south of LA are notoriously flakey, plastic, and busy busy busy.

In fact, dating here in Orange County might just be one of the most difficult counties to do so in.

Orange’s biggest city, Anaheim, came in the 134th spot on WalletHub’s list of the best cities for singles in the states.

Places like Toledo, OH, and Fort Wayne, IN are thought to have better dating scenes than Anaheim.

But good or bad on paper doesn’t have to have any bearing on your dating life.

Sure the stats may not be in your favor, but all you need are the cheat codes to game the local dating scene.

But who has them?

The Best Orange County Dating Coach

Nowadays we have coaches for everything. We have tennis and fitness coaches, life coaches, and nutritional coaches, so why not have a coach for the most romantic part of our lives as well?

Your Orange County dating coach can equip you with the skills you need to either walk up to any woman and strike up a conversation or build a dating profile that ranks in the top 10% of all single men. A coach can confer you the confidence to get out there and start dating again.

The only question is… which coach is right for you?

I think I can answer that for you.

emlovz

The dating landscape changes just as often as the technological one. Quite often these two overlap, intertwine and create something altogether original.

emlovz is the only dating coach in Orange County that leverages technology to improve your dating life.

Our dating philosophy, MegaDating is all about dating multiple women at once in order to quickly find your ideal partner. Of course, we teach men how to meet women IRL, but we place an emphasis on using technology to connect with these women.

Nowadays it seems like everyone you know has met their partner online. And there are stats to back that up. According to a UK study, by 2037 the majority of new children will be e-babies, i.e. children born to parents that met online.

If you’re not finding single ladies online you’re missing a massive segment of the singles market. While online dating might feel weird, it’s the most popular way to meet someone new. At emlovz we teach you how to streamline your online dating game to meet new women.

But before we dive any deeper into our program, let’s rewind and start with the practical dating philosophy that informs everything we teach.

MegaDating

Small sample sizes suck.

Whether it comes to an academic study or figuring out which cake to serve at the wedding. The more people in the study and the more cake you have to try the better the results will be.

This applies to your dating life as well.

Imagine marrying the very first woman you ever dated.

Chances are she’s not the best partner out there for you. But you would never know because you never had the chance to try out other women.

By dating various women at the same time you increase your sample size and quickly understand who your ideal partner is. You try out personalities until you refine your palate. Once it’s refined you choose the woman you best vibe with.

In this way you maximize your odds of finding a solid lifetime partner.

So what do we mean by dating multiple women at once?

Imagine a slow version of speed dating, that’s MegaDating.

We don’t recommend scheduling one new date every month and taking her to the fanciest place in town.

Rather we recommend going on a series of brief micro dates with various women every week. In this way, you can meet a wealth of women without breaking the bank.

But how in the world are you expected to find so many single women to date?

The Perfect Online Dating Presence

Apps like Tinder and Bumble have dating ratios of 9 men for every one woman and 7 men for every 3 women. Either way, you slice it, online dating is highly competitive for men… even more so in Orange County.

But being that so many relationships have their origins online, not using dating apps isn’t really an option.

So what are you to do?

Compete.

At emlovz we’ve helped thousands of men go from no matches to performing in the top 10 percentile.

The first step involves revamping your photos.

Too many men post the few decent photos they have in their phone’s library and say job done. That’s not good enough when you’re competing against so many other men.

We’ve put together a recipe that guarantees more matches.

We’ve selected a roster of photo types that you must include in your profile if you want to be successful with women. But what if you don’t have any good photos?

In our program, Dating Decoded we show you not only which photos to choose but how to take good photos. Should all else fail we’ll set you up with one of our photographers.

To get you started let’s take a quick look at the top must-include dating app photos:

1) Headshot – up close and personal headshot so she knows exactly what you look like

2) Full-Body Shot – she wants to know how big you are, how many libs you have, and have a pretty good idea of what you look like in your totality

3) Group Shot – show her you have friends and that people enjoy being around you

4) GQ Shot – show off your best gala look by dressing up

5) Hobby Shot – showcase your personality by capturing you at your most you

6) Sporty/Animal Lover Shot – Hinge studies have found women love when guys show off their sporty or animal-loving side

MegaMessaging

How are you supposed to chat up women online?

Do you know the etiquette for flirting with women via text, Tinder, IG, and the many other ways we communicate via text?

The crazy part about dating nowadays is that men are expected to meet someone online and convince a stranger to meet them in person merely via the texts they send.

Wild right?

Not everyone is confident in courting women online.

That’s why we dedicate a large chunk of our program to teaching men how to message with intent.

Whether it’s on a dating app or sliding into her DMs we know which messages to send to convince her to spend part of her Saturday afternoon with you instead of her girlfriends.

We know the best opening messages to grab her attention, how to make her feel comfortable, and how to quickly build a bond.

TDL + Date Blueprints

Let’s imagine you’ve downloaded the apps, have chatting women up, scored some matches and are now ready to ask women out.

How do you pivot away from the apps and into the real world?

Most men would break down at this point.

That’s because too many male users aren’t actually on apps to find a date. Here’s a quick tip for you.

Ask her out with a TDL.

TDL stands for time, date, location.

Most men ask a woman out by saying, “hey want to go out sometime?”

That’s not a serious request.

Instead, you need to give her a specific date request she can either accept or reject.

Ideally, you ask her on a date that takes place close to her house or place of work and is a date idea she’s super into.

Here’s what that looks like…

“Jen! Want to go on a wine tasting this Sunday at 2 at Drink and Wine?”

Her profile and your conversation should give you plenty of material to work with. You should know what she’s into by now. Craft a date around one of her interests. Chances are if you two have vibed online and you’re asking her on a quick date involving something she’s into she’ll agree to meet up.

But if you’re dong this with multiple women how do you go about juggling so many dates?

Don’t worry, in our program we’ll give you the tried and tested (and constantly optimized) blueprints for mastering first, second, and third dates. It’ll include how much to text in between the dates and also tips for increasing sexual tension without being too forward or too passive. And much more.

Best First Dates In Orange County

It’s always difficult creating an awesome first-date plan. Don’t fret, as Cali natives we’ve got you covered.

Here are the best first date ideas in Orange County.

Sunset at Huntington Beach

It’s free, romantic, and simple. Plus who doesn’t dig a sunset at the beach? Huntington is one of the most beautiful beaches in the county. Sit back, pop a bottle of wine, bring out the cheese and enjoy the sunset.

Irvine Spectrum Center’s Giant Wheel

Sure she may have done it as a kid but I guarantee she hasn’t in years. Get nostalgic with a massive ferris wheel paired with ice cream.

Thousand Steps Beach Hike

Some people hike mountains, but you’re in Orange County, here we hike beaches. Bring the dogs and plan on the chillest hike of your life.

Knott’s Berry Farm 

Berry farm turned amusement park, this will surely be the most novel first date she’s ever been on. Often overlooked, this 67-acre theme park is located in Buena Park and in 2015 was the 12th most visited theme park in the US.

Mission San Juan Capistrano

Get historical and visit this 18th-century mission. It’s got to be one of the oldest buildings in all of Cali and so few people know of its existence.

Let’s Get Dating!

You’ve met the best dating coach in Orange County, have learned about our philosophy and some tools we’ll show you to help find the woman of your dreams.

So… what are you waiting for?

The next step is to book a 1-on-1 Zoom call with our coaches.

During our chat we’ll learn about who you are what you’re looking for and see if Dating Decoded can help you achieve your romantic goals.