The Best Long Island Dating Coach for Relationship Minded Men

Dating in Long Island is weird.

And let’s be clear, when I say Long Island I’m referring to Nassau and Suffolk county. Sure Dating in Queens and Brooklyn is plenty weird, but those that live outside the boroughs experience something that borough folk may never understand.

So like I was saying, dating in Long Island is weird.

The kids all want to move west, those that want to stay are often too broke to find a place of their own (unless they want to rent a house with 4 other roommates), public transportation sucks, and if you live outside the city center of places like Hempstead (really just Hempstead) you’ll probably be driving a fair way to find a large crowd.

Long Island also has this weird gender disparity.

Let’s take a look at Nassau County.

Best Long Island Dating Coach

As you can see LI is infested with men until the age of 30. Then everything changes. At 30 you begin to see the women outnumbering the men.

This could work both ways depending on your age.

Whatever your age and number advantage or disadvantage what’s certain is that dating in Long Island can be rough.

That’s why you want to enlist the help of the best Long Island dating coach.

So who is this mystery coach?

emlovz

As it turns out, it’s no secret who the best Long Island coach is.

But we should add that emlovz isn’t a single coach, but rather a squad of expert coaches ready to revamp your dating life.

So who does emlovz consist of?

Let’s meet your new team:

Emyli – co-founder, lead coach, lead curriculum creator, and also leads twice-a-week coaching sessions

Thomas– co-founder, lead male coach, and leads the Man Cave, a twice-a-month men’s group where guys come together to support one another and talk about whatever is on their minds

Hailey – celeb stylist and the perfect person to help give you a wardrobe makeover (she went to Parsons)

Audrey, Cat, Tessa, and Brooke – Imagine being able to practice your dating skills prior to a date. These ladies are mock date specialists and will give you feedback after a practice date

Tilly – Tilly is a sex coach that knows how to help you get the most out of your sex life

Aundrea – Get ready to beef up with the help of your award-winning nutrition and fitness coach

Mia – Optimize your SM profiles with the help of our Gen Z SM specialist

As you can see, we’re more than just a single coach, we’re a team of coaches dedicated to helping you find and court the perfect person.

Your New Strategy

Suffolk and Nassau have a combined population of about 2.9 million people around half of whom are women. Of those 1.45 women about 15% of them will be in your dating range. That leaves about 217,500 single women in your area. However, most might be already married or in serious relationships. So realistically, there are approximately 100,000 women in your area that you could date.

The best way to find your ideal partner would be to quickly filter through these women based on your preferences, date them, and pick whoever you’re most attracted to.

At emlovz, that’s more or less what we help you do.

You see, we’re creators and proponents of MegaDating.

MegaDating is the dating practice of dating many women at the same time. This means going on various dates with different women every week. It’s a highly proactive dating approach designed to help you find your ideal partner in the shortest time possible.

You do so by identifying your ideal partner, figuring out how to put yourself in front of your ideal type, and then dating as many of these women as possible.

Think of it like speed dating, except a little slower and way less awkward.

But upon hearing this for the first time a lot of men look at us like we’re selling a pipe dream. Most men haven’t gone on a date in months or years, and now here you are supposed to go on 31 dates in 3 months like our student Naeem.

Yes.

But first, you need to learn how.

The Perfect Online You

Going to every speed dating event, co-ed volleyball tournament, house party, dinner party, wedding, and ladies’ night in Long Island is encouraged, but it’s just not feasible.

At emlovz we teach our students how to meet women IRL. We teach them how to figure out their ideal woman, brainstorm where she might spend her time, and equip them with the in-person dating skills they need to court them.

But again, meeting women in-person is a slow way to meet women.

We help students leverage online dating to meet compatible women.

About 39% of all new relationships have their start online. This is because online dating is super easy – and basically a game. Anyone at any time, regardless of location can get their swipe on and try their hand at finding their new partner.

Whether you’re on a couch, at work, in transit, you can swipe and try your luck.

It’s this ease of romance that has led millions to download apps. The issue is that most of them are men.

9 out of every 10 Tinder users are men. Those odds are post-apocalyptic sounding. But no, this is the reality men are faced with when they log onto dating apps.

Instead of ditching them outright, you need to know how to perform.

We teach men how to create profiles that are guaranteed to receive a swipe right.

You’ll learn how to:

Snap the perfect profile
The ideal photo lineup
How to write bios that attract your ideal partner
Which apps to use
Other app hacks

Our students outperform 90% of other men on dating apps. But being one of the highest performers isn’t enough. What you need is a date.

MegaMessaging

How do you turn a match into a date?

Assuming you’ve already pimped out your profile and are scoring matches, now it’s time to learn how to communicate with women online.

It all starts with a solid conversation opener.

Lucky for you most men simple message, hey to kick things off.

Hey is a low-quality message that puts the onus on her to actually start the conversation. If she’s required to put effort in without you first showing your quality, she won’t message back.

It’s that simple.

To start a conversation, kick things off by sending a stimulating opening message.

A quality opener is one that examines what she has in her profile and asks a question about it.

From her profile maybe you gather that she loves festivals, dogs, dancing, or hiking. If that’s the case, simply ask her about it.

Keep the conversation revolving around subjects she’s into. When you two have a mutual interest broach it up and make it known. This will further your bond.

After you two have exchanged 10 or so messages it’s time to ask her out with a TDL.

TDL stands for time, date, location. Include these three details in your date proposal to make it known that you’re serious. Put thought into that first date and make it a fun one, close to her work or home, ideally during the daytime, and make sure it lasts less than an hour.

Date Blueprint

Once you’ve gained traction online it’s time to take things into the real world.

The final phase involves arranging for you to go on 2 or more dates per week (as long as your schedule permits) with women who genuinely excite you. This will empower you to have complete command over your dating life, enabling you to encounter your ideal partner on your own terms. This process eliminates the need to invest your resources in individuals who don’t hold the potential to be a true match.

By utilizing the DateBlueprints, you’ll acquire the skills to effectively structure your initial, subsequent, and follow-up dates. This progression ensures the gradual development of romantic chemistry without coming across as overly assertive or excessively reserved. Consequently, the women you engage with will naturally desire a deeper connection, aiming to become your significant other. With an array of remarkable candidates at your disposal, you’ll have the luxury of selecting the finest partner.

Here’s a quick glimpse into what your first, second, and third dates should look like:

First Dates – Under an hour with no more than $20 being spent

Second Dates – Active and 100% free

Third Dates – Make it a night to remember, don’t be afraid to spend big

Furthermore, once you discover your ideal partner we’ll be there to offer lifetime guidance and support, ensuring you possess all the necessary tools to nurture your love and maintain a fulfilling relationship.