The only time you really ever hear about Durham is during college basketball season.

Sure Duke is Durham’s prized possession but it’s got something else to boast about well, if you’re a man that is.

On the low, Durham is a great place to be a single man looking for his boo-thang.

That’s because Durham country has a gender ratio of 92 men to every 100 women. And as you can see that ratio favors men even more as you age.

So if it’s female fishing season year-round why do you need a Durham dating coach?

Well, while finding a partner is easy, finding someone you’re super compatible with is a whole other thing.

With more women in the dating pool your perceived value rises simply as a consequence of the scarcity bias. With fewer men to compete with you can be pickier, but are you? Are you using this leverage to your advantage?

Leverage what your mama (and the city of Durham’s lopsided gender ratio) gave you and find not just any partner but one that you can call your forever partner.

To do that meet Durham’s best dating coach.

Your Durham Dating Coach

When it comes to helping men get back in the game there is only one dating coach that can quickly turn you into the most eligible bachelor in town; emlovz.

So how exactly does emlovz help you leverage the romantic advantage that Durham offers?

Exclusively For Men

There are other coaches out there.

Coaches that cater to a wide variety of single people. Coaches that accept women, men, those looking to rebuild relationships, get their ex back, all genders, people of all sexual orientations, etc.

These coaches no doubt have the ability to get you what you want, but they might be spreading themselves a bit thin.

Catering to everyone means they aren’t experts in any single area.

emlovz on the other hand exclusively caters to male clients.

All of our content, students, and live training sessions are geared towards teaching men how to find the woman of their dreams. In this way we can zero in on hetero male-specific obstacles and offer precise solutions for our students.

Another benefit of our all-male student body is that we can create an exclusive community full of men that understand exactly what the others are going through. Our online community is a safe space for men to talk strategy, vent frustrations, and cheer one another on.

Four-Pronged Teaching Strategy

Everyone learns differently.

Unlike other coaches, we don’t offer one learning path. We won’t just chat with you for an hour a week and then leave you to fend for yourself.

Instead, we offer four different learning pathways:

• Online Curriculum
• Mock Dates
• Two Weekly Live Coaching Sessions
• Online Community

Online Curriculum

This is the centerpiece of our program, Dating Decoded.

With dozens of hours of content that covers every dating-related obstacle, you’ll encounter in Durham our online curriculum perfectly situates you to find a compatible partner in NC.

Topics range from everything from creating your ideal partner to flirting in person, to how to touch her to escalate sexual tension, to how to ask her out using a TDL. 

The best part about the online curriculum is that it can be consumed at your own pace. It can also be accessed years from now if you find yourself in need of a quick refresher on getting your flirt on. Lastly it’s always being updated and added to.

Mock Dates

Every man wants to be like Mel Gibson in What Women Want and know exactly what’s happening in the mind of a woman.

To know if she likes your cologne, if she thinks you look good in that shirt, and of course, if she’s into you.

At emlovz we won’t electrocute you in a tub in the hope that you’ll magically be able to read the minds of women.

We’re a bit more practical than that.

The best way to know what women want is for them to simply tell you. That’s exactly what our coaches will do after they go on a practice date with you.

After your date you’ll get a scorecard with everything that was and wasn’t working for you. They’ll let you know which comments and jokes they enjoyed and how you could have improved the convo and flirted a bit more.

This mock date gives you a chance to practice everything you’ve learned during our program in a safe setting before heading out on a real date.

Two Weekly Live Strategy Sessions

Dating multiple women at once (as we’ll teach in our program) is incredibly dynamic.

It requires always being on your toes, being fearless, and confronting an array of obstacles and rejections.

A static online curriculum isn’t enough to help you through these delicate encounters with the opposite sex. That’s why twice weekly we’ll have live Zoom coaching calls to discuss what is and isn’t working.

It’s during these calls you’ll have a chance to ask any question on your mind. Together we’ll address your worry in details as we find solutions to real-life problems. It’s here that we’ll also present new findings and share new tips and strategies to help you maximize your chances of finding love in Durham.

Online Community

Going through something alone is always more difficult than going through something with your tribe by your side.

We know getting back out there and dating isn’t always fun. So we had the idea of creating an community for students where they can get in touch with each other.

Mostly online (although students have met in person) our all-male students can discuss their dating lives. Wins and losses will be shared, tips will be exchanged and together we will support each other along the way.

It’s also in this community that you can reach out to one another or a coach should you have a burning question that needs answering.

Dating Decoded Program Pillars

So what exactly will you learn in our program?

Dating Decoded can be split up into four pillars.

First, let’s talk MegaDating.

MegaDating

MegaDating is emlovz’s unique dating philosophy that encourages students to date around.

That’s right.

We encourage and teach men how to date multiple women at once. That means going out with a woman from Bumble on Wednesday, Sally from accounting on Friday, and Jess from the party on Sunday.

Why do we encourage being so prolific?

It’s simple really. Dating is a numbers game. The more flavors you try to more likely you are to find one you like. Imagine going to Ben and Jerry’s, trying one flavor, kinda liking it, and then ordering it until your teeth fall out?

That’s not the right way to live life.

We don’t want you to settle on the first pretty woman to glance your way.

Dating around has a host of benefits…

• Helps avoid settling
• Refines taste in women
• Increases confidence
• Makes you a better flirt and more comfortable around women

But the most important benefit, it helps you quickly find a super compatible partner. 

MegaDating is a proactive dating shortcut to your forever partner.

But dating a bunch of women at once sounds like a dream, so how do we make it a reality?

The Best Dating Profile In Town

I read a stat the other day that said by 2037 the majority of newborns in the UK will be born to couples that met online.

In the article, they’re called e-babies.

Just 10 years ago online dating was taboo, a joke, and frankly didn’t work.

That’s not the case anymore.

39% of all new couples in 2017 met online according to this famous Stanford study.

To meet all these new women you’ll date in Durham you have to put yourself out there IRL and online.

That means creating a bomb online dating profile.

You might hate online dating right now… a lot of people do. 

But could your bad experiences online just come down to a bad profile?

Considering how superficial dating apps are the chances are likely.

That’s why we dedicate a large portion of our online curriculum and live strategy sessions to creating an online profile that outcompetes 90% of other profiles out there.

We know what it takes to get that coveted swipe right.

We know which photos work, how to take better photos, and how to fill out your profile so women can’t help but double-take. It’s all in our program.

MegaMessaging

Let’s imagine you hooked up with the best Durham dating coach and you recently revamped your profile.

Great.

You have a few matches in the bank and you’re ready to get your mack on.

But wait!

Before pressing send are you really sure you want to send that “hey cutie” message?

Just because you two matched doesn’t mean she’s super into you. One bad message could turn her into a ghost.

Even sending, hey, could squash your fledging relationship.

Chatting with her online requires more precision than chatting her up in person. In-person there are a billion other variables in place and if you make a mistake you can quickly redeem yourself. That’s not the case in the cutthroat online dynamic.

In our program we’ll teach you:

• The best opening lines
• How to build trust and a bond quickly
• How to transition from an online to IRL dynamic
• The best way to ask her out (hint, a TDL)

So many guys mess up their chances to take out amazing women because of their online etiquette.

We’ll walk you through text by text and demonstrate how to convince her to go out with you, a total (yet damn handsome) stranger.

Dating Blueprint

After securing that number it’s time to go on a date.

But what exactly should you do on a first, second, or third date?

These first dates are the most precarious of the relationship. One wrong move could mean you getting ghosted.

That’s why we gently walk you through how each date should be handled.

Here are the quick points.

First dates should last no longer than an hour with no more than $20 being spent. Keeping them short allows you to MegaDate without being burnt out or overspending on your romantic life. It also allows you to weed out gold diggers.

Second dates should be active and 100% free.

If she’s lucky enough to make it to the third date it’s time to show her how much you like her. Time and financial restrictions are lifted for this one. Take her out to eat at that fancy spot, see a show, and just show her how awesome you think she is.

First Dates Ideas In Durham

So where should you bring her on a first date?

Remember these dates should last around an hour while not breaking the break. With those two stipulations in mind here are the best first date spots in Durham.

Rooftop Yoga

Yoga is one thing, but yoga on The Durham Hotel is something else. Recover with a smoothie at the bar after you’re done working up a sweat as you take in some of the best views the city has to offer.

Barcade

Get your nostalgia on when you play one of the more than 50 arcade games at Boxcar Bar. The bar also offers console games if you two are serious gamers.

Stroll The Gardens

If a full-on hike is a bit too much for a first date why not hit the Sarah P. Duke Gardens? You can even book a free guided tour! As this date won’t cost you a buck (except for parking) you’ll have some money to spend on milkshakes after the date.

XXX

How many strikes can you roll on a first date? Why not find out when you two roll on down to Village Bowling Lanes.

Lemurs!

Who knew there were lemurs in Durham, North Carolina? Well, there aren’t, not unless you hit up Duke Lemur Center. Meet over 200 lemurs from 14 species as you take a guided or self-guided tour at Duke’s beautiful campus.

Dating Decoded

The best Durham dating coach has got you covered.

From weekly strategy sessions that discuss your latest wins and losses to an online curriculum tackling everything from how to escalate sexual tension to the best way to ask a woman out.

Book an intro call now so we can talk about your romantic goals and how emlovz can help you achieve them.