Columbia, Maryland is one of the best cities to live in the US.

That’s not my opinion, but rather what Money.com has to say about it.

According to the website, Columbia is the country’s sixth-best city to settle down in. Money loves it so much because of its diverse population, safety, high population of young adults, and its wealth of activities. It’s also a growing city with a gorgeous downtown area, new central park, and plenty of beautiful natural spaces for city dwellers to seek refuge. It’s a city without big-city issues.

While Columbia Maryland is undoubtedly a good place to live it’d be an even better city if you had a girlfriend to share it with. But finding a GF in Columbia might be difficult according to WalletHub. Every year WalletHub ranks the best cities to be single in. Out of 182 cities Columbia came in at 174.

WalletHub claims it’s too pricey, doesn’t offer enough entertainment, and has too few dating opportunities. So sure the city is a great place to live, but perhaps not if you’re single.

But let’s take this with a grain of salt. I mean is Columbia MD really a worse place to be single in than Montgomery, Alabama, or Jackson, MS?

No.

There are plenty of ways to meet women, you just have to learn from the expert.

The Best Dating Coach In Columbia MD – emlovz

There are plenty of dating coaches out there worth swiping right on, but only one you want to super like.

emlovz has helped thousands of men get what they want — a lifelong partner.

We specialize in helping men — and only men — find not just any partner, but a highly compatible partner. We help men find love by equipping them with the skills they need to get out there and actively find love rather than wait around for something to happen.

Our dating strategy, MegaDating, has been used all over the USA and yes, can even be applied in Columbia.

So what exactly is this philosophy that you too will soon apply to your dating life?

MegaDating

Be honest with me.

How many dates have you gone on in the last month? What about the last 6 months or year?

If you’re here, reading this article about the best dating coach in Columbia, I’m going to guess the number isn’t one you’re happy about.

It goes without saying that you can’t find a girlfriend if you don’t date.

That’s why we teach men how to tap their social channels to find dates. But it’s not like we want you to date one or two ladies than throw a ring on her finger. We want you to date dozens of women.

Chances are you won’t fall in love with the first or second woman you date. We teach students how to date various women at once so as to quickly find their ideal partner. Dating one time for every Terrapin NCAA bid isn’t enough. It leads to oneitis (falling for the first woman that makes eyes your way).

We want you to try all the flavors of the rainbow before choosing which woman you want to call your own.

But hey, this sounds nice and all, but how do you do it?

The Well Of Singles

There is a well of singles so deep that it will never run dry. Whenever you want to score a date you simply go to the well. The thing is, not everyone has access to it.

The well that I’m referring to is online dating.

More than 40% of new relationships start online and more than 30% of adults have used dating apps at one point in time.

All the women you can ever hope to meet are online.

Even though American women don’t love dating apps, the majority of single women still use them. That makes apps like Hinge, Bumble, and Tinder the single best place to meet single women. Apps are like virtual speed dating events that never end and have limitless attendees.

While this means the well is bottomless, the ubiquity of dating apps poses another problem — competition.

Apps like Tinder have a male-to-female user ratio of 9 to 1 (Bumble is more like 7 to 3).

To have any chance of getting looks from the thousands of single women in Columbia, you’ll have to create a competitive profile.

At emlovz we understand the value of meeting women online. That’s why we dedicate a large chunk of our online curriculum (in our coaching program) to optimizing your dating profile. We help you snap photos, figure out what to wear, how to pose, how to choose the right photos, how to write a compelling bio, respond to prompts, etc.

We also have as many profile reviews as you like. How you present online is your key to gaining access to the well. We also have Mia, our social media specialist to help optimize your social media accounts like Instagram. It may seem odd to chat up women via IG but nowadays it’s commonplace.

But profile creation is just one aspect of meeting women online.

MegaMessaging

It shouldn’t surprise you to learn that most women have inboxes that look like this…

A litany of messages that either say hey, or some weak variation.

While online dating is competitive, it’s less so when you invest a little bit into not only creating your profile, but sending thoughtful messages to the lovely ladies of Tinder.

Sending hello, as an opening message will almost never lead to a response, not even if you’re Zac Efron.

What if you could shoot opening messages that were nearly guaranteed responses? Or at least give them a much, much better shot of a response.

In our coaching program, we’ll teach you how to use the little information offered by dating profiles to create a compelling opening message. After that we’ll teach you how to quickly get to know her via text and steer the conversation toward asking her out with a TDL.

TDL stands for time, date, and location. 

When asking her out you need to be specific. You have to supply her with concrete information. Doing so makes the date request real. Too often guys ask out women by saying, wanna go out sometime?

Even if she says yes, you still don’t have a date lined up. 

Using a TDL and asking her on a compelling date increases the odds she’ll say yes.

When asking her on a first date keep the following in mind:

• Should take place during the day
• Midweek
• Less than $20
• Under an hour
• Do something she loves
• Close to her work or home

Brief, cheap, and fun dates are the way to go. They not only ensure she’ll agree to the date but also mean you’re not spending all your time and money on a single person. Remember you’re MegaDating, you’re seeing various women at the same time. You don’t have the time or money to splash hundreds of dollars on strangers every week.

The First Four Dates

The women of Columbia have full social calendars. They’re busy with work, have friends, hobbies, and lives of their own.

If your dates aren’t providing her with the enjoyment she’s looking for she’s not going to waste any more of her precious time with you.

It’s harsh, but true.

As the best dating coach in Columbia (not a humble brag) emlovz will teach you how to have amazing first, second, and third dates. 

As this relationship is still young these three dates are the most vital. One wrong move could get you ghosted.

Avoid this by planning awesome initial dates.

When planning these dates keep the following in mind:

First Dates – $20 and under an hour

Second Dates – Free and active

Third Dates – An unforgettable night out on the town

But having great dates is more than just about planning.

It’s about knowing how to converse with her, communicating in between dates, touch her to increase sexual tension, and quickly build attraction.

In our program, Dating Decoded we’ll show you how to do it all. What’s more we not only show you via our online curriculum and weekly live coaching sessions but we give you an opportunity to practice what you’ve learned.

Mock Dates

Audrey, Brooke, and Cat are our three mock-date specialists.

Whether in person or online you’ll have a chance to practice what you’ve learned with these women.

After the date you’ll receive detailed feedback of what went right and what areas are in need of improvement.

Don’t you wish you could go on a date and receive honest feedback from the woman you just went out with.

Here’s your chance.

Teaching you dating skills without practicing them IRL prior to a date is like practicing to play the piano by watching videos but never sitting down and playing a real-life piano.

Best Columbia First Date Ideas

After teaming up with emlovz you’ll start scoring dates in no time.

The question for you is what date should you bring her on?

That all depends on what you and her are both into. Ideally, you two find a common interest and go on a date where you two can enjoy that shared interest.

But sometimes you can’t easily form a date around a shared hobby or interest. When in doubt check out one of these first-date ideas for Columbia, Maryland.

Kayak Lake Kittamaqundi

If you have a kayak or canoe, hit the local lake with your new flame. If you don’t have a kayak why not suggest bringing your dogs to the lake for a walk and a swim? Be sure to pack a couple of craft beers in your bag so you can sip on something tasty and cool during your walk.

Hit A Brewery

Between Black Flag, Sapwood Cellars, Frisco, and Pub Dog, you have quite a few breweries to choose from.

Breweries are cheap, easy, great for an after-work date and more often than not have activities like lawn games and trivia. If you two are trivia nerds I recommend teaming up!

Monster Mini Golf

It’s quirky, fun, and at $13 per person, it’s just cheap enough for a first date.

And when you two are done with golfing around monsters hit up the arcade for a beer and a Tetris tournament.

Time to get your putt on as you look to score a hole-in-one on your first date… unless she’s more into pickleball.

Start Dating with emlovz

Book a 1-on-1 Zoom call to transform your romantic life.

If you want to know what your life could look like, just check out how our students’ lives have changed as a result of enrolling in our program, Dating Decoded.