The Best Colorado Springs Dating Coach for Men

Colorado Springs is well known as a jumping-off point for those in search of some of the best mountains in the country.

It’s the towering mountains that overshadow literally and figuratively everything else that Colorado Springs has to offer.

For one, Colorado Springs is a great place to be single according to WalletHub. Every year WalletHub publishes its list of the best singles cities in the US. Recently, Colorado Springs topped the list of the best singles cities in Colorado outperforming even Boulder and Denver.

So what makes Colorado Springs so great you ask?

Well, it’s home to nearly 500,000 residents giving you a sizeable dating pool to swim in. It has a lower cost of living yet high salaries making it a very liveable city. It’s also a dynamic city with a mix of outdoor and city-living activities for you and your new flame to enjoy. It also has nearly a 50-50 gender ratio.

But just because it’s affordable and has some of the best skiing and hiking in the country doesn’t necessarily mean it’s easy to find a lovely single lady to date.

To help you find love in the wild wild west you may want to team up with the best Colorado Springs dating coach.

Your New Colorado Springs Dating Coach

Colorado is a chilly place to live — so let’s heat things up.

emlovz has helped thousands of men find their forever partners.

I’d like to say that finding the one isn’t science, but in our case it is. It’s a science and a strategy that’s been refined over and over through the years.

At emlovz, our goal is to find you a highly compatible lifetime partner. To be clear, we don’t just want to help you find any old human we want you to find a woman that you’re super into and that is perfect for you.

To do so, we’ve created MegaDating.

MegaDating

Why settle when you can have the very best?

We ask this question to our students.

There are dozens of women out there that would be perfectly happy to shack up with you, but would you be happy to call them your girlfriend? To be as happy in your relationship as possible, we help you find a woman you’re super compatible with.

We do this with MegaDating.

MegaDating is simply dating, but in a prolific way.

In practice, it looks like dating at least one new woman every week. It’s like a more in-depth version of speed dating (except you actually get to pick who you’re dating in this scenario).

The idea behind MegaDating is that the more women you date the better idea you have of who you want to call your forever partner. You get a better sense of who is out there, you can refine what you’re looking for, refrain from settling, and ultimately find your ideal partner.

Dating 5-10 women every month sounds like heaven. But if you haven’t been going on dates recently you’re probably wondering how that’s even possible.

That brings us to the next pillar of Dating Decoded.

The Perfect Dating Profile

Online dating might not be the best way to meet women, but it is by far the most popular way.

Dating apps are like 24/7 singles bars that you can access without even leaving your couch.

They’re full of a seemingly infinite supply of women who are all on the same for the same reason (to find a partner).

It’s for this reason that dating apps are now the most common way to find your new partner.

But it’s their popularity that works for and against men.

Men outnumber women by 9 to 1 on Tinder and 7 to 3 on Bumble.

Virtually every dating app you use will be used by more men than women. It’s, for this reason, you’ll have to invest in creating a high-quality dating profile.

That means no more selfies, empty bios, or photo rosters full of half-naked selfies and grainy photos.

When you’re up against such stiff competition you’ll have to create a solid dating app profile.

So what does that look like?

First and foremost It means posting high-quality photos that show beyond a doubt what you look like. If she can’t figure out what you look like she won’t swipe right. Secondly, you’ll have to show her who you are. That means posting photos of your hobbies, writing a complete bio, and answering prompts.

There’s so much that goes into creating your romantic CV. If you can’t attract her at a glance you can’t move on to the next stage of courtship.

MegaMessaging + TDL

Let’s say you’ve taken our advice.

You’ve learned how to create the best possible online dating profile by consuming our online curriculum, attending our weekly strategy sessions, and heeding the advice from our profile reviews.

Now you’re starting to stack matches.

That’s great and all, but the women of Colorado Springs want to be courted, not collected.

As your Colorado Springs dating coach, it’s our job to help you progress the relationship. That means teaching you the ins and out of online communication.

It can be a bit tricky starting a relationship from nothing online. That’s why so many men end up sending messages that look something like this:

Men shower the inboxes of women with low-value messages.

They’ll write, hey, hi cutie, how’s it going beautiful?

These messages are cliche and put the onus on her to start any meaningful interaction.

Just because you live in the mountains doesn’t mean you need to converse like a barbarian.

She’s being bombarded with dozens of messages every day. She doesn’t have the time or desire to respond to every single message. Being that only the best of the best can receive responses you’ll have to send a pretty special message in order to receive a response.

In our program, we’ll not only teach you how to send an amazing opening message but also how to quickly build attraction and steer the conversation toward asking her out.

The key is simple really. Here are a few things to keep in mind for your next convo:

Use her profile to inform your messages
When you do message, ask her questions
Find similarities and revolve the conversation around them
Keep it short
Use a TDL

TDL stands for time, date, location. It’s the only way you should ever ask a woman out.

If you’re asking out a real woman, she’ll want details about the date before she can say yes. She’ll want to weigh it out to see if it’s worth her time.

Put some thought into the date and package it neatly and with a bow on top.

That may look something like this…

Hey Becca, what say you to a couple rounds of bowling this Thursday at 8 at AMF?

This is an example of a concrete TDL that she can envision and either reject, accept, or amend. Once she’s agreed it’s time to move on to the next stage.

Three-Date Blueprint

The first three dates are everything to your new relationship.

This is your make-or-break period.

Being that this period is so precarious, it’s vital that you take the utmost care in nurturing this new relationship.

To help do that we’ve created rules for the first three dates of your relationship.

First Date – 1-hour time limit and $20 spending limit

Second Date – Active and 100% free

Third Date – Time and financial restrictions are lifted – make it a night she’ll never forget!

Adhere to these dating rules during the early stages of your relationship.

These rules were made with MegaDating in mind. You may think it strange to go on a one-hour first date, but consider the wider context. You’re dating various women at the same time. You don’t want to spend the time or money on a stranger that you may never see again.

How You’ll Learn

At emlovz we teach students what they need to know to find a partner via four learning pathways.

Online Curriculum – In-depth online self-paced program that covers every dating topic under the sun
Weekly Strategy Sessions – Twice a week we’ll dive into the finer points of dating, feel free to also ask questions
Online Community – Dating can be lonely, in our community of male students and coaches we support one another, strategize, and hold each other accountable
Mock Dates – Put what you’ve learned to the test during a mock date where you’ll receive feedback at the end of the date

We also recently launched the Man Cave. This is a bimonthly event where students come together to talk about whatever is on their minds. In a supportive and judgement-free zone our male students can feel free to express themselves and get things off their chest.