If you joined Hinge it’s pretty clear you’re looking for a romantic partner.

But what kind of partner are you looking for?

Do you want a 30-something-year-old redhead who loves Wednesday trivia and surfing?

Or what about a woman who loves opera and Lebanese food?

Hinge has millions of users, in fact it’s one of the biggest virtual oceans to cast your line in, in the hopes of finding a match.

But with so many users, you want to be precise about what bait you use.

You only want to attract women you think you’re compatible with. To do so you’ll want to respond to the I’m looking for Hinge prompt in a way that attracts just that woman.

It’s tempting to bypass Hinge prompts. We all know photos are the most important aspect of a Hinge user’s profile. But Hinge users — more so than Tinder or Bumble users — are looking for long-term partners. That means the ladies of Hinge want to date a compatible guy with a great personality — rather than just someone with a symmetrical face.

Showcase your personality and speak to like-minded women by creating a bomb I’m looking for Hinge response.

The Best I’m Looking For Hinge Responses for Men

To help you create a quality Hinge prompt response, we’ve created a few responses to help you out.

But remember, that your response should be tailored to what you’re looking for. When crafting this message, try to have it say more about you than have it be a litany of character traits. Sure you may want to attract a beautiful, intelligent woman, but by listing those traits you’re not standing out.

Give her a meaty response that humanizes you and shows that you’re more than the average Hinge user.

Here are a few examples of what I mean.

1) Your Love Story

To really appreciate this response you need to be aware of the Taylor Swift world tour ticket fiasco where many users waited dozens of hours if not days in virtual lines as they attempted (many without success) to buy T-Swift tickets.

In other words to write this as a prompt response is to say you want a woman who is willing to make sacrifices and suffer for you. Not to mention that you also want your lovely lady to be a massive T-Swift fan. Chances are if she’s into Swift she’ll like and comment on this I’m looking for Hinge response.

2) A Dance Partner In Crime

Show her what you’re all about.

If you’re a dancer that dislikes social media but loves learning TikTok dances let her know about it. To be honest this is information a lot of women won’t care to learn about you. But you don’t care about them. You only want to attract like-minded women. When writing a prompt response, feel free to get as granular and weird as possible. Doing so casts a smaller net but a more particular one that only attracts compatible women.

Ultimately this is a good thing – filtering away incompatible women while attracting ladies you’re more likely to connect and be happy with.

3) Tell Her What You Really Want

This kind of response will attract a very specific type of woman.

The type of woman will be secure in herself, have a secure attachment style, be ambitious, independent, and not willing to settle for anything less.

You might be thinking, why not just write I’m looking for an ambitious, independent woman.

Honestly, that response is lame.

It doesn’t poke at her imagination, is not stimulating, and is kinda grey. No one wants to read a list of attributes that every man wants in a woman.

They want to be able to easily imagine what you’re looking for. Ditch the lists and instead give her an image.

4) Make It Spicy

Dating apps shouldn’t be used to merely boost confidence.

Sure it feels good to score a match and chat with a woman online, but ultimately you want something more substantial. A prompt response like this works towards taking your new connection offline and into the real world.

Should she like this prompt you two can chat for 10 messages or so before asking her to grab food at this amazing Indian restaurant you know.

You could even get more specific in your prompt response to show her you already know the best Indian restaurant in town.

When asking her out be sure to use a TDL.

5) Invite Her Into The Conversation

Make it easy for her to respond to your prompt.

The average woman spends around 4 seconds looking at a profile before deciding in which direction to swipe. She’s not going to waste more than 30 seconds wondering if she should like your profile or send you a message.

Make things easy for her by asking her a question that she can’t possibl enot answer.

Who doesn’t want to hear a Dad joke even if that’s not their thing?

6) Show Her What Life With You Will Look Like

She wants to date a man that loves going out and dirtying his hands. She wants a guy that is out and about, has hobbies, friends, and sucks out the marrow of life.

That’s who everyone wants to be with.

Sure you two will often binge Netflix, but for the moment, paint a picture of excitement. Show her that you’re a man that’s always up for doing something, anything, rather than staying home and watching TV.

7) Get Your Travel On

Everyone wants to be a world explorer nowadays. We’re all about getting out of the city for the weekend, picking a direction, and just driving.

Sell her on this vision of yours. Tell her about where you want to vacation to, the food you want to try, and the adventures you want to have.

To make your travel-related Hinge response a bit more interactive, ask her where she thinks you two go next.

Also ask her about her craziest travel story (just be sure to share yours first in the prompt).

Talking about traveling presents you as an adventurous and bold man of culture. Women tend to like that.

Be sure to post a couple photos of you on your travels.

8) Find Someone That Rocks -Not Steals- Your Socks

Ideally, this prompt response is right below a photo of you showing off your sock game.

What’s cool about Hinge though is that you can write captions for all your photos. This gives you even more digital real estate to show off your personality. I say if you have an opportunity to show her who you are, show yourself off.

9) The Classic Triple Threat

Lists aren’t amazing, but they’re permissible so long as you add a bit to the end. Use an extra line of two and really let your personality OR specific interests shine.

It’s okay if your personality doesn’t shine through on every prompt response. What IS important is that you provide her with granular details she can use to imagine who you are and what you’re about.

And lists aren’t wholly bad either so long as they’re not lists of generic character traits that you’re looking for.

In reality, this prompt isn’t about her as much as it’s about you.

10) Now That’s Unflappable

Paint her a picture and show her what life will you will look like.

Hopefully, there won’t be zombies running around, but should she team up with you, you two will travel and see the world. This prompt response also suggests that you two are calm and collected.

Women love a man who is unnerved even in the craziest of situations.

She loves a man who is suave, can talk about anything, and has a great sense of humor. 

But it’s super difficult conveying your best traits via the I’m looking for Hinge prompt.

That’s why you may want a bit of help.

Dating Decoded

We teach our students how to create profiles that perform in the top 10%.

After revamping their profiles our students see increased matches and more dates, ultimately culminating in a long-term partner.

In our Dating Decoded coaching program, we have two of the four pillars of our program dedicated soley to online dating.

Solely dedicated to helping men create quality profiles and teaching them how to quickly build attraction online and ask a woman out on a date in the real world.

Once this happens we’ll teach you how to design and have amazing dates. But we don’t just teach you these skills and leave you to apply them in the real world. Before you go out with your dream girl you want to practice first right?

This is why we offer mock dates where students can go on practice dates either online or in person with our mock date coaches. 

Look, online dating can be rough.

Our students tell us all the time how before enrolling in Dating Decoded they would struggle to get a single match in an entire month.

After enrolling and applying our techniques we have men that go on countless dates. Naeem for example goes on about 10 dates a month.

To learn how to create the best Hinge profile possible and leverage online dating to meet women, let’s chat. 

We’ll talk about your dating goals and figure out how emlovz can help you achieve them.