Washington DC is a single man’s paradise.

Well, it is if you’re progressive and college educated.

That’s because along with being a true blue region where 92% of voters opted for Biden in 2020 college-educated women outnumber college-educated men 53-47.

So, great if you’re a Democrat & college-educated man — but bad if you’re anything else.

That’s DC for you.

But you know what.

Even though you have a lopsided dating advantage, finding a date can feel more difficult than passing common sense gun control.

That’s where lobbyists come into play — I mean dating coaches.

A dating coach is like your own personal lobbyist, campaign manager, and shoulder to cry on.

The right dating coach can give you the skills and know-how you need to even cross the aisle and get your flirt on with someone with the opposite political affiliation.

But before we learn about the best Washington DC dating coach let’s have a closer look at the DC dating scene.

Dating In Washington DC

According to Bumble/Apartment List Washington DC is the best city for singles… seriously.

A couple of cities on the list may raise eyebrows including Richmond, Minneapolis, and Pittsburgh so I’m going to have to elaborate on how DC topped this motley list.

DC ranked first on the list thanks to its:

• Many attractions and quality date spots
• Self-reported dating satisfaction scores
• Affordability
• Social satisfaction

The affordability point may confuse some people, but according to the study, the median salary is $80k. With dinner and a movie costing around $105, the study says that’s much more affordable than other cities surveyed.

This may be a surprise to DC residents.

The nation’s capital is known for being super busy, pretentious, self-righteous, plastic, and always on the verge of burning to the ground 1814 style.

Ghosting is rampant, there are so many bread-crumbs, the capital is teeming with rodents, and finding a serious long-term relationship feels as hopeless as getting a democratic elected in Mississippi.

Finding a partner feels like a problem even Hamilton can’t solve.

Yeah, he can’t, but emlovz can.

The Best Washington DC Dating Coach

Fact: emlovz is the best dating coach in Washington DC.

emlovz (i.e. us) has a modern take on modern dating.

Instead of waiting for a lady to magically fall into your lap, we’re proponents of an extremely proactive dating approach, one designed to attract a long-term partner even in the fickle city of DC.

It’s called MegaDating.

MegaDating

MegaDating is what you do when you’re fed up with everyone around you finding partners except you.

It’s our dating philosophy and it shapes everything we do and preach here at emlovz.

So what is it?

MegaDating is the practice of dating multiple women simultaneously.

This means dating at least one woman a week, sometimes dating two women on the same day, and never settling.

We advocate for MegaDating because we know it’s the quickest way to find that special someone.

It’s basically a slower version of speed dating that allows you to vet women before deciding to date them.

There are plenty of advantages to MegaDating including:

• Confidence building
• Helps you avoid settling
• Helps expedite the search process for a new partner
• Diffuses energy
• Refines social and dating skills
• Helps you understand who your ideal partner is

DC isn’t built for slow dating.

It’s a go-go kind of town that requires men to be on their toes.

Find her as quickly as possible with MegaDating.

But dating around sounds great and all, but how are you supposed to find all these women?

In our full service coaching program, Dating Decoded we’ll show you how to meet women both in person and online.

In our program we really dive into what it takes to meet women online.

Here’s a taste of what you’ll learn.

Profile Creation

Being a hot commodity online all starts with your profile.

If you don’t have a quality roster of photos that showcase both who you are and what you look like you won’t be scoring any matches anytime soon.

We teach men how to take photos, which photos are best, and how to write a compelling bio.

The second step we’ll take is to craft a competitive profile that’s performing in the top 10% of all single men of your age.

We both know you have amazing qualities, you just need a little help highlighting them.

Our online curriculum is full of transformational content showing you how to get the most from your profile.

We’ve helped hundreds (maybe thousands by the time you’re reading this) of men revamp their profiles so that they’re now performing in the top 10 percentile.

If you’re not in the top 10% you might as well not even exist.

That’s because online dating is super competitive even in a gender-lopsided city like DC.

Tinder has a gender ratio of 9 men to every 1 woman with Bumble being 7 to 3. These odds aren’t the best, but we’ll show you how to overcome them.

If you can’t wait to join our program and want to make some changes right now, heed these tips:

• Write something, anything on your profile
• The first photo must be a headshot
• No group shots till the third photo
• Keep that shirt on
• No SELFIES!
• Show off your pup
• If you play sports, post a sporty pic or two
• Include at least one hobby shot

MegaMessaging

So you scored a match or two.

Awesome.

But the point of online dating isn’t to stack matches on your Tinder or Bumble.

The purpose is to, well, date.

The only way you’ll be able to do this is by strategically chatting her up online.

Just because she matched with you doesn’t mean she wants to go out with you.

Rather, it means she’s receptive to going out with you, but still needs persuasion.

The convincing takes place over chat.

And this conversation all starts with the opening message.

When sending an opening message keep these tips in mind:

• Respond to something she wrote on her profile
• Never just say “hey” or a hey variation
• Text her as soon as she matches with you (ideally you catch her when she’s still online)
• Don’t comment on her appearance
• Ask her a question

What’s most important is that you receive a response. If she can’t be bothered to shoot you a response you don’t have a chance in hell at going out with her.

After you’ve scored a response, revolve the conversation around what she’s into.

Study her profile to find a commonality or at least something she’s interested in.

Ask her questions, crack a couple jokes, and gently move the conversation so that you’re getting closer and closer to asking her out.

If I’m making this sound overly simple it’s because I am. Convincing a stranger to spend her Friday night with you is a tough sell. We go into much greater detail in our program, Dating Decoded.

Dating Blueprint

The next portion of our program covers our date blueprints.

Nascent relationships are inherently shaky. One wrong move, one poor joke, misplaced hand, or pet peeve could mean the end of your relationship.

We teach men how to go on amazing first, second, and third dates.

We’ll show you what type of dates are best for each occasion, how to act, how to build sexual attraction, and how to get her to say yes to all your date requests.

Spoiler: It’s all about the TDL.

TDL stands for time, date, location.

It’s the only way a woman wants to be asked out.

That’s because it’s a concrete date request. It spells out when, where, and the type of date you two will go on.

Too many men will simply say, hey want to go out sometime?

This isn’t a serious offer to date.

A TDL on the other hand looks something like this:

Jen! Let’s go out this Thursday night at Bart’s to bowl and play arcade games. 8pm sound good to you?

Time: 8 pm

Date: Thursday

Location/Activity: Bart’s, bowling/arcade games

Just be sure to ask her out on a date she’s really jazzed about.

The lamer the date idea the less likely she is to agree. If you ask her to coffee at Starbucks she’s likely to reject you. Also, try to make the date as close to her work or home as possible. The further away the less likely she is to agree.

Also keep in mind that first dates should be under $20 and be no longer than an hour. That’s because if you’re MegaDating it means you’re going out with a ton of women. You don’t want to spend all your time dating and spending lots of cash on women you may never date again do you?

While this is the case for first dates it changes a bit when it comes to second and third dates.

Second dates should be 100% free and active.

If she’s lucky enough to make it to a third date all time and financial restrictions are lifted.

Time For A First Date

So what does the best Washington DC dating coach recommend for a first date.

Here are some awesome first date ideas. However, remember to choose one your date would be jazzed about.

Hit A Museum

DC has some of the best museums in the country. Just pick one and get lost. I personally recommend the National Museum of African American History and Culture as it’s new and most people still haven’t visited. Another choice is the National Museum of Asian Art.

Sample Patriotic Brews

Who doesn’t love a quality brew? Sample DC’s finest when you two hit one of the city’s many breweries. Sure the idea is a little basic, but how doesn’t love sampling a flight while playing corn hole?

Alexandria

Alexandria is super underrated. It’s old-timey, gorgeous, and isn’t nearly as fast-paced as DC. If you already know your date and don’t mind spending some time in a car with her, make the 30-minute trip to Alexandria. Finish the date by hitting up the ferris wheel overlooking the Potomac River.

Dating Decoded

You know who the best Washington DC dating coach is.

Now it’s time to get serious about your dating prospects, book an intro call with us to learn how we can help you find your dream long term relationship.

Let’s have a 1-on-1 chat via Zoom about your dating goals and we’ll let you know how Dating Decoded can help you achieve them.