Every year various publications create their list of the best singles cities in the US.

WalletHub might just be the most popular of those publications.

It ranks the top 182 cities from best to worst by adding up each city’s dating opportunity, economic, and fun and recreation scores.

Springfield didn’t even make the list. 

Maybe because WalletHub thought it too unimportant or maybe because it believes it has no dating scene to speak of.

Either way they’re wrong.

But it does send a message.

Springfield isn’t the easiest city to date in. It can kind of feel like everyone is a college student or attempting to hightail it to Boston. This doesn’t make dating in Springfield easy, but we know one way to make it just a smidge easier.

Springfield Dating Coach

Springfield has many of the ingredients necessary to have a thriving dating life.

52% of the population is single, more than half of those 18 and older have never married, and it has a ton of entertainment options between museums like the Naismith Hall of Fame and the MGM. And hey, if you’ve exhausted the entire Springfield dating pool you can always zip down to Hartford.

Springfield has the raw material, you just need a little help building something beautiful.

That’s where emlovz swoops in to save the day.

emlovz

For over a decade we at emlovz have been helping men like you find the woman they’ve been fantasizing about for far too long.

We help men by teaching them how to be proactive daters. Along with dating prolifically, our students learn the ins and outs of modern courtship.

Our program is broken into four pillars, and it all starts with MegaDating.

MegaDating

Right now you’re probably used to kicking back and letting things flow.

If a woman comes along who tickles your fancy, you may pursue, but you rarely take risks and put yourself out there.

That’s about to change.

We’re all about finding you not just any girlfriend but your best possible match. To find this super-compatible woman you’ll need to tap into your social channels and be proactive. No one waiting for destiny to do its thing, you my friend are destiny.

Sure it may sound cheesy, but we teach men to make their own luck. Too many guys wait for things to happen organically. By this they mean magically bumping into a woman who happens to be reading the same book they are at a bookshop and BAM, instant connection.

This isn’t Hollywood, it’s Springfield.

MegaDating will teach you how to meet a woman, first, second, and third date dynamics, how to avoid settling, will help refine what you’re looking for and about a dozen other things.

Most importantly, it works as a shortcut to finding your ideal partner. 

Dating prolifically isn’t sleazy; it’s efficient.

It’s what men do when they’re tired of waiting on the sidelines.

When we show you how to MegaDate, you’ll go on 20 dates in three months. Let us show you how.

The Perfect Online Profile

Dating apps are the best way to meet women nowadays.

Apps are easy, simple to use, convenient, and have millions of single women on them at all times.

It’s for these reasons meeting a woman online is the most popular way to start a relationship.

We help men create profiles that outperform 80-90% of other users. Outperforming the masses is a must if you want to meet women via apps like Tinder and Bumble where men outnumber women 9 to 1 and 7 to 3.

Only the top-performing men match with high-quality women.

Our program, Dating Decoded will help you create a roster of photos that clearly show what you look like and who you are. 

The average female user spends just 3 seconds looking at a profile before deciding which way she’ll swipe. If your photos aren’t top-notch, she won’t waste another second trying to decide if you’re the right man to take her out to 350 Grill this Friday.

That’s great and all if your photos are GQ-worthy, but a woman still won’t match with you if your written bio is empty. It’s true that dating apps are superficial, but women (much more so than men) still want to know who you are before matching.

Put your personality on full display by filling in your bios, responding to dating prompts, and linking SM apps when possible. Every dating app out there gives users a chance to showcase who they are. Use each app’s unique features and allow your personality to flourish.

At emlovz we’ll walk you through each aspect of profile creation to ensure you’re creating a killer profile. Via our self-paced curriculum, community where you can receive on-demand support, weekly coaching sessions, and profile reviews, we’ll help you create the ideal dating profile.

MegaMessaging + TDL

Let’s say this mystery Hinge woman has taken a liking to you.

You two have matched and now she’s waiting for you to make the first move.

What do you say?

If you’re like most men, you’ll message something basic like, hey, or hey beautiful, or if you’re feeling compassionate, hey how was your day?

Thank god you’re not like most men – or at least you won’t be.

These messages rarely work. Unless you have an amazing profile, she won’t respond.

She won’t waste time getting to know someone who invests so little in getting to know her AND whose messages indicate he’s a low-value man.

She receives dozens of these messages every day. To stand out, message her something different.

In our program, we teach the step-by-step method that never fails to elicit a response. 

In truth, the method is straightforward, but so few men decide to use it. 

After you two have been chatting and have built up a rapport, it’s time to ask her out with a TDL. TDL stands for time, date, and location. It’s these three pieces of information you’ll have to include when asking her out.

Three-Date Blueprint

The first three dates of your new relationship are the most important.

It’s here where you two will get to know each other and determine if you want to invest in the other.

To make these dates as smooth as possible, you’ll want to create the perfect environment for forming a bond.

That means going on dates that adhere to the MegaDating blueprint.

The dates should be as follows:

First Date – Under an hour, $20 or less. Spending big attracts gold diggers and makes you appear desperate.

Second Date – Active and free

Third Date – Make it a night to remember. Splash the cash, take her somewhere special, and give her a smooch.

Work With Your New Springfield Dating Coach

Interested in learning how we here at emlovz can help you?

We teach our students the shortcut to finding their ideal match by MegaDating. MegaDating is our dating philosophy and it shapes everything we teach here at emlovz. Simply put MegaDating is dating prolifically with the specific goal of going on 20 dates in 90 days. This will give you ample women to compare and contrast so you can refine your not only your dating skills but who your ideal partner is.

To teach you how to quickly find highly compatible women in just weeks and become the most eligible bachelor in town you’ll have a team of romantic experts, each skilled in their own unique area to support you.

• Emyli (me), co-founder, curriculum developer, head coach, and I host two coaching sessions every week
• Thomas, co-founder, and coach. He’ll lead the biweekly Man Cave event where men come together to talk dating, bond with one another, and support other single men
• Cat, Brooke, and Audrey are mock date specialists. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
• Hailey is your new stylist. She’s worked with celebs from every industry and is now about to raid your closet
• Tilly is our holistic sex & intimacy coach. She’ll help you get the most out of your sex life so you and your partner are happier between the sheets
• Aundrea is an award-winning fitness coach. Are you ready to eat right and build muscle?
• Mia is our SM specialist. Revamp your SM profiles with her help and start meeting women online

And look, we realize that the single life can be difficult. If accepted into our coaching program, Dating Decoded, you’d be joining a community of supportive men and coaches who are there to listen, support, and encourage you as you navigate the single life.

Our program offers every student a lifetime membership (as if you’ll need it) so the support won’t stop until you’ve found your ideal partner.

If you’re ready to find your forever partner, book a Zoom session with our team today. Together we’ll talk about your dating history, your goals and show you how our program, Dating Decoded, can help you find your ideal partner.

Learn how our students have already improved their dating lives.