The Best Memphis Dating Coach To Help Score A Date This Friday

Memphis has more quality date spots than it has freelance musicians, which is to say, a lot.

Railgarten, Loflin Yard, and B.B. King’s are just a few of the spots Memphis has to offer for a first date.

There’s just one thing.

A date requires that two people participate (or an AI-like person if that’s your thing).

That’s where too many single Memphis men run into a brick wall.

Even though Memphis has some of the best gender ratios in the US (from a male’s perspective) it can still be a struggle and a half to find a date.

Despite being vastly outnumbered by women, Memphis isn’t actually known as a singles mecca.

Things like crime, high unemployment, and a general meh feeling about the dating pool have made many residents doubtful about their odds of finding love.

These meh feelings have led you to us.

emlovz is the Memphis dating coach (well, worldwide really) that’s going to accelerate your dating skills, make you the talk of the town, but most importantly help you find a long-term partner to accompany you to all those killer Memphis shows.

Memphis Dating Coach

It’s Friday night, Beale Street is popping and there you are, soaking up the environment, jostling for position at the bar with drunk tourists, and by your side the entire night is your new girl.

This is the life you want to live (sans bumping up against drunk strangers).

It’s more than attainable, you just need a plan of action.

That’s what emlovz offers its students.

We take a systematic approach to help students go from zero dates to taking over Beale with a new lady every week.

And it all starts with MegaDating.

MegaDating

How do you know who you should bend the knee to?

Perhaps you’ve already bent the knee only to regret it months or years later.

A wise economist once found determined that the best way to find a partner is to apply the Optimal Stopping Theory to your dating life.

The theory advises rejecting the first 37% of all the people you would date during your dating time. Then choose to marry the next person that is better than all previous suitors.

However, this theory only really works if you date a large volume of women. The idea is to gather a large sample size to increase the likelihood of finding a hyper-compatible partner.

However, the only way to optimize this theory and find this scientifically probable partner is to MegaDate.

MegaDating is simply dating, but in a prolific fashion.

It means dating a new woman every week until you meet your ideal partner.

Dating various women at once may sound like a pipe dream, but if students like Naeem can date 10 women a month, why can’t you?

To find all these women we show men how to mine both IRL and online dating circles. That means learning how to meet women in person, through friends, at parties, at the gym, and yes online.

With 40% of all new relationships starting online, we dive deep into showing men how to court women online.

The Perfect Online You

Surely you’ve seen this chart before.

As you can see, it shows the most common ways couples meet nowadays.

More often than not they meet online.

But just because it’s the most happening way to meet doesn’t mean it’s easy.

Apps like Tinder have a gender ratio of 9 to 1.

Even in a city like Memphis, Tinder is a super competitive place… for men at least. This ratio extends to most dating apps and means that women can be rather picky with who they decide to swipe right on and date.

This means you’ll have to create a dating profile that catches her eye.

Via our online curriculum, profile reviews, and live weekly sessions, we’ll help you create a profile that outcompetes 90% of the men in your area.

We’ll help you snap photos, choose the best ones, and attract women online.

But having her swipe right isn’t even half the battle.

MegaMessaging + Date Pitch

Matching with a woman online is the equivalent of making eyes from across the room or having a friend whisper in your ear that a woman keeps looking at you.

In other words, it means very little.

Sure it’s a good sign, but it’s an indication of interest, nothing more.

To really connect you need to chat her up, and that often means not only sending the first message but steering the conversation.

Due to the inundation of messages she receives every day, it can be difficult to stand out and have your message responded to.

Below is an example of a woman’s Tinder inbox when she opens it in the morning.

While it’s clear women receive exponentially more matches and messages than men, there is a silver lining here.

The woman whose inbox this belongs to posted this picture on Reddit complaining that men are all boring and that they all send the same message.

More specifically she said, “Seriously, ask about a favorite candy or whatever, it’s not rocket science to not be boring!”

We at emlovz agree.

We have various modules that break down online dating conversations.

You’ll learn how to:

Send an opening message that receives a response
Quickly bond
Find similarities
Steer the conversation
Ask her out with a TDL

It’s this last one that shifts the relationship from one in the online world to one in the real world.

TDL stands for time, date, and location.

When asking her out on the app or once you have her phone number it’s vital that you ask her on a specific date in the near future that you know she’ll love.

Let’s say you two have been talking about your dogs.

If that’s the case ask her on a date to the dog park or for a hike with your pups.

That might look something like…

Hey Jen, let’s hit the dog park at 8 on Thursday. I’ll be sure to bring the dog park brews.

A TDL is a concrete date request that requires her to either accept or decline and it’s the only suitable way to ask a woman on a date.

Dating Blueprint

Let’s say you’ve followed our program down to the letter and have perfectly implemented our strategies.

If that’s the case at this point you will have a few dates lined up.

But where do you go from here?

How do you have the perfect first, second, and third date?

We’ve created a tried and true first three-date blueprint to help you MegaDate:

First Date – $20 limit and should last no longer than an hour. If you’re going on dates every week you don’t want to spend the time or money on a stranger. Get in, get out, and decide if there’s enough connection to warrant a second date

Second Date – Free and active. Free to ward off gold diggers and active to get the heart rate going, to show her you’re fun and original, and because active dates are sexy dates

Third Date – If she’s lucky enough to make it to a third date pull out all the stops. Take her to a Memphis show, eat fancy food, and make it a night to remember.

There’s a bit more to it than that – in fact a lot more – so if you want to learn more check out our Masterclass.

Dating Decoded & Dating Decoded VIP

As your new Memphis dating coach, we realize there is no one-size fits all approach to dating.

That’s why our program offers various ways for our students to learn including:

Online Curriculum – It’s here that the bulk of your learning will take place. We have dozens of modules covering every aspect of dating from how to effectively flirt online to how to touch a woman in person.

Weekly Coaching Sessions – Twice a week, co-founder Emyli leads students in live training sessions. It’s here you’ll be able to ask questions as we drill into the specifics of your dating life.

Mock Dates – Practice what you’ve learned when you go on a date with one of our mock date specialists. After the date, you’ll receive detailed feedback about what worked and what needs improvement.

Online Community – We realize dating can be lonely. That’s why we created a community where our all-male students can come together to strategize, bond, and support one another.

Man Cave – Twice a month our male students and co-founder Tom, come together to talk about the single dating life, support one another, and just talk about what it’s like dating nowadays in a supportive environment.

For students that want a bit more support, we offer Dating Decoded VIP.

Memphis is full of amazing women, but it’s tough out there. To go above and beyond we offer 50-minute sessions with our coaches. These sessions can be used in the following ways: