90% of Hinge users are between the ages of 23-36.

Which makes sense considering Hinge is the dating app designed to be deleted. 

Hinge isn’t some stigmatized hookup app college-aged students use for one-night stands.

Instead, it’s the app those students graduate to when they’re done with Tinder.

Perhaps the least superficial popular app on the market Hinge does a good job of humanizing users. More than just a bundle of pictures Hinge gives users a chance to showcase their personalities via their bio, audio message, and prompts.

There’s one prompt in particular that plays into this idea of an anti-superficial app designed to find its users a long-term relationship.

The I’ll fall for you if… prompt is a must-use for anyone looking for a serious partner.

To make inroads on an app such as Hinge you’ll have to create bomb prompt responses.

In this article we’ll zero in on this must-use prompt and show you how to write compelling responses.

I’ll Fall For You If Hinge Prompt

First, let’s talk about the importance of prompts.

Even though Hinge offers users the option of using three prompts most guys don’t use them or write half-assed responses.

This can only hurt you.

But why?

As of this moment you’re just another card in a seemingly endless deck.

That’s right, you’ve been reduced to a playing card, one of thousands.

You have to use every avenue to humanize yourself and stand out.

That’s where Hinge prompts come into play. They give you the perfect opportunity to let her know who you are. It’s a chance to show her your personality and that you’re not only worth a like — but are worth dating and then falling in love with.

That’s why prompts are so damn important.

How To Respond To A Hinge Prompt

We’ll supply you with a bunch of responses in a moment, but before that there are some things you should keep in mind and trends to be on the lookout when looking at our responses.

First of all, don’t feel the need to include every little detail about yourself in the prompt.

You have three prompts, plus a bio, plus space for an audio message, no need to word vomit in a word prompt. Hinge gives you ample chances to show who you are.

That being said a quality Hinge response should do at least one of the following:

• Make her laugh
• Give her pause
• Let her get to know you
• Make you stand out for being different

The idea here is to stand out in a good way.

If you can do that it doesn’t matter how you get it done as long as you do in fact do it.

To give you a better idea of what that looks like, check out a few of our responses.

These responses are 100% original so feel free to steal them or just get inspired. The more personalized your responses the better.

Best I’ll Fall For You If Hinge Responses

1) Cinefile Love

Show off your little quirks.

Refusing to see trailers before watching a movie is a little odd. Most people want to at least watch a bit of the trailer before signing up to watch a 2-hour movie.

But hey, you’re a little different and that’s awesome.

This is your chance to show her how unique you are. Highlight your idiosyncrasies to stand out.

You could also add the title of a movie that you really like — targeting an even more compatible woman.

2) Si Tu Peux Lire Ceci Je T’aime

You want these prompts to do two things for you.

You want them to show who you are while also showing what you’re looking for.

This prompt response is a smooth polyglot flex. In just a few words you show you’re a cultured, multi-lingual individual who is also looking for someone that can handle his multi-cultural spirit.

It doesn’t matter if most Americans only speak one language. This prompt response clearly isn’t targeting most Americans. Rather it zeroes in on only those that can speak more than one language.

Your job isn’t to cast a wide net. Instead of trying to appeal to the masses — appeal to only those you’re super compatible with. This is something I go into more detail in my dating coaching program for men.

3) Gooooaaaaallllll!!!

Again, it’s not about trying to appeal to the masses.

Saying you prefer soccer to football is a big deal. A lot of people will be turned off by this, but that’s okay.

You don’t need to attract someone with contrary interests.

Highlight what makes you stand out instead of trying to write just another cliche profile that appeals to everyone.

Finding someone that shares your obscure interests is worth taking your shirt off and screaming GOALLLLL about.

4) Keep The First Date In Mind

Remember that Hinge is a dating app, one that claims it’s designed to be deleted.

For that to happen you’re going to have to see this person in real life.

For that to happen you’ll have to go on a date with them.

That means asking them out on a real date. This is another topic I cover heavily in my coaching program.

What I love about this prompt is that it explicitly talks about a first date. It pitches a plan, makes the reader see and feel the first date, and positions the conversation to talk about the real possibility of meeting IRL.

From the jump you want the conversation to build towards asking her out on a first date.

Too many conversations fizzle out before you have the chance to ask her out.

I don’t want that to happen to you.

That’s why talking about a first date in the I’ll fall for you if prompt is such a great idea.

Not to mention she can like your prompt. If that happens you’re just a few messages away from a first date.

5) My Precious…

As if The Return of the King wasn’t long enough at 3 hours 3o minutes the extended edition is just short of 4 and a half hours. That means basically spending a quarter of your waking day watching LOTR.

But hey, some people dig it.

Not all, in fact very few, but that’s the point.

Not everyone is a fantasy fan and that’s okay. Attracting all non-fantasy fans would be awful. Imagine matching with every woman on Hinge. At first you’d love your newfound superpower but soon you’d realize it’s a curse to match with women 95% of whom are incompatible.

Talk about those odd hobbies and quirks and use your prompt response to repel incompatibles and appeal to like-minded women.

6) Polarize

Polarization works.

It works as a filter.

The quickest way to find singles with similar values is to get political. Talk abortion, gun rights, the environment, and the 2020 election. Talk about these things to quickly find singles with political beliefs that align with your own.

When it comes to politics both Democrats and Republicans have reported a strong desire to date someone on their side of the aisle.

Although Hinge allows you to your political leaning and make that info known, to really drive the point home you’ll want to reiterate your preference once again in a Hinge prompt or two.

7) Paint Her A Picture

You only have 200 characters or so, but with those characters bring her on a journey of sorts. Paint her a picture of what life with you will be like.

Clearly this prompt implies you’ll be traveling quite a bit. It also imagines a scenario in which you two have a string of bad events only for her (and presumably you) to be cool, calm, and collected in the face of misfortune.

8) Good Tunes Good Life

This is kind of a big deal.

Imagine beginning to really like someone only to get in their car for the first time for a road trip and all they want to listen to is Tiesto and Avicii. Meanwhile, you’re a folky kind of person that hates house music.

Sorry to say but it just won’t work out.

Make your musical preferences known. Unlike Bumble you aren’t able to connect your account to Spotify. With that said it’s vital to make your preferences known either in your bio or a prompt.

9) Give In To The Power Of The Pod

Chances are 80% of the ladies on Hinge won’t even know what Radiolab or Hidden Brain is.

Again, that’s fine, in fact it’s a good thing.

If you really want to attract women that listen to podcasts it doesn’t matter that you ostracize 80% of ladies from Hinge.

Again, you’re not here to fall in love with every woman from Hinge, but rather only those that you share commonalities with.

10) List Out Who You Are

Give her something to latch onto.

Don’t write lists for every prompt response, but it’s okay to list out who you are on one prompt.

The more you write the better your odds of making a connection.

Maybe she’s not a vegan but loves camping, maybe she’s not into camping but she loves Maine.

The more you write the more she gets to know about you.

What’s Next?

Ideally, she digs your prompt enough to like it and you two match.

If so, great, but it’s not like your interaction ends there, in fact, it’s just the beginning.

Now that you two have matched it’s time to get your chat on.

One wrong message could mean you’re ghosted or even reported.

My coaching program, Dating Decoded teaches men all the skills they need to succeed in modern dating. It covers everything from mastering dating apps, messaging, date pitching, how to increase sexual tension on and in between dates, how to wife her up, and much more.

If you’re interested in learning more about my coaching program, book a coaching program intro zoom call with me or one of my colleagues today.