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The Best Fort Wayne Indiana Dating Coach for Men

The Best Fort Wayne Indiana Dating Coach for Men

We both know why you’re here.

Dating in Fort Wayne, Indiana isn’t easy, in fact, it’s more difficult than making Bob Knight smile after a double-digit loss against Purdue.

But while Fort Wayne might not be the most romantic destination in the midwest it’s not the worst city to find love in either.



Sure it has a rising homeless population, horrible weather, and is honestly a little boring, but it’s got other things going for it as well.

For one it’s affordable, has a population of over 250,000 and most importantly has more single female than male residents.

Sure it doesn’t feel that way, but just have a look at the gender ratio.

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Your Fort Wayne Dating Coach

Whether you’re in your 20s or 40s, you’re outnumbered by women.

This makes finding a partner easier as you’re competing against fewer single men.

But just because the scales are tipping in your favor doesn’t mean dating in Fort Wayne is easy.

That’s why you’re calling in some backup.

Allow me to introduce you to your new Fort Wayne dating coach, emlovz.

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Let me take a guess… your biggest problem right now is meeting women.

Over the past few years you’ve only gone on a handful of dates with women you feel are less than compatible.



You may feel as though there’s no one in the entire city that you’re compatible with.

We’re here to show you that’s just not true. All you need is a strategy to help you meet more women.

That strategy is called MegaDating.

MegaDating

Too many men are going on too few dates.

The dearth of dates means that Americans are lonelier than ever.

A recent Washington Post study found that nearly 50% of Americans between the ages of 18-34 are single.

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The reason so many Americans are spending Friday nights alone is that they’re not going on enough dates.

MegaDating is here to change that for you.

When our students enroll in Dating Decoded we teach them how to date various women at the same time. We don’t encourage students to date one woman for x period of weeks or months before deciding if they want to make her their partner or not.

We believe the best way to meet a super compatible woman is to date around. Dating in this sense is akin to romantic tryouts for the role of girlfriend. 

We teach men how to meet women IRL and online, go on brief dates, and quickly decide whether the relationship is worth pursuing or not. Dating a large sample size of women gives you a better idea of who you’re most compatible with. It enables you to compare and contrast.



Think of it as a slower version of speed dating.

However, the question you’re no doubt asking now is how are you going to meet all these women?

The Perfect Profile

Chances are you’re more likely to meet her online than IRL.

The ease and adoption of online dating means that the majority of singles in Fort Wayne are using dating apps to meet their new partner.

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But just because everyone is using them doesn’t mean you’re guaranteed to meet your new flame on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge.

Tinder for example has 9 male users for every one female. Bumble has 7 men to every 3 female users.

Sure these odds aren’t great, but most men put little effort into creating a quality profile.

We teach students how to create a profile that demands being swiped right on.

We cover everything from how to take quality photos, to what to wear, how to select photos, how to write bios and prompts responses, and much more.



For men looking to revamp their profile ASAP, follow these three tips for your first three photos:

First Photo – High-quality headshot (remember to smile and use a nice background!)

Second Photo – Full-body shot, consider dressing up

Third Photo – Show her who you are and what you like to do by posting a shot of you enjoying yourself in your element

Remember, whatever you do never post a photo of you taking a selfie. Selfies are low-quality photos that suggest you have few if any friends.

MegaMessaging + TDL

The next aspect of dating that your new Fort Wayne dating coach focuses on is messaging women online and asking them out.

Getting a match is great and all but a match is very different than a first date.

A match means she happened to swipe right (or like) your profile. There was something about it that sparked her interest and motivated her to move her finger an inch in a favorable direction – that’s all it means.

It doesn’t mean she wants to go out, wants to meet your parents, or wants to get married and move to Florida.

It doesn’t mean any of that.

What it does mean is that you two have potential. You’ve passed the first screening, now it’s time to chat her up.

Make sure she reads and responds to your message by sending her a quality opening message.



Ask her about something on her profile, comment on a photo she posted, make a joke about something she wrote – write a compelling message the piques her interest.

Want to know what the opposite of a compelling message looks like?

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The inboxes of female users are littered with messages that look like these.

One-word messages that are bland, cliche, and basic.

Don’t be basic.

Show that you’ve actually read her profile by asking her a question about something you found on her profile. Showing a genuine interest will have infinitely better results than by simply messaging, hey.

In our course, we’ll not only teach you how to write an optimal opening message but also how to steer the conversation toward a TDL.

TDL stands for time, date, location, and it’s the only way you should be asking a woman out.

Here’s what a TDL looks like in action:

Hey Jess, I’d love to go mini-golfing with a fellow aspiring pro like yourself this Thursday at 8 at Navigators… are you down?

The message clearly includes the time, date, and location, thus giving her a concrete date request that she can mull over and either accept or reject.

Speaking of first dates there are some rules you should follow when going out with a woman.



Dating Blueprint

The first three dates are make or break.

These first three dates are when you gauge compatibility, spark attraction, bond, and take things to the next level.

Any wrong move during this stage could sink your fledgling relationship.

So what should these first three dates look like?

Here’s a quick breakdown:

First Dates – Under an hour and less than $20

Second Dates – Active, during the daytime and lend themselves to breaking the touch barrier

Third Dates – Time and financial restrictions are lifted – make it a memorable third date

This is the first three-date outline, but there’s much more to it than a couple of bullet points.

In Dating Decoded you’ll learn the ways of building attraction, conversation, how to touch her, and the many other finer points of dating a woman IRL.

How You’ll Learn

In Dating Decoded we cover quite a bit of information.

So how exactly will you learn?



We have four learning pathways:

Online Curriculum – Self-paced online curriculum where you’ll do the bulk of your learning

Live Sessions – Two live weekly sessions where we’ll dive into the finer points of dating. Here you can also ask our coaches questions that relate to your dating life

Mock Dates – Practice what you’ve learned on mock dates that take place in person or online

Online Community – We’ve created a community of men just like you who support and strategize with one another.

But we realize that some students want to supercharge their dating lives. It’s for them that we created Dating Decoded VIP.

Dating Decoded VIP

Dating Decoded includes the learning pillars and pathways above and then some. 

With Dating Decoded VIP your Fort Wayne dating coach gives you access to six 50-minute sessions you can use with our coaches in any way you deem fit.

Here are some ways to use these 1-on-1 sessions:

  • One-on-one coaching with one of our coaches
  • In-depth profile review
  • Sex coaching with Tilly
  • Personal styling with celeb stylist Hailey
  • Fitness and meal planning with Aundrea
  • Optimize your SM accounts with Mia
  • Mock Dates with Audrey and Brooke

Dating In Fort Wayne With emlovz’s Help

You might not know she’s waiting for you in Fort Wayne – but we do.

We know that finding her is only a matter of looking.

We know what path you need to take to find her.

If you’re ready to invest in your love life, give us a call so we can learn more about each other and put you on the right path to finding your forever partner.

If you’d like to know how our program, Dating Decoded has changed the lives of our students for the better, just check out their testimonials here. 



And if you want to learn how David went from divorced to a babe magnet just check out his transformation below.

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