Charlottesville has become a lot more single-friendly since Thomas Jefferson called it home.

Next to the Blue Ridge Mountains and home to the University of Virginia, and of course, Bodo’s Bagels, Charlottesville is an en-vogue city home to an abundance of educated, sharp, and ambitious women.

But I understand how you can find dating in Charlottesville difficult.

In the city proper, the population is just under 50,000, nearly half of those residents being college age. Many men in the area would say that everyone is a student or married – there is no in-between. I won’t lie, it can feel like Charlottesville is bereft of single women, but with over 220,000 people in the metro area and a gender ratio favorable to single men, Charlottesville does have the ingredients necessary to find your ideal partner.

Now all you need is someone to lend you a hand in finding them.

That’s where the best Charlottesville dating coach comes in.

The Best Charlottesville Dating Coach

Charlottesville has oodles of history but you’re most interested in the present. You want to find the kind of romance that will go down in the history books.

I totally get that.

Charlottesville is a crazy romantic town but you won’t be able to tap into that romance without a lovely lady by your side.

At emlovz we specialize in equipping men with the skills they need to find and court a woman in record time. 

It all begins with what we call MegaDating.

MegaDating

MegaDating shapes everything we teach in our program.

It’s all about dating women prolifically. It’s a proactive dating approach that works as a shortcut to getting what you want from your romantic life.

Instead of waiting around for a woman to waltz into your life, you do the waltzing. You make your own luck, put yourself out there, and meet a carousel of women in a short period of time.

The goal is to have our students go on 20 dates in 90 days, but most students surpass this, just look at Naeem who went on 31 dates in 90 days.

But if you haven’t gone on a date in years you may be wondering how you’ll magically start dating dozens of women on just a few months.

We teach men how to leverage social circles to find dates. 

This means meeting women at parties, via networking events, at the gym, at yoga, after a kickball match, through friends, etc.

But the social funnel we help men tap the most is online dating.

Dating apps are full of single women. In the comfort of your own home you can swipe through thousands of women. In no other area of life do you have such easy access to such a wealth of women.

But dating apps are competitive.

The Perfect Profile

Tinder has a higher ratio of men to women than a WWE event (which is to say 9 men for every 1 woman).

Those aren’t good odds if you’re looking to find your very own Tinderella.

But there is hope.

Most men don’t care to put together a solid profile. They throw a few photos together, maybe respond to a prompt or two, and write their height in their bio before calling it a day. It’s these men who are most frustrated by online dating because they’re never scoring any matches.

Their frustration is good news for you.

The more sub-par profiles there are out there the better the odds are of you outcompeting other single men on apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge. 

At emlvoz we help you revamp your profile via our online curriculum, twice-a-week coaching sessions, and profile reviews.

Our students consistently outperform 90% of men in their area.

But if you don’t want to wait to find out what makes our sauce so special here are a few tips you can apply to your dating profiles right now.

• Include what we can a GQ pic (like the one below) in your profile
• Talk about your hobbies in your bio so as to attract like-minded women
• Utilize every inch of your profile (that means answering prompts, filling out your bio, and linking IG and Spotify if possible)
• First photo should be an HD headshot that clearly shows her what you look like

MegaMessaging + TDL

Once we’ve revamped your profile the matches will begin to pour in.

Your match queue will build up and you’ll have dozens of women in your inbox that have signaled their interest.

But that interest usually isn’t a burning desire to get to know you; it’s an ember of desire, one that can be blown away with one tiny breath.

To tactfully build that ember into a sustainable flame you’ll have to woo her with your conversation.

The only way to turn that unknown match into a first date is to drum up attraction online before pivoting into the real world.

We help men do this with three tactics. 

The first is the most crucial; the opening message. If she doesn’t respond to your first message the relationship is over before it began. We teach students how to read her profile and then write a compelling opening message. If you’ve been writing hey or hey beautiful as your opening message and wonder why you never receive equally warm responses, it has to do with your opening message.

She receives tens of messages every day. You’ll need to write her something original to convince her that your message is worth responding to.

The second MegaMessaging skill you’ll learn is how to quickly vibe with her. 

Where do you go after that initial message?

We teach you how to find commonalties and bond with a stranger to the point where they feel comfortable going out with you.

After you two have bonded, it’s time to use a TDL (our third step) to ask her out.

TDL stands for time, date, location. 

These three pieces of information are vital when asking a woman out. They show her that you have put effort into thinking of a cool date idea and that you genuinely want to date her. This isn’t an amorphous date request but a concrete one that she can see and feel.

Three Date Blueprint

As your new Charlottesville dating coach it’d be wrong to give you the skills you need to get the girl without helping you out once you go on your date.

That’s why we’ve developed a dating blueprint that outlines the kind of first, second, and third dates you should go on.

Adhering to this blueprint ensures you put yourself in the best possible position to quickly build attraction, vet your date, and continue to MegaDate.

Let’s break these first three dates down.

First dates are short and sweet. Under an hour with no more than $20 being spent. First dates should be brief because in reality you’re dating a stranger who you may dislike the moment you two meet. Cheap dates are recommended so not to attract a woman that only agrees to a date for a free meal (it happens).

Second dates should be free and active. Active dates in Charlottesville are easy to come by, but why active and free? Free dates fend off gold diggers, while active dates are novel, fun, and lend themselves to breaking the touch barrier and quickly building a rapport.

Third dates are reserved for women you really vibe with. Few women make it this far but the ones that do should be treated like the queens they are. Shower them with affection, bring them to a swanky joint, and make the date one she’ll always remember.

Your Charlottesville Dating Coach

Interested in learning how we here at emlovz can help you become the most eligible bachelor in town?

We teach our students the shortcut to finding their ideal match by MegaDating. As a reminder, MegaDating is our dating philosophy and it shapes everything we teach here at emlovz. Simply put MegaDating is dating prolifically with the specific goal of going on 20 dates in 90 days. This will give you ample women to compare and contrast so you can refine your not only your dating skills but who your ideal partner is.

To teach you how to quickly find highly compatible women in just weeks and become the most eligible bachelor in town you’ll have a team of romantic experts, each skilled in their own unique area to support you.

• Emyli (me), co-founder, curriculum developer, head coach, and I host two coaching sessions every week
• Thomas, co-founder, and coach. He’ll lead the biweekly Man Cave event where men come together to talk dating, bond with one another, and support other single men
• Cat, Brooke, and Audrey are mock date specialists. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
• Hailey is your new stylist. She’s worked with celebs from every industry and is now about to raid your closet
• Tilly is our holistic sex & intimacy coach. She’ll help you get the most out of your sex life so you and your partner are happier between the sheets
• Aundrea is an award-winning fitness coach. Are you ready to eat right and build muscle?
• Mia is our SM specialist. Revamp your SM profiles with her help and start meeting women online

And look, we realize that the single life can be difficult. If accepted into our coaching program, Dating Decoded, you’d be joining a community of supportive men and coaches who are there to listen, support, and encourage you as you navigate the single life.

Our program offers every student a lifetime membership (as if you’ll need it) so the support won’t stop until you’ve found your ideal partner.

If you’re ready to find your forever partner, book a Zoom session with our team today. Together we’ll talk about your dating history, your goals and show you how our program, Dating Decoded, can help you find your ideal partner.

Learn how our students have already improved their dating lives.