Philadelphia isn’t exactly known for its sex appeal.

It’s the city of brotherly love, American independence, and of Quakers.

When people think of Philly they conjure up a Rocky training montage, cheesesteaks, crazed Eagles fans, and of course, the founding fathers all huddled around a table in their powdered wigs, waistcoats, and stockings screaming about how much England sucks and how awesome Merica is gonna be.

Unless you’re a historian or have a greasy-food fetish, Philly may not seem like a sexy city — but you’re wrong.

If you’re a man (and I assume you are) Philly’s a goddamn sex icon.

That’s because Philly has 90,000 more women than men.

If you ask lifelong resident Thelma Kennerly she’ll tell you that “Philadelphia is a city of women.” Ask her why and she’ll tell you, “Our men are dead or in jail. But women are still out here. Women are the stronger ones.”

The latter is debatable but the truth of the matter is that out of the country’s 10 most populous cities Philly has a higher women-to-men ratio than any of them.

But just because there’s a gender imbalance doesn’t mean it’ll be easy to find a woman willing to give you her John Hancock on a marriage certificate.

That’s where the best Philadelphia dating coaches come into play.

Because despite the gender imbalance, Philly’s not exactly one of the best cities for singles. WalletHub’s annual best cities for singles list ranks Philly in the 118th position.

It’s for that reason I’ve compiled the three best Philadelphia dating coaches for men.

Best Philadelphia Dating Coaches

What determines a solid dating coach?

Well, when trying to find a coach you’ll want to look at three things.

• Philosophy
• Teach Style
• Reviews

There are dating coaches out there with no philosophy, little style, and a website barren of reviews.

Leave these coaches for the dogs (or at least the Giants fans).

These are the three best coaches in town.

emlovz

That’s right, us.

We’re the best in town and we don’t need to be bashful about it.

That’s because we have a proven track record of teaching men the skills they need to know to get the girl.

Since I went on my 100-date journey in 2012, I’ve dedicated myself to equipping men with the skills they need in order to find super compatible women.

How do I do this?

Our Flirty Philosophy

First off, we teach men and men only. 

Our philosophy and curriculum are specifically designed to help men find women.

The best way to meet your forever-woman is with MegaDating.

MegaDating entails meeting as many women as possible in as short amount of time possible. It’s kind of like a slower version of speed dating without awkward element.

Dating prolifically in this way has more than a couple of benefits:

• Shows you there are women out there for you and that you shouldn’t settle
• Refines your dating skills
• Boost confidence
• Is wicked fun
• Helps you figure out the type of women you’re attracted to
• Diffuses sexual energy

Our course shows you how to find these women and how to date them effectively in a low-stakes and affordable way. After a few weeks of our classes, you’ll be able to snag 1-2 dates a week.

Want to know how? Speak to your new coach.

The Profile All Women Swipe Right On

You know as well as I do that even though Philly is home to more women than men, that isn’t true when it comes to dating apps.

On Tinder, there are 9 men for every one woman. On Bumble there are 7 women for every 3 men.

Perhaps these odds are slightly better in the town of brotherly love but not by much.

If you want to MegaDate in style you’ll have to craft an excellent dating profile.

We’ll show you how to craft a profile that is among the top 10% of profiles in Philly.

We do this by showing you what photos are and aren’t working and how to write an excellent profile.

MegaMessaging and Date Pitch

Just because your profile’s on point doesn’t mean you’ll be able to score dates.

Getting swiped right on is only half the job.

Now that you have a match we’ll teach you how to make her swoon — or at least how to get her to accept your TDL.

Too many guys never even get a response to their opening messages.

Not So Pro Tip:

Stop messaging hey!

We teach you how to send amazing opening messages, how to get her talking, and how to convince her you’re the guy she should spend her Friday night with. Lastly, we’ll teach you how to ask her out with a TDL.

Too many guys never get off the apps. We have the strategy that will take you from the confines of an app to the ballgame, dance floor, movies, or wherever else you choose to take your date.

Date Blueprint

The first three dates you go on are the most important.

They’re all about building attraction and assessing whether or not she’s the one you want to be spending your time with.

To do this quickly and without breaking the bank, we’ll roll out our three-date blueprint.

Too many guys spend large and agree to 3+ hour first dates. Look unless you know this woman, never spend more than $10 or one hour on a first date.

But how do you do that?

We’ll show you.

But hey, we’re not the only coaches in the Philly area.

Damaris Torres

Damaris Torres is a licensed couples therapist, couples relationship coach, and certified sex therapist.

If she doesn’t know how to fix your love life, no one does.

With over 23 years of experience under her belt she specializes in “helping married/committed couples get unstuck from their relationship problems without having to spend years in therapy.”

She generally meets couples on a biweekly basis.

She specializes in:

• LGBT Couples Counseling
• Marriage Counseling
• Couples Sex Coaching
• Phone Relationship Coaching
• Premarital Counseling

While Damaris isn’t a dating coach she is certainly schooled in the ways of love.

Marriage Minded Matchmaking

MMM is a coaching and matchmaking agency.

As you’ve gathered from their name, they’re all about finding you a partner worthy of marriage.

What’s cool about MMM is that even if you don’t want to sign up for classes you can enter into their matchmaking database for free.

How It Works

First, you’ll review the three mentors available (7 females, one male).

After learning more about them on their site, you’ll meet with them, discuss your goals, and determine which one you want to swipe right on.

After that you’ll engage in various 1-on-1 classes with just you and your mentor.

It should be noted that while MMM accepts people of all races and creeds it was created to cater specifically to Jewish singles. In fact its founder, Aleeza Ben Shalom has been called the Jewish Dating Guru. She’s appeared in the BBC, NPR, HuffPost, and various other big-time publications.

What’s awesome about MMM is that they also have a matchmaking arm.

For free you can enter into their database and get paired up with a woman should the right match present itself.

A Note About The Philly Gender Ratio

I might have raised your hopes necessarily a while ago.

It’s true that there are more women than men living in Philly.

But that disparity isn’t spread out evenly among all age brackets and races.

As you can see, women just about outnumber men regardless of age or race.

However the older you are the more that disparity grows.

This is mostly owed to the fact that women just happen to live longer than men.

Despite this, your odds of finding a partner are still pretty good.

However, they get that much better should you enlist the help of an expert.

Best Philadelphia Dating Coaches

There it is.

You can three very different coaches to turn to revitalize your love life.

Three coaches that have been there, done that, and have gotten more than a client or two married in the process.

Now it’s time to swipe right or left.

I’d like to remind you that emlovz has all the resources necessary to take you from zero to hero from single on Fridays…… to salsa dancing and karaoke singing on Fridays.

Our program’s program uses a four-pronged approach to change you into the man you want to be.

• Online Curriculum
• 2 Weekly Strategy Sessions
• Mock Dates
• Online Community

Our learn-at-your-own-pace style enables our students to learn when it’s most convenient for them. Once enrolled, always enrolled. You’ll have lifetime access to our ever-evolving online curriculum, online community, and weekly strategy sessions.

To learn more about how our program can help change your life and the best Philadelphia dating coaches, book a 1-on-1 call with a member of our team.

During this call we’ll discuss your romantic goals and see if our program, Dating Decoded is right for you.