Portland is a lot of things.

It’s home to the most beards and craft brews per capita, has the first bar in the world solely dedicated to televising women’s sports, and is just flat-out weird.

Portland is many things, but a dating hub isn’t one of them.

Portland was recently named the fourth worst city for dating by the Great Love Debate podcast.

Is it really the fourth-worst? No way — but it’s far from the best.

It also depends on who you are.

A 2016 study found Portland to be the third-best city for 20-something college-educated men. That’s because there are 156 college-educated women for every 100 college-educated men.

Those ratios even out as female college grads move away but it’s important to reiterate that your odds of finding a partner depend on your sexual orientation, age, where you live, etc.

To say Portland’s the fourth-worst or third-best city for singles depends on the type of single you are.

Chances are if you’re reading this you’re of the mind that Portland leans towards the former.

But not to fear!

As weird as Portland is we can pair you with a Portland dating coach to help you decipher that weirdness.

Portland Dating Coach

There are 267,556 women in Portland.

42% of which are between the ages of 20 and 44.

That means there are over 100,000 women for you to get your mack on with.

But just because the odds may be in your favor doesn’t mean it’ll be easy.

Dating in 2022 is straight-up weird. It’s even weirder when it goes down in America’s capital of weird.

It’d be a hell of a lot easier navigating the weird and confusing dating scene of Portland if you had a coach to help guide you.

That’s where the best dating Portland dating coach comes into play.

emlovz

emlovz is your all-in-one dating agency.

We know how to turn even the most lost men into romantic demi-gods.

It all begins with MegaDating.

MegaDating is the guiding philosophy that shapes everything we do and teach at emlovz.

So what is it?

MegaDating is the practice of dating multiple women at once. It’s a proactive dating philosophy involving getting out there and meeting as many lovely ladies as possible.

But why?

Simple really.

The more women you meet the better your odds are of finding your most compatible partner.

We teach men how they can meet multiple women per week — meaning in no time you’ll have met dozens of women.

Not only is this active dating approach a shortcut to meeting your ideal partner but there are many happy byproducts of dating prolifically.

Byproducts such as:

• It refines your palate and helps you figure out who you’re most compatible with
• Prevents you from settling
• Gives you confidence
• Reduces anxiety
• Makes you a more social person that’s more comfortable approaching women
• Is just super fun!

But all this sounds like a fairytale doesn’t it?

I mean what average guy scores a date with a new woman lined up every week?

We have a plan.

Our four dating pillars are used to help you find these women.

Here they are.

MegaDating

We’ve already talked about MegaDating. It’s our guiding philosophy and informs everything we do here at emlovz.

By MegaDating you’ll fill up your social calendar with 1-2 dates a week and will have met enough women in a couple of months to have found someone worth calling your girlfriend.

But how on earth are you supposed to go on so many dates?

Aren’t you constrained by time and money?

We’ve addressed this.

First dates should last no more than an hour with no more than $20 being spent. This is because you probably won’t want to go on a second date with the majority of women you meet. So why break the bank and spend an entire Friday night with a stranger you could be disinterested in the second you lock eyes?

Save your time, money, and energy by going on brief first dates.

The Perfect Profile

How in the world do you expect to meet all these women?

In our program, Dating Decoded we’ll teach you how to meet them IRL.

How to meet them in Meetup and Facebook groups, at parties, through friends, etc.

But to maximize the number of women you meet you’ll have to use dating apps.

For some this may be a scary new world you’re entering into for the first time. You’ll have to create a profile, choose a roster of photos that impresses, and write up a bio that’s somehow more compelling than your male competitors’.

We’ve got you covered.

In our hybrid online curriculum, live Zoom coaching calls, and private community — we’ll dive into just what you need to create a competitive profile. In fact, we’re so confident in our ability to revamp your online presence we believe we’ll help you create a profile that outcompetes 90% of the other men on dating apps.

We’ll also help you choose the right apps for you and craft a profile that attracts compatible women.

Because we don’t just want your profile to stand out. We want it to stand out to the right women.

MegaMessaging

Let’s imagine for a moment that you’ve created the perfect profile.

The ladies of Bumble, Tinder, and Hinge are loving your profile. They’re swiping, liking, and sending messages.

It’s the perfect scenario — but it’s not enough.

That’s because a dating app is really an introduction app.

It’s meant to connect you with like-minded people, but the rest is up to you.

A match isn’t a date.

Online dating is a bit of a misnomer in this sense. When you’re chatting online, you’re not dating, you’re simply figuring out if this person is worth dating. 

This Portland dating coach can show you how to pivot away from the app and into the real world.

It all comes down to how you message.

We teach you the most efficient way to message your matches.

This is the most delicate part of your online exchange. This is when it’s make or break.

As a woman she’s being inundated with messages from guys that have profiles just as good as your own.

To illustrate the difference in attention between women and men online, here are the profiles of two friends (John and Jane) after 7 days on Tinder.

As you can see Jane has 7,506 likes while John only has 19.

What all this means is that you’ll have to write a pretty witty & strategic message for you to stand out.

Not only this but you’ll have to hope she checks her dating apps right after you message or else newer messages sent from other men will push yours down the queue. Don’t worry — our program has solutions for all of these potential snags in your dating journey.

Date Blueprints

Now that you’re chatting it up with various women online it’s time to turn those innocent conversations into dates.

After you grab her number ask her out using a TDL (time, date, location). A TDL is the only right way to ask a woman out, due to how specific it is.

Here’s an example of a TDL in action…

Hey Jane, mini-golfing would be the perfect first date. Let’s go this Sunday at 12 at Tiny Balls. You in?

The key to a good TDL is to 1) make the date request crystal clear so she can see and feel it and 2) make it sound so awesome she has to agree to it.

Ideally, you choose a TDL that is close to her home or work and is something she enjoys doing.

Make the date pitch so easy to say yes to that she has to go.

Remember that first dates should last no more than an hour and cost no more than $20.

But what about second dates?

Second dates should be active and 100% free. Doing so weeds away gold diggers and proves to you that she’s into you for you not because she just wants a fancy meal.

If she’s lucky enough to make it to a third date the restrictions are off and you now have the choice to splash the cash. I’m talking about taking her to a nice restaurant, maybe going to a show or dancing, or just taking her out on a night she won’t forget. Show her how awesome you think she is.

Using our dating blueprints, you’ll learn how to sequence your first, second, and third dates so you’re escalating sexual tension appropriately without being too forward or too passive.

This will ultimately make it so the women you date want to be your girlfriend and all you have to do is choose the best partner from your huge list of AMAZING candidates.

How You’ll Learn

This is great and all but how will you actually learn this stuff?

We use a four-pronged approach:

• Online Curriculum
• Mock Dates
• Online Community
• 2 Live Coaching Calls Every Week
• Optional Personal Coaching Sessions

Our step-by-step transformational online curriculum allows you to learn at your own pace. We have extensive curriculum that covers everything from how to score your dates, to first date conversation strategies, to flirting and creating sexual tension.

Our seemingly endless supply of content is regularly updated and available for life.

For a more granular and intimate approach, we also hold two Zoom sessions a week where you can ask any questions that may arise. We’ll also dive into new research and strategies you can apply on your next date.

But you know what, even after you’ve attended our coaching calls and gone through the online curriculum you still want some hands on training where you can practice what you’ve learned. For that, we offer mock dates with coaches. It’s here you’ll date one of our coaches. You’ll apply what you’ve learned and receive feedback after the date.

The last teaching style we employ is less about teaching and more about creating a community of guys in the same boat. Everyone that enrolls for the program has lifetime membership to our online community where men can share wins, commiserate with one another, get coaching from my team and I in between the live coaching calls, and strategize.

The Best Portland Dating Coach In Town

Portland’s weird — and we like it that way.

But that doesn’t mean your dating life has to be.

emlovz has the skills and rigorous teaching methodology to help you leverage online dating so you score more dates than you know what to do with.

But dating women simultaneously seems too good to be true right? I mean what normal guy can go on 3 dates every week for an entire month?

Which guys you ask –these guys.

Our program is designed to find you a long-term compatible partner. These men have found love with our help and they’d guarantee that we can help you too.

Let’s learn more about each other via a 1-on-1 Zoom call. You can tell us about your romantic history and goals and we’ll tell you how our program, Dating Decoded can help you find your new partner.