Grand Rapids is a pretty awesome place to live.

It has a 7-day-a-week farmers market, the most renowned 25k in the nation, and of course Stella’s Longue.

But as awesome a place as Grand Rapids is, if you’re single it will always feel like something is missing.

The dating scene has changed recently and if you haven’t changed with it, it’s easy to feel hopeless.

Meeting online is more en vogue than ever, the rules of engagement have changed, and women are pickier than ever before now that they have an abundance of options to choose from.

So what are you to do?

Do you continue to go about finding a girlfriend the same way you have or do you change your strategy?

If you’re here reading this it probably means you’re ready to call in the romantic calvary and team up with the best Grand Rapids dating coach there is.

Your New Grand Rapids Dating Coach

The purpose of a dating coach is to help you refine your dating skills and attract more women.

But not all coaches do this the same way.

Some are more matchmakers than coaches, some will hit the bars with you to help you meet women, and others will help you for a few months and then drop you as soon as the contract expires regardless if you’ve met a woman or not.

emlovz is the best Grand Rapids dating coach because they aren’t any of those things.

We at emlovz have a proven track record of quickly teaching men the skills they need to find a super-compatible partner. 

That last part is crucial.

We don’t just give you a few tips and send you out into the world. Rather, we teach you strategies that will help you find and court the kind of women that you are most fond of and most compatible with. In this way, you’re meeting a lifetime partner rather than a short-term girlfriend.

So how do we do it?

MegaDating

Proactive dating is the only way to quickly find a high-quality partner.

Gone are the days of putting your feet up and hoping that you’ll serendipitously bump into the woman of your dreams at the cafe down the street.

We teach men how to make their own luck by MegaDating.

MegaDating is the process of going on 20 dates in 90 days to shortcut your path to finding the right partner. It’s the philosophy behind my coaching program that has helped thousands of men attract long-term relationships with women they’re really excited about.

Instead of going on one date every six months we have men going on dates every six days.

One student, Naeem, even went on 31 dates in 90 days. Prior to teaming up with us, he hadn’t gone on a date in years.

The benefits of dating various women in quick succession are plentiful:

• Reduces dating stress
• Builds confidence
• Helps you figure out who your perfect woman is
• Helps you read women
• Refines dating skills
• Quickly helps you find a high-quality and compatible partner

But MegaDating takes effort.

These women won’t magically appear on your doorstep, you need to find them and then convince them to go on a date with you.

We show men how to do this by leveraging existing and new social networks.

One of the best social networks to leverage are dating apps like Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble. 

Building A Profile That Converts

The most common way to meet women nowadays is via a dating application.

40% of all new relationships start online and that percentage is only expected to increase as more Gen Zers come of dating age.

Meeting women online is easy, fast, and can be done anywhere at any time. Dating apps are home to the largest unadulterated groups of singles you’ll find anywhere on the planet.

With a couple of clicks you have access to thousands of single women.

But with this easy access comes competition.

Men vastly outnumber women on dating apps. On Tinder there are 9 men to every one woman. 

With such a disparity, you’re going to have to do something special to stand out.

Our formula helps men outperform 90% of males in the area.

We know what photos to choose, how to take those photos, the types of pictures you need to post, how to showcase your personality through photos, prompts, and bios, and how to get the most out of each dating app.

After you enroll in our program, Dating Decoded, we’ll teach you how to utilize every pixel of your profile to convince her that she should swipe right on your profile.

However, a solid profile isn’t enough to turn you into a MegaDating juggernaut.

MegaMessaging + TDL

Let’s say that you’ve revamped your profile.

You have consulted with our team of Grand Rapids dating coaches, completed our dating app modules, and have had your profile reviewed and vetted by our team.

It’s now one of the best in town.

What this means is that now you have a number of matches that are waiting for you to send them a message.

Your profile has gotten you this far, now it’s up to your online conversational skills to score a date.

In our program, we teach men how to:

• Send opening messages that have high response rates
• Quickly build rapport online
• Ask her out with a TDL

You’ll need to learn how to become an online conversationalist in order to turn matches into dates.

Dating Blueprint

Once you have begun to convert matches into dates it’s time to go about your first three dates in a way that gets the most out of your dates and your time.

To do this, adhere to the MegaDating rules.

First dates should be under an hour and cost no more than $20. You probably don’t have the time to spend on a five-hour date with a stranger. Sure you two have been chatting online, but chances are you still don’t know her. You may find you’re not interested in her within the first five minutes of the date. With that in mind, keep dates short and sweet. Keeping dates under $20 will also ward off women who only accepted your date request because they wanted a fancy dinner.

Second dates should be active and free. Active dates are novel, fun, and lend themselves to breaking the touch barrier. Free dates will also fend off gold diggers.

Third dates should be memorable. Take her to a show, go dancing, eat at a swanky restaurant, and make it a night she’ll never remember. If you’re MegaDating, only the women you most connect with will make it this far. Dating so many women at once will give you the confidence to end a nascent relationship if it isn’t working. Gone are the days of forcing a relationship for fear that you won’t find another one.

Finding Love In Grand Rapids

Interested in learning how we here at emlovz can help you?

We teach our students the shortcut to finding their ideal match by MegaDating. MegaDating is our dating philosophy and it shapes everything we teach here at emlovz. Simply put MegaDating is dating prolifically with the specific goal of going on 20 dates in 90 days. This will give you ample women to compare and contrast so you can refine your not only your dating skills but who your ideal partner is.

To teach you how to quickly find highly compatible women in just weeks and become the most eligible bachelor in town you’ll have a team of romantic experts, each skilled in their own unique area to support you.

• Emyli (me), co-founder, curriculum developer, head coach, and I host two coaching sessions every week
• Thomas, co-founder, and coach. He’ll lead the biweekly Man Cave event where men come together to talk dating, bond with one another, and support other single men
• Cat, Brooke, and Audrey are mock date specialists. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
• Hailey is your new stylist. She’s worked with celebs from every industry and is now about to raid your closet
• Tilly is our holistic sex & intimacy coach. She’ll help you get the most out of your sex life so you and your partner are happier between the sheets
• Aundrea is an award-winning fitness coach. Are you ready to eat right and build muscle?
• Mia is our SM specialist. Revamp your SM profiles with her help and start meeting women online

And look, we realize that the single life can be difficult. If accepted into our coaching program, Dating Decoded, you’d be joining a community of supportive men and coaches who are there to listen, support, and encourage you as you navigate the single life.

Our program offers every student a lifetime membership (as if you’ll need it) so the support won’t stop until you’ve found your ideal partner.

If you’re ready to find your forever partner, book a Zoom session with our team today. Together we’ll talk about your dating history, your goals and show you how our program, Dating Decoded, can help you find your ideal partner.

Learn how our students have already improved their dating lives.