The rental site Zumper recently rated 382 cities to try to figure out the best city for singles to live in.

Boston topped the list, meanwhile, Cincinnati struggled to say the least, taking the 154th spot.

Zumper gave Cincy a D.

The reason being, the city had too few bars per capita, only 26% of residents have BAs or higher, middling rates of dating app usage, and mediocre rental prices. 

All in all, I think most residents would agree that perhaps Cincy isn’t the best city for singles — but it’s not the worst either. Springfield, Ohio for instance came in at 224 out of 382 cities.

I however disagree.

I think Cincy is not only one of but perhaps the best singles city in the US — if you’re a man. 

To be a great city for singles you don’t need a lot of bars or cheap rental prices, what you need are women to date.

What the city lacks in entertainment options it makes up with in single women. 

Just look at how many more women there are than men in nearly all age brackets.

With the median age also being 32, Cincy residents are young, mostly female, and ready to date.

But just because the numbers are in your favor, it doesn’t mean dating is easy.

To get the most out of the Cincy dating scene, you’ll want to team up with the best Cincinnati dating coach.

The Best Cincinnati Dating Coach For The Best Singles City

The numbers are in your favor, now it’s time to capitalize on that advantage.

If you want a long-term relationship with a compatible woman, there is only one coach (or team of coaches) that has the structured program and support to help you find her — emlovz.

Your New Dating Coach, emlovz

The best way to find your ideal partner in Cincy is to date around.

It’s to date a large sample size of women and shack up with the woman you find the most compatible. You can do this in a place like Cincy because you as a man are so outnumbered by women.

At emlovz, our dating philosophy revolves around dating prolifically, something we call MegaDating.

MegaDating

Imagine going out with Sally on Tuesday, Becca on Friday, and Samantha on Sunday.

Now imagine going on 10 or so dates every month until you find a woman you want to make your girlfriend.

We teach our students how to do just that when they learn how to MegaDate.

MegaDating is our guiding philosophy.

Everything we do takes MegaDating into consideration.

This is because the only way to find a compatible partner is to date around. Dating a new woman every three months, and then settling for the best option means you don’t have a large enough sample size. The more women you date the better your odds are of finding a partner you want to make yours for life.

Not to mention all the other benefits MegaDating has including:

• It’s just super fun
• Refines dating skills
• Helps you understand who your ideal partner is
• Makes you more social
• Boosts confidence
• Diffuses sexual energy

After enrolling in our program and learning the emlovz way, our students often go on to date one or two new women a week. 

But finding these women and convincing them to spend their precious free time with you isn’t magic, it takes work.

So who will you meet these women?

The Perfect Online Presence

Imagine a place where you could meet women without lifting a finger — okay maybe you’ll have to lift one finger.

Online dating has completely changed the game.

Even just 10 years ago in order to meet someone you had to leave your home, spend money, invest time and energy, and get lucky in order to meet compatible women.

This isn’t the case anymore.

Cincy alone most likely has about 30,000 single women using dating apps. That’s 30,000 women you can match with, chat with, and ask out that you can meet without even leaving the couch.

It’s the convenience of this 24/7 virtual singles bar that makes online dating so popular.

It’s now the most common way to meet your new romantic partner.

But just because everyone is on Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble, doesn’t mean success is a foregone conclusion.

Dating apps are more often than not used by men. On Tinder for example men outnumber women 9 to 1.

Because women are often outnumbered, they can afford to be choosy and only match, chat, and ultimately go out with who they deem to be the best of the best.

What we help you with is presenting yourself as the best of the best.

We’ve developed a detailed coaching program that teaches you everything you need to know to create a profile worthy of a swipe right, including:

• How to take the perfect photos
• Which photos are the most successful
• Which apps to use
• How to use keywords to attract a certain type of woman
• How to fill out bios and prompts to make yourself more appealing to a certain type of woman

While creating the perfect profile will help you stack matches, a nice profile alone won’t score you a date.

For that you need to learn how to message these women.

NOTE: In our program, Dating Decoded we also teach men how to meet women IRL. First students will create an ideal GF profile where they’ll learn their ideal type and brainstorm places they might meet such a woman. We recognize the importance of being able to meet women IRL and teach students how to not fully rely on dating apps to meet women.

MegaMessaging + TDL

For every match you have, she has 20 more.

That’s the reality of online dating.

Women are pickier than men in general and especially when they know they are outnumbered.

Every time she opens a dating app she’s confronted with dozens of new profiles and messages.

She’s not going to respond to every message, only the ones that stick out.

Want to see the type of message she won’t be responding to?

If you’ve been sending her these types of messages, don’t be surprised that she isn’t responding.

This is a no-value opening message that does nothing to engage her.

We teach students how to write engaging messages that have high response rates.

There is no perfect opening message, but there is a unique opening message framework that we teach students that more often than not receives a response.

Once she responds to that first message, you’re not in, but your messages will not be prioritized. From here you want to quickly build up a rapport and then ask her out with a compelling TDL (time, date, location).

Your job is to get off the app ASAP.

Build a rapport, learn what she’s into, and then craft a first date request that involves one of her hobbies.

Dating Blueprint

The first three dates are the most important ones.

As your new Cincinnati dating coach, we’ll walk you through the dos and do nots of the first three dates.

Here’s a quick rundown of the rules you should adhere to:

First Dates – No more than an hour, $20 limit

Second Dates – Active and free dates that lend themselves to breaking the touch barrier

Third Dates – If she’s made it this far, make it a night to remember

Each date should be meticulously planned.

There is a rhyme and a reason for these first three dates.

The first date for example must be brief and pocket-friendly as you’re going on multiple dates a week. Chances are you’re also going out with a stranger that you may dislike the second she starts talking. Why agree to spend an entire Friday night and hundreds of dollars on a woman you’ll never see again?

Second dates should weed out gold diggers and women that just want a free meal. Spice things up by making it an active date.

If she’s lucky enough to make it to a third date, it’s time to show her how much she means to you. Go to a show, or fancy restaurant, and make it a memorable night that she’ll tell all her friends about.

Dating Decoded

At emlovz, we provide students with four learning pathways via our lifetime coaching program:

Online Curriculum – Self-paced online platform where you’ll have access to lessons detailing every aspect of modern dating

Live Coaching Sessions – Twice a week you’ll sit down with coaches and talk dating strategy ask questions

Online Community – Bond, strategize, and receive support from out tight-knit community of single men and coaches

Mock Dates – Put into practice what you’ve learned by going on a practice date with one of our coaches

Dating Decoded VIP

We realize that some students want a little extra assistance.

They want to turbo charge their dating lives.

It’s for them that we build Dating Decoded VIP.

When you sign up for VIP you receive 6, 50-minute private lessons that can be used in the following ways:

• 1-on-1 coaching with either founder
• In-depth profile reviews
• Personalized sex coaching with our sex coach, Tilly Storm
• Mock dates with Audrey or Brooke (in real life or virtual)
• Get a wardrobe makeover with celeb stylist, Hailey
• Personalized fitness and nutrition plan with Aundrea
• SM revamp with SM specialist, Mia

Use these 1-on-1 classes in whichever way you think would most benefit your dating life.

Let’s Strategize

The ladies of Cincy are waiting for you.

They’re done dating losers and are finally ready to date a man like yourself.

We want to give you the skills you need to highlight who you are and how much of a catch you are.

Let’s talk 1-on-1 now so we can learn more about each other and enroll you in Dating Decoded.

To learn how our students’ lives have been changed as a result of our program, check out their reviews. 

Here’s what one student said a few months after joining the program..