How Long Should I Wait to Respond to Her Text or Dating App Message?

how long should i wait to respond to her text

A new client recently asked me a question I’ve heard thousands of times over the years: “How long should I wait to respond to her text?” It’s a fair question—and one that feels even harder to answer today. More than 90% of people read a text message within three minutes of receiving it. Most people […]

Why Does She Keep Texting Me If She’s Not Interested?

Why Does She Keep Texting Me If She’s Not Interested?

Wondering “why does she keep texting me if she’s not interested?” She’s lying. Now keep in mind the operative word here is interested. Clearly she’s interested in you—why else would she be texting? What you need to figure out is in what way she’s interested. Maybe she knows you’re a dope cook and wants your […]

How Often Should I Text Her After Setting Up the First Date?

how often should i text her before setting up a first date

Before we dive into the nuances of post-TDL texting etiquette, let’s pause for a quick congratulations. Scoring a date might not seem like a big deal — but in today’s dating landscape, it is. Modern men are dating less than ever before. In fact, studies show that nearly 28% of men ages 18-30 had zero […]

How to Keep a Conversation Going with a Girl Over Text

How to Keep a Conversation Going with a Girl Over Text

Texting is the preferred messaging medium for any modern day Casanova. But texting with friends and family isn’t the same as messaging with a new lady. Before we start, you have her phone number, right? If not, head on over to this article and find out how to get her phone number first. How to […]

Biggest Mistakes Men Make When Texting Women

mistakes men make when texting women

What are the biggest mistakes men make when texting women? Texting has basically taken over most — if not all — interactions when it comes to communicating via cell phone. Using this form of communication is great in many ways when you first start dating someone. Gone are the days where you would have to […]

Why Doesn’t She Respond to My Texts?

why doesn't she respond to my texts

“Why doesn’t she respond to my texts?” Do you find yourself asking this question ad nauseam? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Lots of guys find themselves in a rut when it comes to the early stages of dating, and getting ghosted or R-bombed is an unfortunate — yet common — part of it. There are several reasons […]

Should You Leave Her Message on READ?

should you leave her message on read

The dreaded read receipts are enough to drive a man (or woman) mad. It’s the text equivalent of being completely ignored. Every man knows what it’s like to be left on read, yet not have your message responded to. Today we’re going to flip the script. Now we’re going to take a look at what’s […]

How To Start A Conversation With A Woman Over Text That Leads To A Date

How to start a conversation with a woman over text

If you’re wondering how to start a conversation with a woman over text, you’re not alone. Texting is the most important and popular medium we have for flirting. Think about it. Everything takes place via text. Initial messages of affection, asking a woman out, courting her, date follow-up — literally everything. With that being the […]

Should I Text Her First? (Whether You Met Online or IRL)

should i text her first

The dilemma of when to contact a woman has plagued men ever since the advent of the telephone. Now that everyone has phones for limbs we have the ability to send her a text, call, slide into her DMs, message on Twitter, FB, and probably a million other ways of getting in touch at a […]

What To Text Her After the First Date Including Examples

What to text her after the first date

While I understand you’ve arrived on this article because you want to know what to text her after the first date, the majority of what I’m about to tell you is why you actually shouldn’t. Texting between dates is dicey. Too much communication, especially thoughtless, superficial messages (like the below examples) have the unintended consequence […]