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The Best Seattle Dating Coach for Men Looking for a Long Term Relationship

The Best Seattle Dating Coach for Men Looking for a Long Term Relationship

Seattle is known for a lot of things.

Wealthy liberal programmers too ashamed to admit they work for Amazon, the setting of Twilight, having like 20 days of sun a year, and of course marijuana.

But here’s something you don’t know about Seattle until you live there.



It’s a dating dystopia — especially if you’re a man.

In 2018, a touring podcast that set out to find the best and worst cities to date in found Seattle to be the worst saying, “Of all the places where the disconnect grew wider this year, Seattle’s grew the widest; leaving a gloomy puddle of aggravated women, socially-awkward men, and rainwater.

In 2019, once again the podcast set out to find the worst single city in America and once again confirmed that being single sucks, but especially so if you live in Seattle.

But Seattle’s forever alone vibe doesn’t apply equally to both sexes.

As of 2019, there were 46,000 more heterosexual men than women living in Seattle.

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Women have their pick.

They don’t need to settle and can even date up given the abundance of options.

Men on the other hand feel they need to take what they can get.

It’s probably this feeling that has led you here.

To an article detailing the best Seattle dating coach.



Best Seattle Dating Coach

I don’t doubt you’re a good-looking, smart, funny, interesting guy.

But just because you have all the traits a woman wants in a man doesn’t mean you’ll magically get hit on by women as you walk down the street in your freshly polished Birkenstocks.

A dating coach can help you leverage the qualities you have to attract the women you want.

But not all coaches are created equal.

There is one coach that has a history of helping men like you find a long-term partner.

Let’s set you two up.

emlovz

If you’re a single Seattlite, you probably don’t see many fish swimming around in the sea.

Your biggest obstacle is finding single, compatible, age-appropriate women to date.

emlovz knows this.

We know this so well we’ve created Dating Decoded, a program designed to help you find so many women you’ll start to think of dating as a second job.

The first pillar of our pour pronged-program is MegaDating.

MegaDating

MegaDating is our dating philosophy.



It’s all about dating multiple women simultaneously (in a low stakes environment).

We encourage and teach men how to do so for various reasons.

MegaDating will help you:

  • Boost confidence
  • Find more compatible women than you would have otherwise
  • Refine your dating skills
  • Avoid settling

In our program, we’ll teach you the strategy you need to start dating 1-2 women every single week.

But to find all these women you’re going to have to become a master of leaning on social channels to find single women.

This means meeting women through friends, at parties, at the gym, at social groups, and yes, through dating apps.

But are you one of the 50% of men that’s never dated someone they matched with?

We got you covered.

The Perfect Profile

Dating apps are like 24/7 singles bars.

They’re always open and they’re always teeming with singles.



But like most singles bars, they’re also full of sweaty, horny, and desperate men.

You’re outnumbered.

It pretty much doesn’t matter which app you use, chances are there will be more men than women.

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A 2020 survey found that on the two most popular dating apps in the states — Tinder and Bumble — men outnumbered women 9-1 and on Bumble 7-3.

What does all this mean? That you should close your apps and only swipe right IRL?

No.

Doing so would close you off to thousands of single women in your area.

Instead, you need to strategize.

Dating Decoded teaches you how to craft one of the most swiped-right profiles in your area.

We know which pictures work, how to write a bio even Nicolas Sparks would be jealous of, and how to craft prompt answers that get responses.

It’s a competitive romantic landscape. But with the best Seattle dating coach by your side we’ll tell you what does and doesn’t work so you can start matching with high-value women.



 Messaging And TDL

Matches are profiles of real women ready to chat and date you.

They’re not virtual decorations or NFTs that you can boast to your buddies about.

If she matched with you, she wants you to message.

But how do you, a complete stranger, convince her to go out?

Through our online curriculum and twice-weekly strategy sessions we’ll gift you the skills you need to court women online.

When the time is right we’ll also show you the best way to ask her out.

Hint, hint it’s called a TDL (time, date, location).

Dating Blueprint

The average guy thinks dating involves picking her up from her house, enjoying a $100 meal, seeing a movie, driving her home, and getting a nice smooch as she turns to leave.

This isn’t how things are done anymore.

I mean sure, some men still spend big on complete strangers, but you shouldn’t.

Once you’ve matched and asked a woman out, it’s time to date IRL.

We’ll teach you how to date prolifically without breaking the bank.



To do so you’ll learn our first, second, and third date blueprints.

To give you a sneak peek, first dates involve:

  • Spending no more than $10
  • Lasting no more than 1 hour
  • Occur during the daytime
  • Midweek

Second dates should be 100% free and physical.

If she’s lucky enough to make it to the third date, all restrictions are off and you’re ready to show her how much you care about her by taking her to that fancy restaurant.

How You’ll Learn

We teach you these pillars via our four learning pathways:

  • Mock Dates
  • Online Curriculum
  • 2 Weekly Strategy Sessions
  • Online Community

Each pathway is designed to satisfy the learning styles of each of our students. I should also add that once joined you’ll have access to our community, weekly sessions, and exclusive content for life.

But after a few months of classes, we doubt you’ll need it. You’ll likely be in the relationship of your dreams.

Online Curriculum

Our online curriculum is a learn-at-your-own-pace platform that covers everything you could possibly want to learn about dating in this crazy modern world.

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In 10-15 minute lessons we break down various aspects of dating.

We tackle everything from the best in-person openers, to addressing objections, and how to flirt.

Our online curriculum is always being updated and added to.



We recently added a sex-ed section that tackles — how to pleasure a woman, female anatomy, and how to have great sex.

Mock Dates

You can attend all the live sessions you want, binge our online content and chat with fellow members, but if you don’t apply what you’ve learned in the real world, all this is for naught.

But we don’t just want to throw you into the fire.

Before dating someone you’re really excited about, we give you the chance to go on a practice date with our mock date specialist, Brooke Nichol.

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Wouldn’t you love it if a woman gave you honest feedback after a date?

That’s what you get when you go out on an in-person mock date with Brooke.

It’s with Brooke you can try out everything you’ve learned in our program. After the date is over Brooke will tell you what worked and what aspects of your game need improving.

Online Community

What exactly is the emlovz online community?

It’s a safe space for male emlovz members as well as coaches to strategize, empathize, commiserate, and just discuss what’s on their minds. Look we know that being single can be tough. That’s why we created a community full of like-minded men who are all in the same boat.

It’s not uncommon to hear students sharing wins, losses, cheering each other on, and even taking screenshots of profiles or online conversations and requesting feedback.

It should add that the online community is a bit of a misnomer. Naturally, our students live in major cities. It’s not uncommon for our students to meet up in person to meet women IRL or just bond with one another. Again, no one wants to go it alone. That’s where our online community comes into play.

It’s also here that our female and male coaches will give tips and tricks. While Emyli is the one that leads weekly strategy sessions our co-founder Tom also chimes in with his unique male perspective.

Dating Decoded VIP

We’ve detailed Dating Decoded, but also need to touch on Dating Decoded VIP. 



We realize that some students want a little more personal attention. Maybe you want to dive a bit deeper into a certain subject or want to ask questions you don’t feel like asking in front of the group.

That’s where our six 1-on-1 sessions come in. Signing up for VIP means getting the personal attention you need to discuss personal dating concerns.

During these six personal sessions, you can use this time to:

  • Go on a mock date with Brooke
  • Get your online dating profiles reviewed in-depth by our team
  • Optimize social media profiles with our SM expert, Mia
  • Personal style review with our stylist Hayley

Time To Date

Is it that time?

The time to team up with emlovz and start dating the amazing single women of Seattle.

If so, book your 1-on-1 Zoom appointment with emlovz. 

emlovz offers a comprehensive dating service designed to rewire your dating habits.

We teach you how to meet women, flirt, ask them out, have successful dates, and accelerate romantic relationships.

Unlike other dating coaches in Seattle, you’re dating life won’t fall off a click after our relationship ends (which by the way it never does as you have lifetime access to our program).

We teach you skills you’ll carry around you for life.

You won’t receive the same education from therapists or matchmakers.



Let’s talk about your dating goals and see if Dating Decoded is the right fit for you.

If you don’t believe our program has the ability to completely change your dating life, check out how it’s helped our students.

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