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Top 11 Bumble Profile Tips for Men Who Want More Dates

Top 11 Bumble Profile Tips for Men Who Want More Dates

Looking for some Bumble profile tips to help you nab more dates? You’ve come to the right place.

If you’re active in the online dating world, chances are you’ve heard of Bumble. Bumble is a popular (and FREE) dating app that came into popularity after Tinder. 

It stood out from Tinder and other “hookup apps” by positioning itself as an app for relationship-oriented people.



Moreover, Bumble puts women in charge. Once you match with a woman on Bumble, she has to initiate contact. You are not allowed to message her until she makes the first move.

This makes Bumble appealing to women who are tired of getting inundated with creepy messages and want to get serious with someone.

The Good News

If you’re a relationship-oriented man, this is great news for you. However, the caveat is that it sets a higher bar when it comes to your profile. Guys are more likely to bring their A-game at apps like Bumble because they’re putting time and effort into finding a relationship. They don’t want to mess around.

That’s why I came up with the following Bumble profile tips for men to help you stand out from the competition and get one step closer to finding the girl of your dreams.

Top Bumble Profile Tips for Men

#1: Choose the Right Photos

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Dating app photos are an integral part of your success. So much so that we asked top photographers in various metro area to give us their top dating app picture examples for guys.

They are, however, not the only thing that matters. But because that is the first thing women see, I’m going to spend a good chunk of time here going through the types of photos you should use — and those that you should avoid at all cost.

First Photo: Clear Attractive Headshot

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The first photo should be a clear, close-cropped headshot. It should be attractive and showcase great eye contact and a killer smile. Make sure this photo and the others are recent photos.

Second Photo: Full Body Shot

Women want to see the full picture of who you are before going out with you so that they’re not in for any surprises. Wear the type of outfit I suggested above and post a full body shot where you have open body language, shoulders back, are standing up straight and smiling. Treat the camera like you would a girl you are meeting for the first time. Smile and engage using your eyes with confidence.



Third Photo: Social Shot

Show her that you know how to have fun and that other people enjoy your company by posting a social shot with friends or family.

Fourth Photo: Hobby Shot

Being active and engaging in extracurricular activities shows off your personality and it can help you to better attract women with shared interests. Whether it’s fishing, surfing or cooking, post a good picture of yourself engaged in that activity.

One thing that doesn’t count as a “hobby” is doing keg stands until you black out.

Fifth Photo: One of You and a Cute Animal

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If you don’t have a picture of yourself with an adorable animal, you need to change that PRONTO. No one can consider their profile one of the best bumble profiles for men ever made without slipping in some furry adorableness.

March yourself down to the nearest petting zoo and start mugging with a baby goat, lamb or pony IMMEDIATELY. Dogs, cats and any other animal that falls under the category of “cute and cuddly” also work. (Images of boa constrictors, tarantulas and sharks should NOT be used.)

#2 Avoid the Following Online Dating Photo Pitfalls

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When it comes to the dating app world, people don’t have time to give you the benefit of the doubt when it comes to a bad photo. Moreover, they don’t have the attention span.

We spend our days focusing on things like work, friends, family, and personal responsibilities. Those everyday things take up a lot of mental energy. Thus, you need to capture a woman’s interest in an instant when it comes to dating photos. 

We simply don’t have the time to swipe at a snail’s pace. In fact, I always recommend that my 1-on-1 clients get professional photos taken of them by an actual photographer, and you should too!

Avoid these dating photo pitfalls to avoid a hard pass on your profile:

Pictures where your arms are folded

You may unconsciously cross your arms in public as a way of giving yourself a small hug to alleviate nerves and social anxiety. The thing is, while this body language is comforting for you, it can make you appear closed off to women, making it less easy for them to approach or engage with you.



Frowny face

Always smile! At best, the non-smiling online dating photos I have observed make the guy appear that he’s in a bad mood, maybe a little arrogant or just not feeling whatever environment he’s in when the picture was taken. At worst, the straight line masquerading as your mouth or frown will make women wonder, “Is this dude a serial killer?” 

Avoiding the camera

Eye contact is also something that is extremely important when it comes to interacting with women you go on a date with, along with anyone you end up being in contact with. Furthermore, eye contact shows that you are engaged and listening, whereas a lack of eye contact signals disinterest and can even make you come off as rude.

Wearing sunglasses or a hat

If you’re wearing sunglasses, you kill the benefits of eye contact right there because we can’t tell whether or not you’re looking at the camera. And a hat makes us wonder what you’re hiding under there, throwing off what you really look like.

Tip #3: Fill Out Your Entire Profile

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I may have started off with photos, but that’s not the most important of my Bumble profile tips for men. Yes, it is important in that it makes a good first impression, but the entire profile is crucial to securing matches and getting more dates.

A lot of guys make the mistake of posting photos to their profile and leaving it at that. But it makes you look lazy when you don’t fill out your online dating profile in its entirety. Don’t leave a single area untouched.

Here’s some examples to help you with your bio or tagline areas of your profile.

Tip #4: Be Generous with Distance Settings

When you limit yourself to women that live in your immediate vicinity, you miss out on lots of amazing potential partners.

Give yourself a generous range when it comes to distance. Think about your preferred distance and increase that by 10-15 miles if you live in a city and 30-40 miles if you live in a county or rural environment. This will increase your number and quality of matches.

Tip #5: Expand Your Horizons When it Comes to Age

If you don’t have a preferred age range — or haven’t had a lot of experience dating women younger or older than you — get outside of your comfort zone by widening your age preferences on your profile.

There can be a lot of benefits of dating both younger or older women, as well as those your age. Basically, keep your options open so you can get as many matches and enjoy as many informative dating experiences as possible.



Tip #6: Set a Swiping Goal

You can’t get matches (and subsequent dates) if you’re lax about swiping. That’s why it’s important to set a swiping goal. This not only increases your chances of matching, but it keeps you accountable.

For example, you could swipe 50 times a day, which will add up to 350 swipes per week. That means 350 chances to match up with a woman every seven days.

This is strategic because it allows you to track and measure your progress. You can see how effective your response rate is and — if your match rates are low or suddenly start to decrease — you can use this information to alter your profile.

Now that we’ve gone over the strategies you should use for your profile, let’s get into matching and messaging.

Tip #7: Connect Your Instagram and Spotify

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Like Tinder, Bumble uses your Facebook account to pre-populate certain areas of your profile, like your age and name. This also allows you to easily access photos from Facebook to post in your profile.

But you also have the option to connect other social media, like Instagram and Spotify.

Don’t sleep on this option!

Women are more likely to swipe right on you if they can take a gander at your Instagram photos and Spotify playlists. 

Why?

Remember that women are used to getting messaged by (and, unfortunately, going out with) creeps. They want to be able to gather as much information about you as they can. Even if they initially swipe right on you because they like your photos, the choice to actually initiate conversation comes down to the full profile.

Plus, offering insight into your life allows her to assess whether or not the two of you have shared interests. And finding shared interests is the first step in building trust and rapport in a relationship. It’s much easier to have a great time on a first date when you and your date have a variety of things in common.

What if I Don’t Have a Spotify or Instagram Account?

If you don’t have Instagram or Spotify, consider opening an account for both. These are extremely popular apps and can provide women with a lot of information that she might want to use to evaluate your potential as a partner. 



My team and I have actually written various articles on how to DM a Woman on Instragramhow to create an Instagram Bio that pops. 

Additionally, a broad, legitimate social media presence gives you extra credibility. Women have to determine how safe we’ll be when meeting you in person, and social media is the best way to evaluate that risk. The more connected you are to others, the better we’ll feel about meeting you in person.

Tip #7: Use Humor to Your Advantage

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If you’re a funny guy, showcase that in your profile. Women love a man who can make them laugh. If humor isn’t your forte, consider adding a funny movie or television quote to your profile.

Or, try something new and take an improv comedy class to cut down on your analytical-seriousness. Dating is supposed to be fun, so women we’ll expect to laugh with you every so often.

Tip #8: Stay Positive and Upbeat

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Negativity equals a hard pass in the online dating world. Stay positive and upbeat in your profile. Don’t talk about how much online dating sucks or that you wish you didn’t have to use apps to meet women.

You should approach dating with an open mind, confidence and a sense of fun. Make sure that your profile reflects this.

Tip #9: Embrace Your Unique Passions

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Don’t be afraid to embrace your nerdy passions and unique interests. The last thing you want is for women to think you’re boring based on your profile.

Again, it’s important to bond over shared interests in the early stages of dating. What you think is dorky may be something that a Bumble user absolutely adores.

Whatever you do, avoid sounding generic or writing something untrue because you think it’s what a woman wants to hear. Be your most genuine self!

Tip #10: Don’t Talk About Sex or Use Innuedo-Laden Terms

This is one of my top Bumble profile tips for guys and it can also apply to any online dating profile you create if you’re seeking a serious relationship.



If you are looking for a long-term relationship and/or more than just a hookup, present yourself appropriately. Remember, Bumble is geared toward people who aren’t looking to screw around. Talking about sex or using lots of innuendo in your profile comes off as skeezy.

Tip #11: Don’t Rely Solely on Bumble

Bumble is a great app to add to your arsenal, but it shouldn’t be the only thing you use. I always recommend that my clients download at least a few apps (Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel, Tinder, and so on…) to up their chances of matching and meeting potential partners. 

Furthermore, they should use different methods to meet women as well, including joining adult sports leagues, meeting women through mutual friends, trying things like speed dating, or even hiring emlovz (that’s us) as your personal matchmaker

In fact, using different methods to meet women and going out on dates with more than one woman at a time is part of a strategy called MegaDating.

Get More Dates on Bumble and Beyond

Want to get the most out of your dating life? Are you looking to reach your dating goals and find a woman to share your life with? My team and I are here to help.

We’ve helped men all over the world find lasting love. And we can do the same for you.

If you’re ready to get started, head over to my calendar and book a new client 1-on-1 Zoom session with me or one of my colleagues today.

During our session, we’ll discuss your dating goals, talk about any issues that might be holding you back, create an action plan, and see if my 3 month coaching or matchmaking programs could be right for you.

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