Dating Anxiety And What Your Date Is Really Thinking

If you’re single, you know all too well what dating anxiety feels like. Sure, everyone has butterflies in their stomach, but not everyone has the radioactive butterflies buzzing around your insides. Dating anxiety can straight up kill a vibe. I’ve helped thousands of men and women over the years become expert daters. Many a single […]
How to Not Be Nervous on a Date

Dating nerves is something that affects almost everyone across the board. As normal as it is to feel those first date jitters, it’s important to try and figure out your best coping methods for learning how to not be nervous on a date. If you’re one of the many who suffer from dating anxiety, the […]
Should I Lose Weight Before Dating?

Women don’t care about looks as much as guys do. And no, that’s not something men tell themselves so they don’t feel bad – it’s science. Women are much more concerned with finding a partner who will be there for them, can provide, and isn’t going to play Call of Duty instead of caring for […]
How to Stay Positive When Dating as a Man in 2024 & Beyond

Men have plenty of reasons to be negative when dating nowadays. The romantic rules of engagement aren’t what they used to be, dating apps are packed with women by are outnumbered by men, and after the pandemic, it feels like we’ve all lost our ability to form inteligible sentences. Men are lonelier than ever, have […]
Why Am I Still Single? A Man’s Guide to Making a Change

Have you been asking yourself ‘why am I still single?’ If so, kudos to you for facing a reality that isn’t easy and for getting out of your comfort zone. Putting the burden on yourself isn’t easy, but it’s crucial if you want to find a love that lasts. Though you may have had bad […]
6 Tips for Better Sex for Men — From an Expert

If there’s one thing I know guys always want to hear more about, it’s tips for better sex. That’s why, in my group coaching program, Dating Decoded, I invited guest speaker Tilly Storm to join one of our weekly calls. Tilly Storm is a sex, love, and relationship coach who specializes in tantra. She had […]
How To Overcome Shyness at a Party or Social Gathering To Meet More Single Women

Being shy can feel like a curse. Why after millions of years of evolution have your genes picked the short straw of shyness. Nowhere can being shy hurt you more than in a room full of people that appear to be giggling, bonding, and getting their vibe on. Meanwhile there you are staring into your […]
Why Do I Put Her on a Pedestal?

Ever find yourself micro-analyzing your messages to women? Do you think, “Oh shit, did I lose her because I said ___ (fill in the blank)?” If so, then ask yourself one more thing: “Why do I put her on a pedestal?” Putting women on a pedestal means you lack confidence. That also kills your attractiveness […]
Feeling Unworthy of Love? Here’s 7 Ways to Feel Like You Deserve Her

Sometimes we stop making an effort to date because we’re feeling unworthy of love. And that’s a tough place to be. Tons of coaches and self-help gurus out there will tell you that you have to “feel worthy” to attract what you desire. While that’s true in theory, what happens when you can’t seem to […]
FODA: Fear Of Dating Again – Defeat Your Fears And Find Your Woman

Dating after a couple of years of being locked away and not seeing anyone romantically is tantamount to being thrust up on stage in front of a thousand people and being asked to give a speech on the conceptual foundations of quantum mechanics. Okay, maybe it’s not that terrifying, but it’s still pretty scary. The […]