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intellectually attracted but not physically attracted

“What do you do when you’re intellectually attracted but not physically attracted?”

Oomph. This wretched — albeit common — predicament in the dating world leaves many singles feeling like they’re stuck between a rock and a hard place.

Moreover, many people who are in long-term relationships find themselves deflated and unsure of what to do when their attraction to their partner wanes.

Whether you are attempting to make a new relationship work with someone you … Keep Reading

how to become an alpha male

Are you wondering how to become an alpha male?

I often get questions from clients who feel like they are being passed over for their alpha male counterparts. While they are continually friend-zoned by attractive, high-quality women, they notice the guys who ooze masculinity have these same women vying for their attention.

In fact, some self-proclaimed “nice guys” start acting like jerks (being overly sarcastic, negging, sneaking around etc.) in hopes that women will … Keep Reading

“Why don’t girls like me?”

This is one of the most common questions I get when working with my male clients. After being rejected and relegated to the friendzone time and time again, it’s understandable that men find themselves throwing their hands in the air in exasperation and asking “Why don’t girls like me?”

Difficulty in the dating world hurts your self-esteem and can make you wonder if there is something fundamentally wrong with … Keep Reading

how to flirt with a girl in person

Are you wondering how to flirt with a girl without being a creep? As a dating coach, I get a plethora of questions on flirting techniques. The art of flirting can be a difficult thing to navigate. You want to increase the chemistry with a woman so that you don’t end up in the friendzone. However, if you go too far or a strategy falls flat, you run the risk of coming off as … Keep Reading

how to break the touch barrier with a girl you like

Lots of guys have a hard time figuring how to break the touch barrier with women that they’re interested in. You want to be able to escalate the chemistry between you two and touch is a great way to do this. However, efforts to break the touch barrier can put you in a tricky position. You don’t want to be timid to the point that a woman questions your interest but you also don’t want … Keep Reading

signs she wants you to notice her

If there’s a woman you’re interested in but you’re unsure of her feelings for you, you’ve come to the right place. In general, women prefer men to approach them first when it comes to getting asked out on a date. Unfortunately, this can make it difficult for guys to discern between a woman’s generally friendly demeanor and the signs she wants you to notice her.

Some women can be extremely transparent and will make it … Keep Reading

playing it cool with a girl

If you’ve been dating for any amount of time, it’s inevitable that you’ve come across this. It’s handed out like candy on Halloween, and it’s everywhere. No, I’m not talking about herpes. I’m talking about the commonly prescribed dating advice of just “playing it cool with a girl you like”.

Why write a hit piece on a common dating tactic used by people from all walks of life? After all, it has stood the test … Keep Reading

do nice guys finish last types of nice guys

“He’s nice…” she said before rushing to change the subject. This statement came after a mutual friend who had set this woman up asked how her date went.

The date was with you. She thinks you’re “nice,” and when she says “nice,” what she really means is “not my type.” Does this situation sound familiar? Has it left you wondering, “Do nice guys finish last in today’s dating game?”

If you’re a guy who is … Keep Reading