Finding a long-term partner in Norfolk isn’t as easy as it looks.

As a major military hub, its residents are always moving around. At a moment’s notice, your partner may move abroad, be transferred, or be called out on a mission.

This ever-shifting romantic landscape makes Norfolk a difficult place to date. But for all its obstacles, it has more than a few positives that make it a quality place to meet your forever partner. 

For one, the metro area is home to just under 2 million people. That means you have tens of thousands of singles to choose from in your area. You’re also minutes from the beach, have access to an array of outdoor activities, decent year-round weather, and are in the heart of a happening metro area. You’ll never struggle to come up with a quality date idea (even though WalletHub might disagree).

Clearly, Norfolk has the raw ingredients you need to find a partner, you just need a romantic chef to help turn those ingredients into a long-term relationship.

Norfolk Dating Coach

You’re not in the market for just any dating coach in the same way you’re not in the market for just any romantic partner.

You want the best of the best.

That’s why we recommend emlovz.

emlovz

emlovz got its genesis after co-founder Emyli went on 102 dates in a year (i.e. MegaDating).

In this one-year period, she unlocked the mysteries of modern dating. She learned the best tactics men can use to court women as well as how women can go about not just finding a partner but the best possible partner in town.

Her romantic odyssey led to the creation of emlovz, a dating coaching community helping both men and women find their ideal partners.  

But emlovz isn’t just Emyli.

emlovz is comprised of a squad of coaches dedicated to helping you find Mr. or Mrs. Right.

Let’s meet the crew.

Thomas – Co-founder

Co-founder Thomas is the lead male perspective on all things dating.

Whether female students want to crack open a male skull and take a look around or male students need the male perspective on how to catch the lady of his life, Thomas is prepared to play Cupid and empty his quiver of arrows for you.

He also leads Man Cave sessions for men where male students can come together to support and strategize. He’s also the first person in the community to reach out when a student has a dating issue they need a solution for.

Audrey – Dating Coach & Mock Date Specialist

I know how difficult it can be to go on a first date after not having dated for a while. I wish I could say it was like riding a bike, but a lot of things have changed since the last time you may have dated.

Audrey is here to help you get your skills back by providing you with a set of trainer wheels. Before you’re next big date, go on a mock date with Audrey. This will simulate a real date but after the practice date you’ll receive detailed feedback on what worked and what areas need improving.

Darshil – Dating & Confidence Coach

From student to teacher, Darshil’s dating skills have improved faster than inflation over the past year.

In 2023 Darshil enrolled as an emlovz student. In short time he mastered the material, became a leading voice in the emlovz community, and is now imparting his wisdom to students who hope to emulate his success.

Here are just a few things Darshil can help you with:

• Date location strategy
• Romantic escalation
• Date conversation framework
• Profile optimization
• Confidence building
• Mock dates for women

Tilly – Holistic Sex & Intimacy Coach

You probably didn’t know sex coaches were a thing until you read the header above.

Tilly is the coach we didn’t know we needed (because we didn’t know she existed) all along.

We have life coaches, tennis coaches, and fitness coaches, but why not team up with someone who can up our sex game too?

Tilly is a certified sex and intimacy coach, who uses transformational tools and techniques derived from the Taoist and Tantric arts, somatic healing, psychotherapy and a variety of coaching modalities to help men and women experience life-changing sex, pleasure, and more intimacy with their partner.

Hailey – Celebrity Stylist

The best way to make a first impression is to bring your Nobel Prize award with you to a first date and surprise your date by having John Mayer serenade you two while you feed each other shrimp cocktails. But if you don’t have time for all that, you can at least make sure you look good.

But if even that’s a struggle, you need to call in the expert.

Hailey has styled some of your favorite actors and celebrities. She’s the reason they look as good as they do. Her entire job is making people look their Hollywood finest. She can do the same for you.

Renee – Anxiety Coach

Dating can sometimes feel more nerve-racking than public speaking.

To combat this, team up with Renee as she uses evidence-based practices to mitigate your anxiety and crush your next date. We all have an internal self-doubting monologue that tells us we’re going to mess up. Renee helps quiet that voice and gives you the confidence you need to feel at ease when dating so you can create more meaningful connections.

So how does it all work?

How exactly does the emlovz team help you find your next partner in the Norfolk area?

Let’s dive in.

MegaDating

100 years ago, we would go out with one or two people before finding a partner in our late teens or early 20s. Logic tells us that shacking up with your first or second boyfriend or girlfriend isn’t the best strategy if you’re looking for long-term love.

To find the most compatible person out there, you need to date around. You need to be exposed to a plethora of personalities and people so you can compare and contrast.

That’s what MegaDating is all about.

It’s a prolific dating strategy geared towards quickly finding an ideal partner. It may sound sleazy at first, but it’s anything but. The purpose isn’t to sleep around with a bunch of people. Rather, MegaDating is for those who are tired of waiting on the sidelines. It’s for people who want to take a proactive dating approach so that they can find a high-quality partner right now.

If you’re sick of waiting around, MegaDating is for you.

At emlovz we teach students how to go on 20 dates in 90 days.

But if you haven’t gone on a date in months or even years, how can you expect to date 20 people in 90 days?

The Perfect Online You

At emlovz we teach students via:

• Online Curriculum
• Mock Dates
• Live Coaching Sessions
• Individual Coaching

We use various coaching methods to teach men and women everything they need to know about dating. We place a special emphasis on teaching students how and where to meet fellow singles. 

We will teach you where you need to go to put yourself on a romantic crash course with compatible singles. But while meeting singles in person is vital, we also teach students how to meet people online.

As you can see the most popular way for couples to meet nowadays is via a dating app. 

But just because it’s a popular way to meet doesn’t make it easy.

If you’re a man you have to contend with a sea of other men competing for just a few women. This isn’t hyperbole. Tinder has 9 men for every 1 woman. We’ll teach you how to optimize your profile so you’re outcompeting 90% of other users.

Women face a different problem with the apps. Sure they can bag matches with ease, but matching with compatible men online and then deciding which is worth spending your time with presents a different set of problems.

We will equip you with the skills to navigate the dynamic and sometimes awkward world of online dating.

MegaMessaging (For Men)

Before you can go out with that lovely person you met on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge you have to chat.

You don’t need to know every detail about their lives.

However, you do need to form some sort of spark. You need to convince them that you’re worth going out with (and vice versa). Humans have been conversing for millennia, but chatting up a stranger online is a different ballgame.

To go from a stranger to a first date takes patience, skill, and carefully worded messages.

At emlovz you’ll learn how to:

• Write a compelling opening message
• Ask someone out using a TDL
• Quickly spark a connection
• Organically find similarities
• Convince a stranger to go out with you
• Determine if they’re compatible

There is a lot of nuance in online messaging. One wrong message could lead to you being unmatched or ghosted.

We will walk you through the ins and outs of online messaging so you can quickly pivot away from the app and into the real world.

Dating Blueprint

If you’re MegaDating in Norfolk you’re going on a ton of dates in a short period of time.

We have students who regularly go on three dates every week. But if you’re going to date prolifically you need to be strategic with how you go about it.

Here are the rules we’ve created for first, second, and third dates.

First dates should last no more than an hour with no more than $20 being spent. Chances are the person you’re dating is a complete stranger. Why sign up for 5-hour date with someone you may dislike the moment you two meet?

Second dates should be 100% free and active. Active dates are free, require creativity, and offer a dynamic that lends itself to easy flirting and breaking the touch barrier.

Third dates are only reserved for singles you’re super into. If you’re going on two dates every week chances are only a select few will make it this far (which is a good thing!). When you do go on a third date, make sure it’s a memorable one.

Dating Decoded

emlovz is your new Norfolk dating coach. Together we’ll quickly revamp your dating life so you can meet the partner you’ve been craving. 

We teach our students the shortcut to finding their ideal match by MegaDating. MegaDating is our dating philosophy and it shapes everything we teach here at emlovz. Simply put MegaDating is dating prolifically with the specific goal of going on 20 dates in 90 days. This will give you ample women to compare and contrast so you can refine not only your dating skills but also who your ideal partner is.

To teach you how to quickly find highly compatible women in just weeks and become the most eligible bachelor in town you’ll team up with romantic experts, each skilled in their own unique area to support you.

Our Team

• Emyli (me), co-founder, curriculum developer, head coach, and I host two coaching sessions every week
• Thomas, co-founder, and coach. He’ll lead the biweekly Man Cave event where men come together to talk dating, bond with one another, and support other single men
• Cat, Brooke, and Audrey are mock date specialists. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
• Hailey is your new stylist. She’s worked with celebs from every industry and is now about to raid your closet
• Tilly is our holistic sex & intimacy coach. She’ll help you get the most out of your sex life so you and your partner are happier between the sheets
• Aundrea is an award-winning fitness coach. Are you ready to eat right and build muscle?
• Mia is our social media expert. Revamp your Facebook and Instagram profiles with her help and start meeting women online

Our Community

And look, we realize that the single life can be difficult. If accepted into our coaching program, Dating Decoded, you’d be joining a community of supportive men and coaches who are there to listen, support, and encourage you as you navigate the single life.

Our program offers every student a lifetime membership (as if you’ll need it) so the support won’t stop until you’ve found your ideal partner.

If you’re ready to find your forever partner, book a Zoom session with our team today. Together we’ll talk about your dating history, your goals and show you how our program, Dating Decoded, can help you find your ideal partner.

Learn how our students have already improved their dating lives.