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3 Best Houston Dating Coaches (+Date Ideas)

3 Best Houston Dating Coaches (+Date Ideas)

Houston has more singles than Simon Basset has suitors.

For those of you that still haven’t seen, Bridgerton, this means to say, a lot.

That’s because from 2010-2020 Houston became the fastest-growing metropolitan area in the US, seeing a 20+% increase in just 10 years. 



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This means that the nation’s fourth most populous city is one of the best places to be single in the country.

That is of course if you’re a female.

If you’re a female on the prowl, there’s really little prowling you’ll have to do. When the downtown area has a ratio of 3 men to every 1 woman there’s little reason to be proactive.

When we zoom back further the picture doesn’t get much better as men outnumber women at every age. 

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There are two ways to remedy this problem.

1) Wait around for the gender pay gap to decrease and subsequently for more women to move to the Houston area.

2) Team up with one of the best Houston dating coaches around.

The former might take a while, so your best bet is to strike up a relationship with someone that has a proven track record of helping men land dates regardless of the competition.

The Best Houston Dating Coaches

It’s for that reason we’ve taken the time to research the best dating coaches in the Houston area. We’ve compiled a list of unique coaches designed to tackle the single life in a variety of ways.



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That’s right, us.

We have a bonafide coaching program that’s helped thousands of men refine their dating skills, date prolifically, and quickly find a super compatible partner.

So just what are we all about?

MegaDating Philosophy

Our program, Dating Decoded is heavily influenced by our philosophy, MegaDating.

MegaDating is all about dating multiple women. We teach our clients how to do this so that they’ll refine their dating skills, enjoy dating, avoid settling, quickly identify traits of an ideal partner, and of course find a super compatible partner quickly.

In Dating Decoded you’ll learn how to set up 1-2 dates a week, fill up your social calendar, and how to date efficiently.

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Creating The (Swipe) Right Profile

If you’re not online you’re not in the dating orbit.

A Stanford study found that in 2017, the most common way singles men their partners was online. This trend is only expected to increase as the majority of children that belong to parents that met online will be the majority by 2038.

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When you team up with us, you’ll not only learn how to create a dating profile, but will create one that performs in the top 10% of all profiles.

We know exactly the type of profile women engage with.



You’ll learn:

  • Which photos to choose
  • How to have an online conversation
  • How to use a TDL to ask her out
  • Which apps to use
  • How to attract compatible women online
  • Other dating app optimizations

MegaMessaging

Once your profile is up and running you’ll have to learn messaging strategy.

Through constant research, we’ve learned which messages women are most likely to respond to and how to segue into asking a woman on a first date.

Date Blueprints

If you’re MegaDating and going out with 2 women a week do you really expect to spend $100+ and hours upon hours on every date?

Most guys do, we’ll show you how to save time and money while increasing sexual tension in the process.

We have a 1st, 2nd, and 3rd date blueprint that we’ll impart to you during our class. It’s the key to quickly finding, meeting, and starting a relationship with someone you’re compatible with.

Our best in class coaching program uses a four-pronged learning approach to teach our students what they need to know about dating:

  • Online curriculum (lifetime access)
  • Online community (lifetime access)
  • Weekly strategy sessions (lifetime access)
  • Mock dates

Soul Connect

Leanne Peterson is your new spiritual, life, and dating coach.

Via 1-on-1 live sessions, she teaches students via intuitive guidance how to achieve their goals. Leanne believes that your love life can be improved through a holistic approach and aims to improve it through a comprehensive spiritual makeover.

“I see far too many people surviving in relationships, careers, and life setups that do not support them. Just because you can doesn’t mean you should.”

Her formula to empowering your romantic life is conversation + intuitive inquiry therapy + life coaching + soul = romantic happiness.

How It Works

Once a week (or biweekly) you’ll talk with Leanne. During sessions, Leanne will help you find and see your blind spots clearly. She’ll do this by journaling, using mindfulness techniques, asking probing questions, and teaching intuitive practices.



Each session is an hour long and can take place online or via a walk in Hermann Park.

Sessions cost $225.

The Relationship Firm

The Relationship Firm is Steph McKenzie.

Steph is who you turn to when you’ve already found your partner, but want to make them your lifelong companion.

She helps couples decide if it’s time to break up or get married. She helps both married and about to be married couples determine their future.

We coach premarital and married couples based on diverse spiritual principles of being man and wife, and on the practicality of having a successful relationship with another human being, which includes understanding both the differences and similarities between the two of you. Finding and appreciating your differences and similarities will mean the difference between “happily ever after,” and “happily NEVER after.”

The Process

Before you all can work together Steph must first learn who you are and what your goals are. This takes place via a 50-minute discovery session.

Then you’ll select your program. The Relationship Firm offers 12 programs.

There are programs designed for singles, married couples, those thinking of getting married and everyone in between.

Best Date Ideas In Houston

After you start working with one of the best dating coaches in Houston you’ll no doubt start attracting the attention of some lovely women.

When that happens it’s time to take them out.

But where should you go and how should you date?

To help you get the most out of your dating life, let’s first talk about the MegaDating blueprint.



MegaDating Blueprint

I’m curious so I just Googled, “how much should I spend on a first date?”

GQ was the first hit.

I love me some GQ and know they never steer men wrong.

Their answer; “If you’re in college expect to spend $50-100 on a first date.”

I stopped reading after that.

Just because college students pay on average $25k/yr for college doesn’t mean they can afford a steak dinner with their chem partner.

Luckily I have a better answer than GQ.

If you’re MegaDating you should spend no more than $1o on a first date. 

If you’re going out with 6-10 women a month are you really willing to spend a GQ quantity of money?

Stop reading GQ for dating tips and instead read the following emlovz rules for the first three dates.

First Date

  • $10 limit
  • One hour limit
  • Daytime date

Second Date

  • 100% free
  • Make it active
  • Daytime date

Third Date

  • Nighttime date
  • Make it romantic
  • No time or financial cap

You’re dating around.

You don’t have the time or money to invest in strangers.

Follow this blueprint and you’ll be just fine.



If you can’t imagine dates that satisfy these rules, here are a few ideas for you.

First, Second, and Third Date Ideas For Houston

First Date

Get your nostalgia on when you visit the Cidercade of Houston. a $10 entry gives you and your date access to over 275 arcade games. Play some of your favorite childhood games, kill some zombies, and play some air hockey together.

If you’re not an arcade type of person, pick your own fruit at one of the many farms just outside of Houston. I’d recommend Blessington Farms for berry picking. Chocolate-covered strawberries are sexy and all but there’s nothing more wholesome and romantic than feeding your date a fresh strawberry straight off the bush.

Second Date

Second dates should be free and active.

With that in mind it’s time to get moving.

Buffalo Bayou Park is centrally located (so chances are she lives close) and has over 160 acres of greenery to explore. Bike, kayak, jog, or leisurely stroll through the park. If you’re really feeling your date, set up a picnic for you two to enjoy after your jaunt.

You can also check out the sunset at Galveston Island State Park just an hour outside the city. I recommend heading out for the sunrise or sunset.

Third Date

If she’s made it all the way to a third date; congrats.

You may have just found someone worth calling your girlfriend. Of course, it’s still too soon to tell. Really get to know her and turn on the charm on a third date.

Remember all time and financial restrictions are now off.

Dinner and a movie is so old school. Now that the pandemic finally seems to be winding down why not do something you haven’t been able to do since early 2020?

Do dinner and a show by hitting one of downtown Houston’s many world-class restaurants followed by a show at House of Blues.



If you’re looking for something a bit more far-out, get spacey at the James Turrell Twilight Epiphany Skyspace.

Head to Rice’s campus and check out the light and sound installation that projects a wicked LED sequence onto the roof. Shows take place right before and after sunset. This is just the start of your evening. The show is 100% free. Follow this up by strolling through Rice’s beautiful campus to Coppa Osteria just off-campus. This rustic Italian restaurant is formal enough to indicate your interest but chill enough to get your fingers greasy with some of the best pizza the city offers.

If you two have to calories you’d like to work off in style walk or take the brief drive over to Palace Social, a classy bowling alley just minutes away.

As the fourth most populous city in the USA, there’s never a shortage of awesome things to do in Houston.

But before you can galavant around the city with your date, you’ll need to find one first.

Find Your Next Date

As one of the best Houston dating coaches, I can assure you that the lopsided gender ratio isn’t an obstacle unless you want it to be one.

Our team of coaches is ready to equip you with the skills you need to meet women IRL and online, MegaDate, and find the woman you deserve.

To get started, book a 1-on-1 Zoom call.

During our call, we’ll talk about your dating goals and I’ll help you determine if Dating Decoded is right for you.

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