Does Height Matter to Women While Dating?
“Does height matter to women?” and, more specifically, “Do women only like tall guys?” is a question I hear from male students all the time. Many of the men I talk to worry that being “too short” automatically puts them at the bottom of the dating pool. They’ll tell me women list a preferred or […]
Does Weight Matter To Women When Dating?
Let’s be real for a second — does weight matter to women when dating? Yes… and no. Attraction is nuanced. It’s not a simple “fit or fail” scenario. While men tend to be more visual and immediately influenced by physical appearance, women are wired differently. They care about attraction — but context, confidence, and chemistry […]
How to Use a Timebox When MegaDating for Love
“Thomas, I’m vibing with this girl… but she’s only the third woman I’ve gone out with since I’ve joined the program. Do I keep MegaDating? What if she wants exclusivity already?” This was the exact question a client asked me recently inside our Dating Decoded program. He had just joined, gotten his profiles optimized, started […]
She’s Interested But Acting Distant All of a Sudden — Here’s What You Can Do
She’s interested but acting distant. Could there be a more confusing scenario than that? Welcome to the world of modern dating. While I wish I could tell you that you can always be sure of your chances with a woman, the reality is that navigating attraction often means learning to interpret mixed signals. Even if […]
Should I Ask Her Friend If She Likes Me?
Here’s the situation. You’re really into this woman that you met at your friend’s party. You two have been traveling in the same circle for the last few weeks and have really started to get to know each other. You think there may be a connection but just can’t tell. To ascertain whether she has […]
10 Examples Of Approval Seeking Behavior In Dating (+ How To Drop Your Need For Validation)
Approval seeking behaviors in dating are a natural part of human connection, as we often seek the approval of those we love most. From childhood, we’ve been trying to win the affection of our parents, and as we grow older, these behaviors can carry over into our romantic relationships. However, sometimes approval seeking behavior can […]
Why Feeling Worthy Will Help You Attract Any Woman
How does feeling worthy help you attract women? If you believe that you’re awesome, there’s a high chance that other people are going to believe it too. Without even saying a word, exuding a high sense of self-worth tells women the following: You are successful and secure You are strong and reliable You are NOT […]
Is Your Fear of Abandonment Sabotaging Your Dating & Relationship Goals?
Think about the last time you had a good realtionship but things didn’t work out. Was it really just bad luck? It could have been. But often, it’s something much deeper: Your fear of abandonment. Stay with me here, because if you get this concept, your dates and relationship could change permanently for the better. […]
12 Dating Tips for Shy Guys Who Want to Find Love
Do you feel like your shyness holds you back when it comes to the dating world? It doesn’t have to! As a dating coach for men, I have worked with lots of guys who feel like their shyness has prevented them from finding a compatible partner. But you don’t have to be a social butterfly […]
Approach Anxiety: Why is it So Hard to Approach Women?
In the movie 8 Mile, Eminem rapped about how his “palms were sweaty, knees weak” and his arms were heavy when facing his “one shot.” When you find yourself attempting to approach women you’re attracted to, you may experience approach anxiety. Fortunately, the reality is that approaching women you’re attracted to isn’t nearly as dire […]