Beantown is one of the best singles cities in the USA.
That isn’t me talking, it’s cold hard data.
Bumble and Apartment List teamed up to grade every major city in the states on how single-friendly they are.
Boston ranked second on the list for a few reasons:
- Half its residents are single
- There are a billion entertainment options
- One of the most educated cities in the states
But as a male-facing dating agency, we like Boston for another reason.
There are 200,000 more women than men in Massachusetts.
In Boston, there are 30,000 more women than men.
These numbers are even more in your favor if you’re a college-educated man as Boston has 20% more college-educated women than men.
It’s no wonder Boston women are always complaining about how difficult it is to find a good man.
As hellish as the Boston dating scene is for women, it’s pretty heavenly for men — especially higher-educated men.
But just because it’s heaven doesn’t mean the clouds about have split asunder and a heavenly glow falls on your Hinge profile as the angels serenade you with Daniel Ceasar.
To understand how heavenly a dating scene Boston boats you’ll want to team up with a Boston dating coach.
If Cupid’s still recovering from St. Patty’s Day, steal his bow and arrow while sleeping and learn to shoot for yourself.
Equip yourself with the skills you need to court that woman you’ve been making eyes at on the T by hooking up with a dating coach in Boston.
Best Boston Dating Coach
There are about as many dating coaches as there are Irish bars in Boston.
To anyone that isn’t familiar with Boston reading this, that means there’s a lot.
We’ve been able to narrow the list down to the three best Boston-based dating coaches.
As you’ll see each coach offers different ways of helping clients achieve their goals. Some lean on their psychology skills while others are expert matchmakers.
Regardless of which coach you enlist the help of, each coach here has a proven track record of turning Joes into Bens — Affleck that is.
emlovz
You’re probably here because you’re struggling to adapt to how people date in 2022 and beyond.
It’s fast-paced, a numbers game, and yes, largely happens online.
We’re IRL and online dating experts, but we pride ourselves on turning your selfie-taking fish-holding profile into one she can’t help but swipe right on.
We’re emlovz and if you’ll have us, we’d love to be your new dating coach.
Philosophy
Our dating philosophy shapes everything we do.
We’re of the mind that the best way to find a partner is to date — a lot.
I’m talking multiple dates a week, double-digit dates a month, with women you met at the cafe, online, at your friend’s party, etc.
It’s called MegaDating and simply put it’s all about dating multiple women simultaneously.
As we see it, there are two ways to do it.
You can either wait around and let the universe find you the perfect match.
OR
You can be proactive and find one for yourself.
We teach men how to find compatible women and make them fall for you.
But wait… how could you possibly convince 5-10 new women to go with you every month?
Easy.
The Perfect Profile
Be honest with yourself.
Do you think you have a quality online dating profile?
Open your Bumble, Tinder, or Hinge profile right now.
Does one of your photos look like this?
Even if you don’t look like an aspiring creep, chances are your profile is letting you down.
Dating app photos should be HD, clearly show what you look like, showcase your hobbies, highlight your personality, and not be obscured by hats, glasses, scarves, or god forbid a beer helmet.
Lucky for you, most guys have such profiles.
We teach you how to not look like most guys.
We have profile creation down to such a science that our clients regularly create profiles that perform in the top 10 percentile of profiles in their area.
Learn how your profile is performing with Tinder Insights.
But photos aren’t everything.
We also teach you how to write a profile so snappy even David Ogilvy would want to plagiarize.
It’s all in our hybrid coaching program for men, Dating Decoded.
Smooth Texter
We won’t make you look all cute and then leave you to stack matches.
How do you normally react when you chat it up with a new match?
Do convos normally look like this?
We know what women want to hear, or rather we know what questions to ask.
The initial message is the most important.
There’s no need to worry about asking her out or even sending a second message if she doesn’t reply to the first.
Our MegaMessaging formula:
- Prevents ghosting
- Leads to meaningful conversations
- Pivots away from the app
- Lands you dates
We teach you how to quickly build a connection by revolving the conversation around her before using a TDL to ask her out.
There’s only one downside to our method — too many dates.
No worries, we have a solution.
Dating Blueprints
With so many dates lined up, you’re going to have to create a system that allows you to meet all these women without breaking the bank or treating dating like a second job.
We’ve created a dating blueprint for your first three dates.
The first date requires spending no more than $10 or one hour on a date. This enables you to save money and time. You may think it odd to invest so little on a first date. But think about it, first dates are opportunities for strangers to meet and see if there’s a connection. Why sign up for a three-figure date that lasts 4 hours with someone you may never want to see again?
Keep it short.
Second dates should be active and free.
Free to ward off gold diggers and active because it’s both easier to not spend money and easier to build a connection with someone if you two are playing tennis, jogging, or sightseeing.
If she’s lucky enough, she’ll make it to the third date. Third dates are reserved only for women that you’re serious about. To indicate your interest, feel free to spend large on a fancy dinner and dancing, or lobster followed by a show. By the third date all financial and time restrictions have been lifted.
In this very small nutshell of a view, this is MegaDating and how it’s done.
When you sign up with us you’ll receive LIFETIME access to our best in class online curriculum, two weekly strategy sessions, mock dates, and our exclusive online community.
But hey, emlovz isn’t the only Boston dating coach in town.
Get started today with a complimentary 50 minute coaching program intro call.Â
Teaching Methodology
So how are you going to learn to be the most eligible bachelor in Boston?
We do this a few ways.
The first and most popular way is our self-paced online curriculum.
Online Curriculum
On your own time learn everything there is to know about getting your mack on, the ABCs of dating, and yes even how to get it on.
Our online curriculum covers every topic under the sun (and under the sheets).
Here is just a sneak peek of the most popular topics we cover:
- How to be more confident around women
- Sliding into the DMs
- Dealing with objections when asking a woman out
- How to be fun and playful
- Navigating intimacy while MegaDating
This is just a taste of the countless hours of content we have to offer.
I should add that our content is available to you for eternity (as if you’ll even need it after a few months).
It’s also frequently updated.
Just recently we teamed up with Sex and Intimacy Coach Tilly Storm to discuss topics such as how to pleasure a woman, female anatomy, and how to have great sex.
Two Weekly Strategy Sessions
Dating is a complex and dynamic experience.
As such a more or less static online curriculum isn’t enough to answer all your questions.
That’s why we have two weekly live classes where we really dive into your romantic quandaries. Bring your questions and doubts and we’ll provide you with in-depth and nuanced answers to help improve your romantic life.
Mock Dates
At emlovz we don’t believe in baptism by fire.
Before throwing you into the ring we want to equip you with the skills you need to be successful. That’s where the weekly meetings and online curriculum come into play.
But what happens when you want to test out these newly acquired abilities?
That’s where our mock dates come into play.
In-person or online you’ll go on a mock date with our specialist Brooke Nichol.
Don’t you with you could ask a woman after a date how you did? If she was into you, if you flirted well, if what you wore looked good, and if she genuinely enjoyed the date?
With Brooke you’ll be able to ask these questions and get genuine answers.
She’ll let you know what was and wasn’t working for you. What was sexy and what needs improvement? Before going out into the wild practice flirting in a safe environment where you can receive real-time feedback.
Online Community
We know that dating can be a struggle.
What makes it worse is when you go it alone.
That’s why we created an online community for our students where they can come together to cheer one another on, share wins and losses, strategize together, and even meet up in person.
We pair students off based on where they live. We have members around the country so you’ll easily be able to meetup with fellow members if you so desire.
One of the most common ways members use the group is by posting a screenshot of a convo they’re having with a lady. Members and coaches alike will provide feedback and guidance on how to optimize the conversation.
Oh and don’t think our coaches are only women. While most of our coaches provide insight from the female perspective our co-founder Thomas Anthony provides insight from a male perspective.
Dating Decoded VIP
We realize that some students want more intimate attention.
That’s why we created Dating Decoded VIP.
When you sign up for VIP you receive 6 private 50-minute coaching sessions.Â
So what can these private sessions be used for?
- Personal coaching with Emyli
- Mock dates with Brooke
- Private profile reviews with coaches
- SM optimization sessions with Mia
- Style session with Hailey
This is your time.
You it however you want to.
Best Boston Dating Coach
The gender ratio is on your side, you just need a coach to help you fine-tune your dating skills and you’re off.
emlovz is the only dating coach on the market that offers a comprehensive romantic makeover. Our extensive online curriculum will help revamp every aspect of your dating life. Pair this with the personal attention you’ll receive twice a week and you’ll be the most in-demand bachelor in Boston.
Did I mention we also offer mock dates?
Or that all our content and classes are regularly updated and available for life (as if you’ll need it).
We’ve got a lot to talk about.
Book a 1-on-1 call today so we can meet each other and learn about your dating goals. Together we’ll assess your situation and determine if Dating Decoded is right for you.
