How to Get a Hot Girlfriend

It’s Emyli, America’s online dating coach. You’re watching EmLovzTV, the place to be if you’re looking to meet and attract beautiful women. In this segment of EmLovzTV, you’re going to learn how to get a hot girlfriend. This is also an informative article if you are learning how to avoid the friendzone.

Is there is a hot girl you want to wife up? Or do you just want general tips so you can learn how to get a hot girlfriend?

If you answered yes, the first thing you need to realize is that beautiful single girls usually have five to ten men interested in them.

When it comes to dating, competition is fierce. Therefore, it’s super important that you create as much leverage as you can. And you can do this by increasing your social value.

Social value is the relative measure of one’s desirability. It’s the belief that they are important and worthwhile. It sets the standard for what is worth acquiring, and what is worth pursuing.

By increasing your social value, more than one woman will notice you. When this happens, you can swing the leverage in your favor. You’ll finally be in charge of selecting women, instead of waiting around to be selected by them.

Thing about scenario – if three different women liked you at the same time, wouldn’t that be ideal for you? You would be able to date all three of these women simultaneously. After two or three dates with each woman, you’ll know exactly which woman is the best fit for you. “But Emyli, isn’t this called cheating, or being a scumbag?”

Guys, here’s the thing: you are not cheating on these women. You are simply “MegaDating.”

Megadating is the process of dating multiple women at the same time, in order to ensure that you reach your dating goals. You have a much better chance at finding “The One”, or “A Long Term Girlfriend“, if you see and feel the differences with a variety of women.

Now let’s get to the 4 steps you can take to land yourself a hot girlfriend. Watch video #1 for the first two steps. Then scroll down for the remaining videos and steps:

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#1 Be in High Demand

My clients always ask me how to get a hot girlfriend. The first thing I reply with is “are you in high demand?” Being in high demand means you must not not always be available when she asks you for your time.

High value men are busy, and their time is valuable. Even if you aren’t super busy, think about how she will feel when you tell her “I’m buried doing a few things right now, how about getting together on Thursday at 7pm (2 days later)?”

She might feel “slightly rejected” for a second, but then she’ll subconsciously be more attracted to you. She might wonder if you are dating another girl. This instantly increases your value.

#2 Appear Scarce

As stated by best-selling author Robert Green in his book The 48 laws of Power: “One must use absence in order to increase honor and respect. For an item to have value there has to be a certain element of scarcity. It cannot be too abundant.”

The same is true in dating. You never want the woman you just started dating to know where you’ll be at all times of the day. You want her to view you as mysterious and interesting, not typical or routine.

For example, if she sends you consistent “good night” text messages, you want to infrequently respond to her messages. Sometimes you should respond right away, often times you should respond one hour later, and other times respond to her the next morning.

Next, watch video #2 (and read below) for learn why it’s important to eliminate sex when trying to lock in that hot girlfriend.

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#3 Eliminate Sex

This is one of my favorite tips when teaching single guys how to get a hot girlfriend. This is super important ya’ll. You need to start applying scarcity to intimate relations.

If the hot girl you want to make your girlfriend starts pulling away, or not giving you exactly what you need- you must eliminate sex immediately. Flip the script on her, and do it right away.

The trick is to give her room to reach her own conclusions about why you’re no longer intimate with her. In doing this, she will begin to question her own value- subsequently increasing yours in relativity.

Her vanity will dissuade her from broaching the subject, and her ego will act out in ways that command your attention and validation. When you deny her validation, which you previously gave so freely, she will search her imagination for reasons why she’s lost your favor. Then, she’ll try her best to win it back.

During this period you want to entice her with sporadic, yet limited displays of approval to get to give her hope. But do not sleep with her until she’s made the decision to commit to you.

When she finally does ask you why you’re not interested in having sex anymore- don’t tell her that it’s because you like her so much, and that you just want to be with her and nobody else.

Doing this will make you appear highly submissive and will lower your relative value to hers. Instead, you must increase your relative value by transforming her perception of sleeping with you.

Sleeping with you is now a prize, and you are no longer a sport for her or any woman. You’ve had a change of heart.

Now you’ve made her feel that sleeping around isn’t something that fulfills you any longer, and you’re currently looking for a woman that you can bring home to meet the folks.

If you want to seem even more mysterious, add in a spiritual element. For example, you might say:

“I’m taking some time off from sex to do some soul-searching. I’m looking for something deeper and more fulfilling.”

Being vague or offering a spiritual reason for withholding sex allows her the freedom to make her own assessments about your current state.

Guys rarely deny sex, which will make her question her own value and reassess yours. The spiritual component makes you seem mysterious, deep, and interesting – all things that hot women love.

Next, watch video #3 (and read below) for learn why it’s important to occupy your time when trying to lock in that hot girlfriend.

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#4 Occupy Your Time

Another tip I tell my clients (when they ask about how to get a hot girlfriend) is always stay busy. Be real about it- actually be busy doing things that are interesting and exciting.

World-renowned pickup artist and author of The Mystery Method states that “women are searching for a man whose reality is more fun and valuable than their own. You must be congruent with the value that you have to offer. It must be apparent, revealed through a series of distinct demonstrations of high social value.”

The more you fill your life with interesting events, activities, and people- the more valuable you become to everyone. And I’m not just talking about the woman you’re trying to impress. For ideas on how to occupy your time better, read up on my Where to Meet Women Other Than Bars article.

But when she does text you at 2 a.m. you won’t be able to respond to her booty call, because you’ll be out somewhere having the time of your life.

Let her wonder about what you’re doing and what a great time you’re having. So when you finally get around to calling her to plan a date, you’ll be able to easily demonstrate your value by having only one day open for her.

Naturally you’ll become more interesting to her because you’ll be less available. You’ll be able to talk about intriguing things to talk about, and won’t be subconsciously acting needy because you won’t need her at all.

This reverses the dynamic and makes her begin to feel that she needs you. A great way to occupy your time is to date a lot, and I call this MegaDating. Megadating diffuses your energy so you aren’t obsessing over just this one girl. It allows you to practice your dating skills on other women, which ultimately improves your confidence.

You should also try to work out as much as possible. Exercise increases testosterone, which is incredibly attractive to women. This naturally boosts self-confidence.

Was this article helpful in answering your question of how to get a hot girlfriend? I hope so.

If you are still struggling to lock down your next girlfriend, I can help you devise a strategy with a 1-on-1 coaching session. If you are interested, head on over to my calendar and book a new client Skype coaching session with me. During our call I’ll listen to your current dating challenges, and make a strategy for you to implement right away.

With Love,