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how to become boyfriend material

Boyfriend material. That illusive “it” factor that every guy who’s met the girl of his dreams wants to be. Are you looking for ways to show her you’ve got it? Have you been MegaDating for a while? Does it feel like you’re getting close to the end of your dating journey? Have you met the woman you’d like to turn into your girlfriend?

Navigating the transition from dating to a committed, monogamous relationship can be … Keep Reading

i want a real relationship

If you date regularly but still find yourself thinking, “I want a real relationship,” then I’d say either one of two things is happening: You attract women who won’t commit to you, or you can’t commit to them.

So which is it? Below, we’ll take a look at some possibilities, as well as explore ways you can find a woman who best fits into your life. 

Scenario #1: I Want a Real Relationship but

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why did she ask for a break

Taking a break is relationship limbo.

You don’t quite know in which direction the relationship is going. All that’s for certain is uncertainty. Just because she’s putting the breaks on your relationship doesn’t mean she wants it to end. Before grabbing a bucket of Ben & Jerry’s and binging cheesy 90s flicks, let’s try to answer the question of, “why did she ask for a break?”

Understanding her reasoning will shed light on the trajectory … Keep Reading

second date questions to ask a girl

You had a great first date, and now you’ve made arrangements for a second date. Congrats! 

The second date is a great time to go a little deeper with the woman you’re dating. By building on the conversations you had during the first date, you can strengthen your bond and escalate sexual tension. In this article, I’m going to provide you with several strategic second date questions to ask on your dates. The questions are Keep Reading

nyc matchmaker

Matchmaking has been around since the Old Testament.

In Genesis, Abraham’s servant, Elizier, selects a bride for Abraham’s son by putting eligible young women through the “camel test.” Of the women that draw water from the well Elizier and his camels are loitering at, only one woman, Rebekah, gives a portion of the water she fetched to Elizier and his ten camels.

Biblical servants weren’t the only people of antiquity to lean on matchmakers. … Keep Reading

date coaches

There are a lot of dating coach myths out there, and today I want to set the record straight. People who hire dating coaches are rarely the type of men you’d expect them to be. For instance, most people think guys that hire a dating coach are nerdy, ugly or pathetic, but that couldn’t be further from the truth.

A-Players Hire Dating Coaches

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She won’t give me a second chance

“She won’t give me a second chance, what did I do wrong? Well, let’s set the scene.

You’ve gone on two dates with the girl you eyed reading Sapiens in your city’s local park. You’re enamored, there’s no doubt. But when you go to ask her out on a third date she refuses. It’s puzzling really. She checks all your boxes and you thought you checked hers.

To figure out what went wrong we’ll need … Keep Reading

should i hire a matchmaker

A matchmaker is the IRL version of Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge. Did you just cringe? I thought so. At first glance, hiring a matchmaker sounds like the right choice. Instead of having to treat meeting women like a second job, someone undertakes the task for you. This frees up time and avoids awkward situations while leaving you comfortably ensconced in your daily routines. Sounds kind of cozy doesn’t it? That’s the problem. … Keep Reading