She’s Backing Away From Me After We’ve Been Dating. What to do?
So she’s backing away from you and you don’t know why.
Everything fledgling relationship — whether you met on Tinder or not — is nothing more than ember.
As ember, your relationship is always a few steps away from being smothered.
Now there are a million reasons a nascent flame could sputter out. She could have begun talking to her ex again, smelled garlic on your breath throughout the entirety of your third date, or just prefers watching World War II In Color rather than going to the bar with you.
I’m not here to speculate on why she’s backing away from you, rather, I’m here to help you figure out what your next plan of attack is.
That flame you’ve been trying so hard to keep alight is on its last embers.
Luckily I’ve put together a plan of action that will help give you clarity on your relationship.
“She’s Backing Away From Me, What Now?”
Here’s the context.
You’ve been dating Olivia for a while now.
You’ve gone on at least three dates and things are starting to get serious.
Then all of a sudden she’s doesn’t answer your texts as often. She starts rejecting your overtures more often and suddenly has to see her parents way more often than she used to.
She’s slowly beginning to distance herself from you but has yet to outright tell you that she isn’t interested.
It’s with this dynamic in mind that I’ll create for you a plan of action.
Here’s step one.
1) Don’t Text
If you decide to text instead of calling or talking in person you might as well throw out the rest of this plan.
Texting is what your 12-year-old self did when you were too awkward to talk to girls in person.
Look texting is about as useful a means of communication is as sending a carrier pigeon in a hail storm.
There are too many crucial nuances that get left out when texting. Tone, non-verbal cues, and time constraints all combine to create the perfect storm of miscommunication. When it comes to broaching a serious topic such as your relationship and having an in-depth discussion about it, it’s best to do so in person.
2) Go Old-School – Leave Her A Voicemail
Voicemails and audio messages both do the trick here.
Your goal is to illustrate how much you care about her. Do this by getting personal and sending her an audio message or by calling her.
Don’t know what to say? No worries, I wrote you a script.