I Miss My Ex Girlfriend Every Day, What Should I Do?
Anyone that’s ever experienced a breakup (so literally everyone) often compares the feeling of missing their ex to going through withdrawal. We’ve all heard the analogies before. While we might be tired of the cliche, in every romantic cliche about unrequited love we find more than a grain of truth. A breakup is like having […]
I Pushed Her Away and Now She Moved On. What Now?
So you found the woman you want to be with, but it didn’t work out. Maybe you had a fight. Words were exchanged. House keys were given back. Now she’s with someone else. You could definitely blame her for being “crazy” or say you “weren’t into her” (and let’s be honest, that’s your official story). […]
7 Signs She’s Having Sex With Another Guy
Before you have a public breakdown or confront her in the middle of the street, there’s something you should know. Humans aren’t monogamous. Not only are we not monogamous, but shacking up with a single person for the entirety of one’s life is quite unpopular within the animal kingdom. Of about 5,000 mammals, just 3-5% […]
Why Did She Leave Me?
Breakups and rejections are never easy, whether someone leaves you after you have been dating for more than a year, a few months, or even if you’ve only just started seeing somebody you really like. Along with advising my clients on how to find success in the dating world, I also have plenty of men […]
Can You Be Friends with an Ex-Girlfriend?
Are you in a relationship but still feel like chatting with someone you used to date? It’s not uncommon. Lots of men I talk to end up in this predicament. Often, they ask me: Can I be friends with an ex girlfriend? Would it hurt my current relationship? My answer to that: It depends. I’ve […]
She Rejected Me But Still Acts Interested. What Should I Do?
You’re thinking to yourself “She rejected me but still acts interested.” What a situation, right? Guys, it’s true that there are innumerable fish in the sea. Some are blue, some build sandcastles to attract mates, and some can never be forgotten. After vomiting out how you’re obsessed with this woman, your buddies invariably tell you […]
Who Gets The Dog After a Breakup?
When it comes to the furniture, that’s easy, you never were a fan of pastel polka dots on your couch anyways. As for the records, well you both know who the Celine Dion records belong to. The house is now finally clearing out. The dishes have been divvied up, you left her the mattress, and […]
6 Tips for Living with Your Ex and Dating Other Women
Just because a romantic relationship dies, doesn’t mean other relationships don’t live on. In the pre-adult days, you’d typically break up with someone and then never speak to them again. But as age and the strength of the relationship increase, ties become more difficult to cut. Despite having just ended a romantic relationship, you may […]
Can’t Let Go of Your Ex? Here Are 5 Adult Ways of Handling It
Can’t let go of your ex? Yes, breakups hurt… literally. Love doctors (read: neuroscientists) have found that regions of the brain that are activated in response to physical pain also become activated when broken up with. Not only this, but all those feel-good hormones like dopamine and serotonin that were being manufactured day and night […]
She Told Me She’s Afraid of Commitment. What Is She Really Thinking?
It’s not you, it’s me. This rejection refrain has been etched into the psyche of unrequited lovers far and wide. But what does it really mean when she says, “it’s me.” Sex, marriage, and birthrate are all on the decline in America. When she says “it’s me” she may be referring to cultural reasons why […]