How to Get Women to Message you Back From Online Dating Sites (Part2)

It’s Emyli, America’s dating coach for men. You’re watching EmLovzTV, the place to be if you’re looking to meet and attract beautiful women. So, you are looking for online dating messages that get responses? You came to the right place!

In this segment of EmLovzTV, you’re going to learn 3 more simple rules that improve your response rate from women online by 35-50% (PART 2).

Why is this important? Because the point of online dating is to go on a date, not to sit behind a computer and avoid actually socializing with other humans.

The only way to do this is to increase the odds that women you message respond to you. So how do you do it?

On Part 1 (start here) of our 3 part online dating series we covered:

#1: How to Find Commonality & Relate Through Shared Interests
#2: How to Trip Her Emotional Triggers
#3: How to Mega Message

Online Dating Messages That Get Responses

A little refresher: Mega-Messaging is the process of messaging many women at the same time with the goal of soon thereafter Megadating. Mega dating is the process of going out with many women in a short period of time to diffuse your energy and increase your self-confidence. By always having a variety to choose from, you learn to decipher the strengths and weaknesses of each, rather than glorifying one woman and ignoring her flaws to fit your skewed reality.

When you date multiple women, you don’t try to sell yourself by telling her how great you are because you’re no longer desperate. You don’t have as much riding on the outcome of any one date so you relax and become more natural. You stop being afraid to tell her how you really feel because you don’t need to impress her to get laid.

This week we’re going to dig a little deeper with the following 3 rules:

#4 Bait Her Interest with Partial Information

End your first sentence abruptly to stimulate her interest enough to click on your full message. If she clicks, you’ve won half the battle. She will wonder if she wasn’t important enough for you to finish your thought. Trick or not, guys used this tactic on me during my 100 date experiment- and it worked.

#5: Take a Risk

Take a risk and say something controversial. Being different from the your competition (other men) can be the reason she clicks on your message instead of the other guys. Don’t be afraid to say something unexpected, she’ll welcome the change of pace.  An example of this would be if you read on her profile that she loves deep dish pizza. You could email her and tell her that you love New York Style thin crust pizza and give her three reasons why.

#6: Challenge Her

Only give her a little bit of you at a time. Engage her desire–she wants to wonder about you. Replace her natural resistance with curiosity. 95% of the messages in her inbox are compliments about how attractive she is or how cool she seems on her profile. Stand out by challenging her to a little competition, even if it’s just a small, made-up one.

Make it relevant to something on her profile and that the two of you share in common. This will allow her to drop her resistance more rapidly as she will have to prove herself by being “up to your challenge.” This will also develop an instant sort of camaraderie between the two of you as it will give you a kind of inside joke or shared activity.

Enough text….check out my video for further information..

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Ready for more…Click to go to Part 3 of “How to Increase Response from Women Online by 35-50%.

(But don’t forget to download my Mega Message template below first)

As promised, I’m going to give you the EmLovz Online Message Template so you can try Mega-Messaging for yourself the easy way. Why….because you are looking for online dating messages that get responses silly!

All you have to do is follow the simple step-by-step instructions I’ve laid out in the template here: Sign up here to get The Mega Messaging Template.

And before you go, be sure to check out my top 10 online dating tips for men.

Wanna Speed Up Your Dating Success?

Want some 1-on-1 help from me? I love working with smart, hardworking men looking to become more successful at online dating. If that sounds like you, then head over to my online dating profile services page to see how I can help you.

If you need help securing more first dates, click here for the best dating sites for men (for relationship minded guys) or check out my list of free dating sites and apps.

I want to hear from you, how your experience went and how many more responses you received after using the EmLovz Mega-Messaging method! Share your experience below in the comments section of this blog and let me know what other questions you have about Mega-Messaging or Mega-Dating. Did my template help you create online dating messages that get responses….or more responses?

Thanks so much for watching EmLovzTV and keep up the good work because you deserve the perfect woman.

With Love,