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How to Get Women to Message You Back from Online Dating Sites (Part 3)

How to Get Women to Message You Back from Online Dating Sites (Part 3)

Hey guys, its Emyli, America’s dating coach for men….. and you’re watching EmLovzTV, the place to be if you’re looking to meet and attract beautiful women. So are you still wondering how to message a girl on dating sites? 

In this segment of EmLovzTV, you’re going to learn the final 3 simple rules that improve your response rate from women online by 35-50%.

Why is this important? Because the point of online dating is to go on a date, not to sit behind a computer and avoid actually socializing with other humans. So you gotta learn how to message a girl first, right? Of course. 



The only way to do this is to increase the odds that women you message respond to you. So how do you do it?

On Part 1 (go back and start here first) of this three part series we covered:

#1: Find Commonality & Relate Through Shared Interests
#2: Trip Her Emotional Triggers
#3: Mega Message

On Part 2 (then go here next) of this three part series we covered:

#4: Bait Her Interest with Partial Information
#5: Ask a Question that Plays on Her Interests
#6: Challenge Her

How to Message a Girl Online

A little refresher: Mega-Messaging is the process of messaging many women at the same time with the goal of soon thereafter Mega-Dating. Mega dating is the process of going out with many women in a short period of time to diffuse your energy and increase your self-confidence. By always having a variety to choose from, you learn to decipher the strengths and weaknesses of each, rather than glorifying one woman and ignoring her flaws to fit your skewed reality.

When you date multiple women, you don’t try to sell yourself by telling her how great you are because you’re no longer desperate. You don’t have as much riding on the outcome of any one date so you relax and become more natural. You stop being afraid to tell her how you really feel because you don’t need to impress her to get laid. 

This week we’re going to dig a little deeper with the final 3 rules:

 

#7: Never Underestimate the Power of Words

Word placement and delivery have a big impact on how she feels about you so be sure to use them well and put some thought in. Make her wonder about the meaning of your words. Use the words “we” a lot to demonstrate that you have something in common and to gain her instant trust.

 



#8: Incite a Call to Action

No one wants to spend 10 hours online having conversation after conversation until they finally meet. A real man must know how to seal down a time, date, and location within his first message (a TDL). Set the stage by sharing an idea you have for where you’re going to take her on a date and state it definitively. A woman does not want to be asked where she would like to go on a date, she wants a man who has the balls to make decisions and who doesn’t fear rejection. Your message should require her to take some type of action immediately or she’ll quickly lose focus and move on to the next guy who can command and hold her attention.

 

#9: Compare Her to a Celebrity or Role Model

Stop complimenting her, being hot is not a pre-requisite for respect (or disrespect). Instead, tell her she’s “got an Anne Hathaway thing going on” or a “Gwen Stefani voice” but don’t say whether that’s a good thing or a bad thing. She’ll be caught off balance because she won’t know whether you are complimenting or comparing her with someone you don’t like. Also, if you’re specifically vague, giving her the name of the celebrity but not explaining why you think she seems similar, she’ll start to wonder what your angle is, becoming more receptive to you rather than taking on her usual position of judgment and resistance.

 

As you know, now it’s time to check out my video and then check out my mega-messaging template below! 

 

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As promised, I’m going to give you the EmLovz Online Message Template so you can try Mega-Messaging for yourself the easy way. It’s an easy solution to learning how to message a girl. 

All you have to do is follow the simple step-by-step instructions I’ve laid out in the Template below.

Sign up here to get The Mega Message Template.

I want to hear from you, how your experience went and how many more responses you received after using the EmLovz Mega-Messaging method! Share your experience below in the comments section of this blog and let me know what other questions you have about Mega-Messaging, Mega-Dating, or how to message a girl online. 



If all of this is super stressful for you, I’m happy to show you the way. Check out my online dating profile services to see how I can help. 

Thanks so much for watching EmLovzTV and keep up the good work because you deserve the perfect woman.

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