The Best St. Paul Dating Coach for Men Looking for Love

If you live in St. Paul you know how awesome a city it is.

It boasts the best urban parks in the world, the best state fair in the Midwest, enough breweries to sate even the most refined palate, and some of the nicest people you’ll ever meet.

Yeah, St. Paul’s not a bad place to live… but it could be even better.

It’d be better if you had someone to share an ear of sweet corn with at the state fair or a lovely lady to share a canoe with as you make your way down the Mississippi River.

Life just tastes sweeter when you have a romantic partner to share it with.

But don’t worry, meeting and courting women in Saint Paul is easy — well at least it is now.

St. Paul Dating Coach

If you’re going to be single in the states why not be single in the 37th-best city for singles?

37 seems pretty random, but it’s where St. Paul ranks according to WalletHub’s list of the best cities for singles. The city is affordable enough and has plenty of dating opportunities, and entertainment options.

It also helps that the city has a median age of 33 (the US median age is 38) and has 10,000 more female than male residents.

What all this means is that you’ll have plenty of opportunities to meet the woman of your dreams.

But to turn that dream girl into reality you may need a little help.

That’s where emlovz comes in.

emlovz

emlovz is your very own Saint Paul dating coach.

To be clear emlovz isn’t just one person but a squad of coaches to help you refine your dating skills and find a super-compatible partner in record time.

When you team up with emlovz you’re teaming up with the following coaches:

Emyli – co-founder, creator of the course curriculum, and leads weekly strategy calls
Tom – co-founder and leads the Man Cave, a biweekly event where men come together to talk wins and losses and bond with fellow students
Tilly – Want to improve your sex life? Consult with Tilly, your new sex coach
Audrey, Brooke, and Cat – Want to go on a practice date and be provided feedback before going on a real one?
Aundrea – Start eating and exercising right with your new award-winning fitness instructor
Hailey – Don’t know what to wear? That’s fine, let Hailey help you out.
Mia – Dating is as much an offline act as it is an online one. Let Mia help you pimp out your SM profiles

But you won’t just have a couple legions of coaches to help refine your dating skills, you’ll also have a community to blow wind into your sails.

We realize that dating can be lonely and full of losses.

That’s why we’ve brought together our male students to create a supportive community. When you join our program, Dating Decoded you join a community of like-minded men all working towards the same goal — finding a lifelong partner.

When you join you’ll have a chance to be paired with an accountability partner or pod who will support you and make sure you’re hitting your goals. You’ll also meet other men who understand where you’re at in your life. You’ll make friends both online and offline as many of our students meet up in person to either chat, bond or meet women.

Here’s one of our students to tell you a bit more about how their romantic life has changed since enrolling.

MegaDating

Our entire program is inspired by the dating practice called MegaDating.

Allow me to take a guess, but in the past you typically date one woman before dating another. You’ll go on a few dates then wait a while before dating another woman.

MegaDating is the opposite of that.

It’s a proactive dating approach that encourages and shows men how to date various women at the same time. That means going on a date Tuesday, Friday, and Sunday all with different women.

To meet the most compatible women for you in Saint Paul you’re going to have to get out there and get dating.

Dating around like this may sound sleazy, but the point of it isn’t to become a libertine. The objective is to find a partner ASAP. We realize that our students are tired of waiting around. MegaDating is basically a slower version of speed dating. In record time you’ll be able to find your ideal partner.

You just need to know what you’re doing.

We can help with that.

The Perfect Profile

The bulk of your learning will take place via the online curriculum, private student community and twice-a-week live coaching sessions.

It’s via these three learning pathways that you’ll learn everything you want to know about dating both off and online.

That being said we do place a special emphasis on online dating.

Don’t get me wrong we teach students how to meet and court women IRL, how to have amazing conversations, ask them out, increase sexual tension, and dozens of other aspects of IRL dating.

However, to meet the number of women you need in order to efficiently MegaDate you’ll have to leverage online dating apps like Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble.

You don’t have the time to meet women at the cafe, via speed dating IRL, through friends, at work, etc. in order to score three new dates a week.

Online dating however is quick, simple, easy, convenient, and FAST.

Within your phone you have access to a number of 24/7 singles bars. In the space of minutes, you can start matching with women IF you know what you’re doing.

Online dating is incredibly superficial.

That means if you don’t post the right photos she won’t swipe right — it’s that simple.

We help men take the right photos, pick the ideal background, teach them what to wear, and help them choose the right ones. So what are the right photos?

Not only do we have research to guide you and coaches to provide nuanced feedback but we also have access to a tool that allows women to rate your photos. Once you’ve received feedback from real and anonymous women you’ll have an accurate idea of how your photos are performing.

MegaMessaging + TDL

After you’ve optimized your profile you’re bound to start racking up matches.

But a match isn’t a date.

A match is potential and nothing more, it’s a virtual wink from across the room. To capitalize on a match you need to strike up a conversation.

In Dating Decoded you’ll learn how to send the perfect opening message, have an amazing online conversation, and ask her out online.

Learning how to chat her up online is vital.

Realize that she has dozens of matches and messages waiting for her every time she opens her dating apps.

She doesn’t have enough time to respond to everyone. She’ll only respond to the best of the best.

That means you’ll have to send her a kick-ass message — so not one of these.

We’ll walk you through the ABCs of opening messages and teach you how to steer a conversation toward a TDL.

TDL stands for time, date, and location.

When asking her out you’ll need to specify the TDL. Simply asking a woman, hey want to go out sometime? doesn’t cut it.

You need to shoot her a concrete date request.

Dating Blueprint

Now it’s time to finally go on a date.

But not any date will do.

If you’re MegaDating there are rules for the first, second, and third date that you’ll need to follow.

First dates should last no longer than an hour. They should also be cheaper than $20. If you’re dating 2-3 women every week you won’t want to spend the time or money on strangers. You could have an amazing connection on a first date, or it could be a total bust. Never sign up for a 4-hour date that costs $150 with a stranger. You might regret it as soon as you hear her voice. Also, make sure dates involve an activity she likes, take place close to her work or home, and happen during the day.

Second dates should be active and free. Free to filter out women that just want to date you for a free meal and active because active dates are just more fun. Saint Paul is full of amazing outdoor options from kayaking to biking to taking a stroll downtown and checking out the street art.

Third dates are reserved for that special someone. Few women will make it this far. If she does, make sure it’s a night to remember. Take her out for an amazing meal, a show, a romantic walk by the beach, etc.