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4-ish Dating App Bio Tips For Guys Who Want to Attract Sex-Positive Women

4-ish Dating App Bio Tips For Guys Who Want to Attract Sex-Positive Women

If you’re one of the millions of American men that didn’t have sex last year, you’re not probably lamenting about how difficult it is to find someone to shag.

It is difficult.

Just ask the 1 in 3 men ages 18-24 that didn’t have sex in 2020. Granted, there was a pandemic, but these bedroom woes started long before the pandemic.



29% of men between the ages of 18-30 reported not having sex in 2018. That’s right, single men were struggling long before the cock-block that is COVID-19 came around.

For a multitude of reasons, men are having less sex.

It’s this struggle that has led many a man to ask how they can attract more sex-positive women. Being that we’re still in the midst of a pandemic and that finding a specific type of woman is just easier online, we’ll address this concern by offering up dating app bio tips for guys centered around attracting sex-positive ladies.

Dating App Bio Tips for Guys Who Want to Date Sex Positive Women

Keyword Matching

I think it’s pretty safe to say that dating apps do a pretty crap job of playing the role of matchmaker.

Why do I say this?

Well for one, just 50% of Tinder users have ever gone out with a match.

For an app that purposes to find singles dates, that’s a pretty bad rate.

That being said the app isn’t all to blame. Some people have no idea how to use it.

No doubt you’ve swiped past your share of women that have left their bios completely blank. How are you supposed to connect with a woman or open with a quality conversation starter when you’ve got little if anything to go off of? But that’s beside the point.

What you need to know is that keywords can be used to attract compatible women.

But how?



Ya see, Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and the like use keywords to pair users with each other.

If you’re looking to meet sexually explorative women on Tinder, why write in your bio that “I’m looking to meet someone that is just as happy to binge-watch The Office as they are to dance salsa”?

You’ll need to cast a line in the ocean that is Tinder using a very specific type of bait.

Your goal isn’t to cast a wide net.

While women are just as horny as men, few will admit it on their dating profile. If you’re serious about meeting up with a sex-positive woman, you’ll need to use specific keywords that will attract only a certain type of woman.

Use Keywords Related To Sex

I’m afraid that you just read, sexually vomit onto your Tinder account.

That’s not what I said.

To attract a woman for getting frisky sooner rather than later you’ll need to be meticulous in choosing sex-related words.

Naming all the holes you’re willing to explore isn’t the best way to attract women. Try being more subtle.

Try using keywords such as tantra, sex-positive, open relationship, dom, sub, polyamorous, sensual, ect.

Be careful not to scare women away by writing that you want to be her daddy (although this will attract a very specific type of woman if that’s what you really want).

You can also write about certain sex-positive books such as Sex At Dawn or The Ethical Slut.

An example of how to seamlessly slot these books into your profile would look like this:



“Last Book Read: Sex At Dawn”

You can do the same for movies or TV shows that are sex forward.

If you’re having trouble seamlessly adding keywords associated with sex on your profile, try slotting them into bio prompts. Bumble and Hinge in particular will offer a variety of prompts that will make it easy to include these keywords on your profile.

Even if the dating app’s algorithm doesn’t put your profile in front of someone else that has the same keyword when compatible people read your profile they’re bound to be more likely to swipe right.

Never Be Boring

It’s more than likely that boring is why you’re here.

Boring is the reason you get two matches every month.

Boring is why those matches never message back.

But before boring can be the death of you, let’s revamp your profile.

Whatever you do, avoid being boring.

I mention this 5 times because it’s one of the most important dating app bio tips for guys who are looking for sensual ladies.

Force a user to interact with your profile. Force them to read it and have an opinion about you.



You can force their hand by peppering your profile with evocative images and keywords.

Your goal isn’t to cast a wide net. This is what vague profiles do.

Vague and/or safe profiles are either empty or cliche.

How often do you come across a profile of a user that’s mentioned tacos and The Office in the same sentence.

Literally, everyone likes tacos and The Office in the same way that most everyone has two arms and two legs. Stating the obvious isn’t setting you apart from anyone.

Trying to win everyone over will lead to few likes.

Instead, be polarizing.

Talk about the things you like to do, the music you listen to, and what an ideal Friday night looks like to you.

Your job is to stand out on an app dominated by men. And no I’m not signaling out Tinder, just about every dating app is heavily dominated by single men.

Put effort into creating a profile that attracts a specific type of woman. That’s your goal.

It isn’t to stack matches of women you’re not into so you can feel good about yourself. Your goal is to attract women that you’re genuinely interested in.

The First Message

Now that your profile has been crafted with precision you’re probably racking up the matches.

Though as you know, being matched up with a compatible woman doesn’t mean you’ll ultimately meet her in the real world.



There’s quite a bit that can go wrong between scoring the match and scoring the first date.

The first step towards meeting IRL is the opening message.

Being that this relationship is in its early stages, even one misstep can mean being ghosted.

This means that a quality first message is paramount.

Most single men will send a cliche, “hey” or “hey beautiful” — these don’t work.

Again, it’s on you to stand out. Luckily you already have a mutual connection that will pique her interest.

You two were placed in front of each other in the endless Tinder card queue because of your mutual connection.

There’s something in your profile that you two have in common.

Perhaps it was the last book or movie you saw or the fact that you both are in open relationships. Whatever it is, be sure to find it and broach it in your very first message. Doing so will immediately endear you to her.

The TDL

After you two have exchanged a few messages and are vibing, it’s time to transition your relationship to the real world. You’ll want to do this as soon as possible. It’s easy to be complacent and keep chatting forever, but this isn’t what you’re here for.

Once you two are getting on and you’ve learned enough about what she’s into, ask her out on a first date.

Whether on the app or after you’ve gotten her phone number, use a TDL to set up the initial date.

A TDL stands for time, date, location.



Using it increases the odds that she’ll say yes.

Ya see, there are plenty of guys that message a woman saying nothing more than, “hey, we should go out sometime.”

That’s not a real request to go out.

The date activity hasn’t been specified, nor the time or location. Even if she agreed to the vague date request above, you two will never meet because the TDL has never been specified.

Use a TDL when asking her out.

Make sure the TDL is related to what she’s into. If you two are sensual people, perhaps you go for a hike, rock climb, run, bike, or some other physical activity with the intention of segueing into something more intimate if the date has gone well.

Whatever you do, make sure that the TDL is convenient for her (not too far away from her place or at a weird time of the day) and interesting enough that she has to say yes.

Also make sure the first date lasts no longer than an hour (unless things are going verrry well) and that no more than $10 is spent. This ensures that you’ll have plenty of time and money to spend on your next date and that you won’t get date fatigue.

What Now?

Now it’s time to apply these dating app bio tips for guys and get swiping.

If you’re still a bit perplexed about what your next move is, don’t worry, just phone a friend (and by friend I mean me or one of my other coaches).

As a professional dating coach & matchmaker, I’ve helped dozens of men accomplish their romantic goals.

If you want to meet sex-positive women, cool, I can show you how to do that.



Book a 1-on-1 New Client Zoom call with us today so we can begin to discuss your goals, help you create a strategy, and determine if our coaching and/or matchmaking services are right for you.

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