Here at EmLovz, I work with clients from all walks of life. Throughout the years, I’ve learned a lot from my Jewish male clients, which is why I wanted to create an article on dating tips for Jewish guys.
Many Jewish parents want to keep their rich culture alive. For that reason, they often urge their children to date within the Jewish community.
Although it’s great to have a niche when it comes to romance, dating exclusively within your community can feel limiting. Moreover, navigating your way through dating sites and apps like Tinder, Bumble and OkCupid can seem frustrating.
Conflict of Interest
Often times, people swipe right without using an Eagle eye on your profile. You end up matching with people whose values are out of alignment with your own. After a few lines of banter, you realize that the woman either:
- Doesn’t share your cultural or religious views
- Has spiritual or religious views that completely contradict your own
Lucky for you, I have some expert dating tips for Jewish guys that will provide you with plenty of dating options within your own culture. I’ll also provide some tips on optimizing your success so that you can deepen connections with the people you meet and find the woman of your dreams!
Dating Tips for Jewish Guys #1: Attend Jewish-Sponsored Events
A simple Google search can offer you a ton of options when it comes to finding Jewish sponsored events — dating or otherwise. You can also look up events on websites like Eventbrite.com or join Jewish groups on Meetup.com.
Tip #2: Late Night Shabbat
Give thanks, observe and celebrate with great food by attending a late night Shabbat event. Again, you can find tons of events near you via Google and websites like Eventbrite and Meetup.
Tip #3: Go to Temple
It may seem strange to go to the temple in order to pick up women. You don’t want to come off as one of those guys from Wedding Crashers. But hear me out.
Going to Temple is a great way to connect with your faith and enhance spiritual wellness. And if your Jewish faith is important to you, what better place to meet someone who shares your values? Introduce yourself to people who are interesting. The following can increase your chances of success:
- Going to Temple each week so you get a feel for the people who go routinely
- Practice good eye contact and smile at women you find attractive before introducing yourself
Tip #4: Jewish Meetups on Meetup.com
I touched on this in some of the previous tips but let’s delve a little bit deeper. I always recommend Meetup.com, whether I’m dolling out dating tips for Jewish guys or anyone else looking for love.
Find Jewish Meetups that are meaningful to you. Make it your goal to have three meaningful conversations with women at each event. Don’t put pressure on yourself. Consider this practice and you’ll notice that, as you continually put yourself out there, your anxiety will become less and less and your approach will be finessed.
Remember that a lot of people who join Meetup groups are looking to put themselves out there and often are a bit introverted as well.
In fact, in my experience, I’ve noticed that certain people use Meetup as a way to work on combatting social anxiety. It’s an easy and pressure-free way to work on your social skills and meet some potential friends and dates along the way.
If social anxiety is something you struggle with, you’re not alone. Check out my article, How to Meet Your Dream Girl By Limiting Social Anxiety for more information.
Tip #5: Try Out Jewish Dating Sites and Apps
You may not realize that there is a bevy of dating sites and apps created specifically for Jewish culture. Some of these offer their own dating tips for Jewish guys as well. Many of these are geared toward marriage-minded singles.
Learn more by checking out my article, Best Jewish Dating Sites and Apps.
Tip #6: Try a Jewish Matchmaker
If you’re trying to get set up by a matchmaker, look for one who specializes in Jewish matchmaking. And/or…
Tip #7: Hire a Dating Coach Who’s Worked with Jewish Clients
You can also hire a dating coach who’s worked with plenty of Jewish clients — like me!
Benefits of Hiring Me as Your Dating Coach
During my 100-date experiment, I gained a wealth of knowledge on all the intricacies of the dating world. I learned what worked and what didn’t. Throughout the experiment, I not only discovered a lot about the people around me — I learned about myself and grew into the person I wanted to be. This led me to a long-term, compatible partner. Years later, my boyfriend and I are still going strong.
And since my experiment, I’ve continued to educate myself on all aspects of dating. I use my knowledge and expertise to help men (just like you) increase their confidence and find lasting love.
Some of the benefits of hiring me as a dating coach include:
- Accountability: You don’t have to rely on your willpower as the sole source when it comes to continually putting yourself out there in the dating world. I will hold you accountable, and accountability is a big predictor of success.
- Reach your goals faster: Together, we will create an individualized action plan to help you overcome your dating roadblocks and crush your goals.
- Support when dating gets rough: With me as your dating coach, you will have the benefit of seeing the dating world through an entirely different lens. And — after years of experience and seeing tons of success stories — I can promise you that dating truly can be fun. Lots of fun, in fact!
- Insight into what women are thinking and what they REALLY want: When you hire a female dating coach like me, you will get a firsthand look at what a woman wants, what she is thinking and why women do the things they do.
- You won’t make the same mistakes that everyone else is making: I’m here to give you a major edge over the competition. As a dating coach, I have vast experience with the trial-and-error aspects of dating, has seen what works and what doesn’t, and has a shrewd knowledge about how to avoid common and subtle mistakes
- Proven success: You’ll know that you’re in good hands when it comes to hiring a dating coach like me because my methods have proven to be successful. You can check out some testimonials from previous clients at the bottom of the EmLovz homepage.
Ready to Get Started?
Head over to my calendar and book a 1-on-1 Skype session with me today. During our new client session, we’ll create a plan that is tailored specifically to your needs and personality, so that you can start attracting the high-quality, gorgeous woman of your dreams!
Tip #8: Join Jewish City Clubs and Groups
Along with looking up events via Eventbrite and joining groups via Meetup, seek out Jewish city clubs and groups. Why? The reason is that the same people go to these events over and over and over again.
Instead of being on deadline to get that cute girl’s number immediately, you’ll be able to build a connection slowly if that is more comfortable for you. Let’s say there’s a girl you meet and like but you feel too nervous to approach her or ask her out during your first time at these clubs. That’s ok! You’ll have plenty of other opportunities to chat with her as you continue to attend these groups.
Moreover, proximity breeds trust. Women will feel more comfortable talking to you and getting to know you as you become part of their community.
I have a friend who does community theatre. She’s dated more than a few guys that she met in plays. In fact, it’s not at all uncommon for actors to date other actors. Look at all those famous costar relationships you see splayed across magazines!
She revealed to me that two of the biggest reasons she found herself engaging in shomances for two reasons — proximity and common interests.
When you’re constantly around the same people, it’s natural for romance to ensue at an increased rate. You relate to each other, get to know each other and honestly, it’s just more convenient.
Tip #9: Network with Your Jewish Friends
Network with your other Jewish friends and colleagues. Let them know that you are looking to meet someone who shares your faith and interest in Jewish culture. Ask for introductions – don’t be shy about it.
Tip #10: MegaDate
FYI, you can apply all these tips when looking to find a Jewish girlfriend. There’s no need to choose one over the other — try them all!
The more dates you can racket up the better. When you date people concurrently (i.e., date more than one person at a time), you’re practicing a dating strategy known as MegaDating.
Why Does MegaDating Work?
MegaDating is the main strategy I used during my 100-date experiment. It worked for me and it can work for you too!
When you MegaDate, you see firsthand that there are a lot of fish in the sea. This gives way to an abundance mindset. And when you view the dating landscape as one of abundance, you avoid settling for the mediocre, chasing after women, or getting hung up on the idea of “the one.” Moreover, MegaDating is straight up fun!
If this sounds daunting, don’t worry. It doesn’t have to be. Remember, I’m here to walk you through all the steps that come with MegaDating and all the other facets of the dating world.
Jewish Dating Tips Wrap-up
If you haven’t already, head over to my calendar and book a 1-on-1 Skype session with me today. I can’t wait to learn more about you and help you find the happiness you deserve.
And whether you need more Jewish dating tips, advice on handling relationship issues or anything else, I’ve got you covered.
Talk to you soon!