The 6 Top Relationship Experts To Listen To If You Want To Date & Have More Sex
When it comes to love, relationships, and of course, sex, no one has all the answers.
But, it’s fair to say that some people have better answers than others.
Your buddy that advises you to neg the crap out of a woman you just met on Bumble until she agrees to go out with you doesn’t know what the hell he’s talking about.
Ya know how does?
Top relationship experts that have more higher education degrees than a raw-dogger has STDs.
If you want to become better at dating you have to listen to people that have answers that are more right than wrong.
So who are those people?
So Who Are These Top Relationship Experts?
Esther Perel – Psychotherapist, Author, Podcaster
You know someone’s worth listening to when they have a TED talk… also when they’re a psychotherapist, author, podcaster, and relationship consultant to Oprah.
Esther’s probably best known for her views on infidelity, hell she even wrote a whole book about it.
While cheating is easy to condemn, Perel is more interested in understanding why it happened and what to do next. She argues that the context must always be taken into consideration.
In her book, she explains why one of her clients cheated on her husband.
The wife worked a tireless job and came home every night to a husband that was emotionally and physically distant. He rarely if ever showed her affection and as such, she felt neglected.
Craving the affection that all humans need she sought to fill this emotional void by starting a relationship with a co-worker that valued and cherished her.
After understanding the nuance of the situation she asks who is really in the wrong.
But Esther isn’t only an expert in infidelity.
One of the most impactful quotes she shares about how we think about relationships is: